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Lust or love
Only time can tell it is lust or love.
I met a couple of guys that I felt strongly attracted to. They were very cute. I dream of having passionate sex with them every night. However, I hold my urge for a while then they turned to other girls. I was like "Damn, why should I be so old-fashioned and not having some good times with any of them?" Later these guys dumped the girls they went out with and started looking for new fun.
I would be calm and patient to look for someone who is willing to know my personality and thoughts before knowing my body. I believe it is all our choice to be in lust or love.
We harvest what we sow.
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Lust or love how do you know the difference?
If friends for a while and then the chemistry changes is it love? If the trust issue etc has been dealt with and you are great friends can lust really come about or is it more?
Not talking about any special relationship here but looking back generally at relationships I have been in.