Love......

*stares out window at the setting sun in complete bliss, and absent minded serenity*

Oh! Didn't see you guys there! VE of course, and here to discuss love....aw, man, anyone as rose-tinted as I am about it? Just thinking about it....damn....I want someone right here, right now.....Lookin' for ms. right....sheesh, where the hell is she!? Any Virgo romantics out there? If so, just seal your post with a S.W.A.K., and I'll be right back 😉

Was the S.W.A.K. line a little much? didn't mean to scare anybody off....! lol 🙂

I'm sorry I don't think Virgos can love.....

VIRGOEXALTED *stares out window at the setting sun in complete bliss, and absent minded serenity*

Oh! Didn't see you guys there! VE of course, and here to discuss love....aw, man, anyone as rose-tinted as I am about it? Just thinking about it....damn....I want someone right here, right now.....Lookin' for ms. right....sheesh, where the hell is she!?

LOL

Love is everywhere. You can find it anytime, anywhere, by all means.

It's just a matter of knowing when you're ready to love someone wholeheartedly and how much sacrifice you can put up with it. How you handle love/others is how you handle yourself.

You are too cute VE

WTH is S.W.A.K...?

Why thank ya kindly for clarifying VG.



*MMMMMWAH* (thats for VE)

Oh! Didn't see you guys there! VE of course, and here to discuss love....aw, man, anyone as rose-tinted as I am about it? Just thinking about it....damn....I want someone right here, right now.....Lookin' for ms. right....sheesh, where the hell is she!? Any Virgo romantics out there? If so, just seal your post with a S.W.A.K., and I'll be right back

Yeah I feel you totally VE. I kinda glad I'm single but it wouldn't be terrible to have someone to fuss over 🙂 Oh yeah, and have him cuddle me ^_^. Yeah, love been on my mind but with such a busy schedule ... he'll break up with me for neglecting him .......

S.W.A.L.K - Sealed with a loving kiss - im a romantic and i love it specially with my lovely Sag. xx

And smoochez for all my adoring friends!! lol 😉

*smiles serenely at Lady M and Cappy*

*launches a barage of kisses and winks at all*

How are ya'll I can't stand it sometimes.....thinking all the time about 'her'....wondering where she is and how 'whole' she can make me....the type of love when you hear music, and and her smile is a ray of light that peirces your own insecurities.....aw, I try to deny it, yeah, I'll TRY, but in the end, I'm just a sappy, sappy virgo....AND LADDIES I DON'T CARE!! LUV YA ALL!! 😉

Should ideal romance cloud the actual application (the real romace)? I mean you've got this fairy-tale feeling of what romance is, or at least what you want it to be....yet you're with someone, whom dosen't make you feel these things; is it wrong to be with them? Should you stave off the feelings of yourself, or pursue these feelings?....I've thought my whole life that 'love would set me free'.....it was always the thing I didn't understand, and the riddle I just felt most threatened by.....I questioned, "how could she love me? She loves me for just the daily things? Just being here beside her, and listening to her heart beat? Oh, god....I'm scared....she's so close to me.....she wants me to hold her....I don't know, I want her yet, I fear myself..." aw, such a dilemma....It's as if it's to good to be true.....it's fantasy on earth.....moments like that that blend reality, and fantasy together....that's what I'm always thinking about; but what if my apprehension is just to prolong my desire for those moments? Is one moment like this ever enough?

hey archer, if you don't mind my asking, what happened between you and your Virgo? If you don't wanna give details find, I'll take the big picture 🙂 I'd like to see if I could offer any advice.

follow where your heart leads you. make sure you know the difference of what's right from wrong. (if both of you are single perfect). you're the only person who can answer all your questions. there's a big difference between being sure than just knowing.

as long as you're open/ready to love another person .. be ready to face the consequences by being submissive, sacrificial, patient, trustworthy and the list goes on .. that i'm sure will change and make a big difference of your life forever.

Love hurts...A LOT...at first I thought it was silly how people used to say "Love is Pain" now I know, it's much worse than pain...

Vgurl is right, as long as ur heart is open to love...but liars are in disquise, and will destroy what left of heart u have left, just to benefit themselves. I say let it come to YOU.

.. and when you are open to love, you are open to get hurt. that's part of the journey and it makes it worthwhile.

i realized that these pain can only be painful for those who refuse to grow on love more than hatred.

i am going to have to agree with vgurl on this one...following your heart is the best way to go. it won't lead you in the wrong direction.

i have been with an aqua for over 2 years now on and off...he doesn't want to listen to his heart and just go with it...he is aqua so he is very logical and fights his emotional feelings very well, but his heart has always led him back to me...and i think he is finally realizing that. he can no longer fight it!

i always listen to my heart and i always know my heart will be honest to me

I agree with BigD..its an unbearable ache, not a nice experience at all, and not something i want to go through again soon. Who knows though..i hope it happens soon x

i'm not sure if i'm right but someone told me and has proven that it's true

.. that when someone found the right person for them they will never want to lose that person and will be willing to do everything for them because they are sure that they can only be the only person who is right for that person.

.. and that would mean they are the only one who can love them.

VE, she'll be with you once you stop wondering about where she is🙂

Not that I'm saying that love is bad...but what happens when your heart is soo mangled by every person you thought truly loved you...love becomes harder and harder, and your 'ability' to sense true love becomes more and more blurred. I've experienced a love that drove me high into the clouds, and in no time, sent me crashing down like a meteor back to earth wit a nuclear explosion-like landing. So for me, this saying stands true...pain is love.

*VE turns around and blushes at chocolateadict*

Could it be you choco.....? 😉

*romantic music plays and VE is wisked away by his wings while chasing after choco with his fabled love arrow* 🙂

lol...Yea, I feel that if you do however let that person whom destroyed your heart in the break up take that heart over completely, and YOU ALLOW them to rend your heart COMPLETETLY, and take your ability to love, then how can you say you've perservered, or survived? I'd think you were taken in by defeat. I still prefer to initiate my romantic feelings and be honest on my part; but I've learned how to discriminate in a world of obscurity to find the love I seek; the 'true love' that I want; you can't spend your life fearing love, and it rewards, thinking that 'people are all the same' it's true, that nothing, and everything exists in contradiction based on one thing; our desire our shoulds, wills, and wants; vgurl is correct; yes there are sacrifices that must be made for the relationship to work, and well; does that mean you necessarily need to sacrifice yourself for it? No, that is where the 'dicernment/sagaciousness' is necessary, compromise, and diplomacy work here; but when those sacrifices begin to outweigh ones feelings for the other, it is unncessary and undesirable on the O.A. (object of affection)'s part......the saga continues ladies, and gents.....🙂

I'd like to be with one that seeks the same truths that I do; no matter how much it hurts, you STILL seek the truth/believe that you know exist beyond the pain; pain cannot be enough to HALT ones feelings/drives to find/seek the truth....life is a part of pain, and pain apart of life....it is what we are given upon entry into the world; our gift, and our curse.... that pain is to let you know you are real, and that you exist to find the one that can, if only for a while soothe the pain, not abolish it completely, becuase what then if pain is abolished? Then you'll just yearn to feel that pain again, to confirm your existence so you feel alive again; no one wants to be alone.... you don't idle around for love to come to you; that's the fantasy of love, the 'sleeping beauty' form...when life isn't so simple....it's just a contradiction.....

I want to be with someone whom makes me feel relaxed, and dosen't always want to criticize my ways; not becuase I am a Virgo, and can't handle it, but becuase it isn't offering me a new perspective to see things from; I for a Virgo, don't rely on criticism alot; I also look a great deal at the bigger picture, and don't need details actually....is this a planetary effect? who knows....I've learned that I am the sum of the best parts of my parents, and that I just need to love myself, and the need to find fault with things is unecessary becuase it is possible for things to be perfect for the way they are; I don't force people to change, and I wouldn't want a person to criticize themselves for a relationship; just be yourself, and the rest will work itself out....why the need to fuss so much over trivial things.....but if one has faith in something the need to criticize, and fault-find will just be uncessary.

***chocolateaddict steps quietly from behind and gives VE a passionate kiss on the cheek and softly wispers 'do you feel better my untamed chocolatechipcookie?'***

VE, really, love usually comes sponteneously, you don't even notice how you fall for someone...that's why i guess they call it 'you fall in love'...once you notice it, you'll realize that the process has started long time ago you just didn't know it...that happened to me...I was looking for love and nothing...but then sudenly we went to visit some friends and i saw him...my heart began to race like crazy...i could feel it...i wouldn't understand what it was but someth wasn't same anymore, later (3years after) i realized what it was...it happens in the moment when you least expect it...trust me🙂

***chocoaddict looks softly at VE's eyes, giving him a gentle kiss goodbye and vanishes into thin air...***

lol....breathtaking....amazing, nothing short of amazing chocolateaddict.....am I searching to hard? Yes, perhaps I am.....I'm going to take a break.....and just put my heart on auto-pilot for a while.....😉


*walks to the pier as the powerful, and gentle waves roll in and out and he sees Choco in the sky, floating into thin air, as his wings open in hope of the future.....*

It's just.....well.....choco, you're a Leo right? Well I am too sorta, (sidreal) but really all I want is to share my heart with someone; my love....I want to not feel this lonliness I've felt for years.....since I was four to be exact....I just turned 18, on the 6th of September, and I STILL feel a deep lonliness....I want to connect my heart with another.....


****stares on into the wild blue yonder of the sky, and VE's wings lift him of the ground to his love***** Cheesey maybe, but true.....yeah....😉

lol....no, like a virgin, it belongs to myself, and is used at my disposal 😉 but no, virgoangoat, I am not a 'good' person; I am a human, and no better than you; I loved people so intensely, and without discernment, and was hurt becuase of that; I didn't know to pull back my personal boundaries, and understand people can or will hurt/use you; my scorpio father was the one I loved a lot; he was my hero for a time, when life was simple, and clean.....then he did just what a scorpio is NOTORIOUS for.....he 'transformed' me.....instead of darkness to light, it was light to darkness.....I with held my heart, and haven't been able to give it properly like I wished to.....I am a person filled with anger, and hurt, and cry tears on the inside now, careful not to let anything out to the 'wrong one'......I supose, I should be angry with my mother for lacking the better judgement, in not leaving him....People sort of loose that when they are or get selfish.....but my heart is not ruined; NO ONE can ruin my heart, as only I can allow that, as our sign is about the possession of the self (spirit, or soul what have you)...I just stay upbeat, and loving towards people in my own way....I really do love people upon deeper inspection....

virgoangoat "I just hope that no one ruins your heart."

Exactly. Virginity yields ignorance, and inexperience. I know the "full" pain, from a serious relationship, pain from a WOMAN...she came and healed me, took me places in the areas of my heart I never knew existed, and left her love in each room. Little did I know, she placed remote bombs there, and my heart was at her disposal. This type of pain can only be experienced through love, and heartbreak is a VERY horrible thing. I already had a hard life, but she helped me. All my childhood memories were with her, and now I can't even look at her the same way. I never want this to happen to me ever again, and I surely don't want it to happen to you, VE. It was...I must admit, a VERY useful bit of experience though.

I guess u can say I've grown sick of the love thing...

lol, that libran moon is about to get you one vivacious virgo!! 😉 you're very kind to say something like that, I suppose I've met my emotional equal....but I think I had to learn darkness, to understand light; I have to transform myself back I think....he taped a place of me, becuase I LET HIM... but I have the power as I am the light within, and I can fix this and cleanse my own heart just by learning to FULLY love myself...I just want (as you have libra moon, you should understand this) to connect with another....to feel that feeling when you're understood, and loved like crazy ya know?! 😉 I'll wait, when I say wait I won't give up the search/hope for that someone.....

It's not that I don't think love is bad, I can't see any benefit in it anymore for me. Ever since the breakup, I've become even MORE of an aquarius, and can't see the benefit of trying to grow emotionally attached to someone. I'm not a fool, I fell for it once, and it's not gonna happen again. There are sacrifices needed to love, and if I don't SEE sacrifice, it can't be love...or at least that's what VE said to me...I don't have any more heart left to sacrifice...

aw, ratz!!!! lol

*sanps fingers with a devilish grin on VE's face* 😉

hehehehehehe!!!! BigD, it's not heart you DON'T have left, it's confidence in it!!! Hey, I am unsure that even mom, or dad, love me, but I know that living further, and experiencing it right, wrong, AND otherwise will only deliver me an INEVITABLE success!! I know it sounds dumb, but you gotta kinda have a song in your heart, and a bounce in your step that somehow all that day-dreaming, and hurting will pay off, untill then you must remain idealistic, and hopeful; see being a Virgo I know this not becuase I am inexperienced but becuase I know that if there's a will then there is a way, even if I can't 'see' it yet.....I've loved someone too, and it hurtz like hell to have had her break up with me, but I would rather keep trying than to kick the bucket; it'll happen, I just had to realize slow down, and wait....patience is a virtue ya know, just keep it up!! You'll never know if you just lay down and quit!!. Also, I hope it does happen! I want to experience everything as It can be a growing experience, and give widom like you've never known....am I right, or is this virgo just to inexperienced? lol

.. for me it's both compromise and sacrifice.

after all the failures i had in my past relationships i realized the big difference of infatuation and love.

.. that when someone truly love they choose to live inside the relationship and when they are plainly infatuated they choose to live outside the relationship. something like a circle of trust both of us (me and my partner) inside that circle trying to grow together and not apart.

Hmmm...it could be possible that I'm actually weak at heart. I had to stay strong through soo much that, once I found someone to lean on for soo long, I forgot the loneliness...I forgot that the only one who can keep me happy is ME, and that's the hard truth I've found through heartbreak. I learned how to cope with loneliness before love and now it hit me like a ton of bricks all at the same time. I'm a strong person, so I've bounced back quickly and learned a heap (Aquarian trait!)

***Chocolateadict falls from heaven eating some crispy chocolate covered almonds...looks at this adorable creature and gently wispers 'here, my little christmass bunny, have some almonds too' gives VE a handfull of chocolate covered almonds with an angelic smile on her face...***

VE, as goat said above, you have really a good heart, and I believe that your love will find you very soon...nothing can be more sexy and powerfully attractive than a person who has so much love in his heart...I personally was always looking for someone who is kind and capeble of loving and wanting to be with someone cause believe me not everyone can do that...and trust me it takes some time to meet such person...and what you said is not cheesy...it's the truth...🙂

***Chocoladeadict gives her shatzchen a warm hug then slowly flys away back to heaven***