@VirgoVixxxen
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A kind gesture reflects genuine sentiment and can enhance emotional connections. For Virgos and others, acts of kindness like giving roses or offering support often reveal their caring nature and desire for harmony. Such actions can boost feelings of warmth and trust, strengthening relationships and personal well-being.
Posted by Layna
... I feel soooooooo weird when someone I'm not close to gives me a hug... but I like receiving hugs.Umm. Most recent and nicest... can't think of any outstanding ones. Probably how a girl I met online helped me out with my Facebook game quest LOL! -feels childish-
She's an Aquarius... my life's FILLED with them. No joke. :/
Hey Layna,
Oh I hate those things but it does feel quite nice when someone helps you out with one. It's like you feel so special. 😉 I used to get tons of requests but I never responded.
Aquas are cool. So easy breezy and they give Virgos that great mental stimulation.
Posted by Let*It*Be
What's scary about this nice thread is only one person responded. :-0 I had something really nice done for me that was simple, inexpensive but extremely thoughtful that really put a smile on my face and made my day. (two weeks ago) It's those kind of things I hold on to.
Thanks LIB. Yeah, it's those little things that count. Always nice to know that someone has thought enough about you to do something kind for you.
Posted by dreamer23
Last week a male friend of mine told me that I bravely wear my heart for all to see and that he felt honored to have the opportunity to get to know me. And he is NOT a potential love interest, just a friend. Thought that was sweet. Meant a lot to me. :-)
Awww....how sweet Dreamer. I don't know about wearing MY heart on my sleeve but IT'S NO DOUBT one hell of a brave thing to do, so he's damn right about that. LOL.
Posted by dreamer23
Aw, thank you! — It really did touch my heart. :-)
😉
My guy friend took my trash out for me.....nothing extraordinary but it was very nice and thoughtful lol
Posted by LostinmyMind11
My guy friend took my trash out for me.....nothing extraordinary but it was very nice and thoughtful lol
LOL...so he's doing chores now— Groovy!
LOL....yeah I have no idea...I just let him do it
Posted by LostinmyMind11
LOL....yeah I have no idea...I just let him do it
Gotta love those crabcakes. 😉
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Haha...I'm a totally loser
ewww...I can only imagine....glad I live alone!! lol
Posted by LostinmyMind11
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Haha...I'm a totally loser
How cute! The L word? 😉
AngelicVirgo posted this one on the crabby board and now I think it's my favorite. The Virgin and the Crab...awwww...it speaks volumes.
That picture is perfect....I totally agree!!
Not sure on the L word....but a very strong like!! LOL
Posted by Layna
It's always me taking out the trash from the shared bathroom... even when it's not my sanitary pad rolled up in it HAHA.Tried leaving it so someone else would take it out... but... seeing it overflow was diseffingusting.
LMAO @ 'sanitary pad'. Haven't heard that term in eons. Sanitary napkin, pad...yeesh. I prefer maxi pad.
Posted by LostinmyMind11
That picture is perfect....I totally agree!!
Isn't it? When it works of course.
Posted by LostinmyMind11
Not sure on the L word....but a very strong like!! LOL
Imagine if you had to tell someone that you like them 'strongly'...HA HA.
Tsk, tsk, those aren't walls around that vital organ, LIM. That is a barbed wired fence! hahahahahaaaaaa!!!!!!!
We should create like a unique Virgal language so that we can all communicate like a secret society. ha! You know, like pig latin or some shit. LOL! 😉
Posted by LostinmyMind11
That picture is perfect....I totally agree!!Isn't it? When it works of course.
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Yes.....definitely a lot of patience is needed
Posted by LostinmyMind11
That picture is perfect....I totally agree!!Isn't it? When it works of course.
Yes.....definitely a lot of patience is needed
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What are you still doing up? Are you normally up at this hour? I don't have to work tomorrow so that's my excuse.
Posted by LostinmyMind11
Not sure on the L word....but a very strong like!! LOLImagine if you had to tell someone that you like them 'strongly'...HA HA.
Tsk, tsk, those aren't walls around that vital organ, LIM. That is a barbed wired fence! hahahahahaaaaaa!!!!!!!
We should create like a unique Virgal language so that we can all communicate like a secret society. ha! You know, like pig latin or some shit. LOL! 😉
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You crack my shit up!! The sad thing is....I can see myself saying it...."do you love me" "Ummm I like you strongly...does that count" Hahahaha I think there is more than barbed wire fence....I have a moat with sharks then an electric fence wrapped in barbed wire etc LMAO
I say lets do it...a language all our own...I can only imagine LOL
Posted by LostinmyMind11
That picture is perfect....I totally agree!!Isn't it? When it works of course.
Yes.....definitely a lot of patience is needed
What are you still doing up? Are you normally up at this hour? I don't have to work tomorrow so that's my excuse.
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I took a nap today after work....so I'm wide awake. I'd love to be off tomorrow, shit for the rest of the week would be nice.
Posted by LostinmyMind11
Not sure on the L word....but a very strong like!! LOLImagine if you had to tell someone that you like them 'strongly'...HA HA.
Tsk, tsk, those aren't walls around that vital organ, LIM. That is a barbed wired fence! hahahahahaaaaaa!!!!!!!
We should create like a unique Virgal language so that we can all communicate like a secret society. ha! You know, like pig latin or some shit. LOL! 😉
You crack my shit up!! The sad thing is....I can see myself saying it...."do you love me" "Ummm I like you strongly...does that count" Hahahaha I think there is more than barbed wire fence....I have a moat with sharks then an electric fence wrapped in barbed wire etc LMAO
I say lets do it...a language all our own...I can only imagine LOL
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Now that I think about it, that actually might be a great line. Heard that keeping things grey is the best way to go sometimes with those crabcakes...at least in the beginning. Can't come on too strong or they will book! Virgos are masters at keeping things grey.
Yes, maybe each Virgal can come up with maybe 3 or so words or phrases and send a pm to everyone. This should be fun.
Posted by catguy
Another fascinating thread.
Is that sarcasm I detect? Don't make me skin your ass.
Posted by LostinmyMind11
That picture is perfect....I totally agree!!Isn't it? When it works of course.
Yes.....definitely a lot of patience is needed
What are you still doing up? Are you normally up at this hour? I don't have to work tomorrow so that's my excuse.
I took a nap today after work....so I'm wide awake. I'd love to be off tomorrow, shit for the rest of the week would be nice.
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Yeah, those naps sneak up on yo' ass. Have you up all hours of the night when you got shit ta do the next day. lol
Posted by LostinmyMind11
Not sure on the L word....but a very strong like!! LOLImagine if you had to tell someone that you like them 'strongly'...HA HA.
Tsk, tsk, those aren't walls around that vital organ, LIM. That is a barbed wired fence! hahahahahaaaaaa!!!!!!!
We should create like a unique Virgal language so that we can all communicate like a secret society. ha! You know, like pig latin or some shit. LOL! 😉
You crack my shit up!! The sad thing is....I can see myself saying it...."do you love me" "Ummm I like you strongly...does that count" Hahahaha I think there is more than barbed wire fence....I have a moat with sharks then an electric fence wrapped in barbed wire etc LMAO
I say lets do it...a language all our own...I can only imagine LOL
Now that I think about it, that actually might be a great line. Heard that keeping things grey is the best way to go sometimes with those crabcakes...at least in the beginning. Can't come on too strong or they will book! Virgos are masters at keeping things grey.
Yes, maybe each Virgal can come up with maybe 3 or so words or phrases and send a pm to everyone. This should be fun.
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Yeah I cant even get out the "I like you strongly" part yet LOL Maybe one day...no rushing! I'd probably be the first one to book before he would hahaha
Yes that should be fun!!
^^^He should be our case study. Wonder wtf is going on in that head of his.
I agree about you booking on him first...scarey cat. LOL!
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
^^^He should be our case study. Wonder wtf is going on in that head of his.I agree about you booking on him first...scarey cat. LOL!
Woman, you better put me back on your fav list.
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No!
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
^^^He should be our case study. Wonder wtf is going on in that head of his.I agree about you booking on him first...scarey cat. LOL!
Hahaha....yes he'd probably be an excellent case study. I don't even think he knows what goes on in his head...lol
oh yeah I'd be gone faster than he could say my name....I have my own shell to run to hahaha But I think I'll stick around for a while 😉
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
^^^He should be our case study. Wonder wtf is going on in that head of his.I agree about you booking on him first...scarey cat. LOL!
Woman, you better put me back on your fav list.
No!
...and...why the fuck not?
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Why are you cursing?
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
^^^He should be our case study. Wonder wtf is going on in that head of his.I agree about you booking on him first...scarey cat. LOL!
Hahaha....yes he'd probably be an excellent case study. I don't even think he knows what goes on in his head...lol
oh yeah I'd be gone faster than he could say my name....I have my own shell to run to hahaha But I think I'll stick around for a while 😉click to expand
They can be a bit scary. 'Dangerous' is usually the word that comes to mind when I think about them sometimes. The way they can just act on impulse? Like you say, the way they don't even know what's in their own heads...makes me nervous. Sorry, not trying to discourage you or anything. That's just the other side of it for me. Other than that, I think they're great!
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
^^^He should be our case study. Wonder wtf is going on in that head of his.I agree about you booking on him first...scarey cat. LOL!
Woman, you better put me back on your fav list.
No!
...and...why the fuck not?
Why are you cursing?
No reason really. It's actually a good thing when I'm doing that. It means I'm in a playful mood.
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Doesn't sound too playful to me. Now just calm the hell down. Too late for that shit. Why don't you contribute to the thread by answering the question...
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
^^^He should be our case study. Wonder wtf is going on in that head of his.I agree about you booking on him first...scarey cat. LOL!
Hahaha....yes he'd probably be an excellent case study. I don't even think he knows what goes on in his head...lol
oh yeah I'd be gone faster than he could say my name....I have my own shell to run to hahaha But I think I'll stick around for a while 😉They can be a bit scary. 'Dangerous' is usually the word that comes to mind when I think about them sometimes. The way they can just act on impulse? Like you say, the way they don't even know what's in their own heads...makes me nervous. Sorry, not trying to discourage you or anything. That's just the other side of it for me. Other than that, I think they're great!
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Oh I completely agree....Thats kinda what has stopped me in the past with him. Made me a nervous wreck....but now that he's older...I think he's a lot better....but I'll just sit back and wait and see.
Posted by catguy
hahaha Which question? The original one?
You been drink'n again? Yes the original one...sheesh.
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
^^^He should be our case study. Wonder wtf is going on in that head of his.I agree about you booking on him first...scarey cat. LOL!
Hahaha....yes he'd probably be an excellent case study. I don't even think he knows what goes on in his head...lol
oh yeah I'd be gone faster than he could say my name....I have my own shell to run to hahaha But I think I'll stick around for a while 😉They can be a bit scary. 'Dangerous' is usually the word that comes to mind when I think about them sometimes. The way they can just act on impulse? Like you say, the way they don't even know what's in their own heads...makes me nervous. Sorry, not trying to discourage you or anything. That's just the other side of it for me. Other than that, I think they're great!
Oh I completely agree....Thats kinda what has stopped me in the past with him. Made me a nervous wreck....but now that he's older...I think he's a lot better....but I'll just sit back and wait and see.
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Yeah, when I read that crab board my heart skips a beat each time. Those sad, sad stories. You have to get them when they know what they want and are fairly secure in themselves. Like 40. I kid....ahhhhh...teenage boys of the zodiac.
Posted by catguy
hahaha Which question? The original one?You been drink'n again? Yes the original one...sheesh.
I don't drink. What about the favs thing?
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Tenacious one you are...all at nearly 1:10 in the morning. You never answered the question.
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
^^^He should be our case study. Wonder wtf is going on in that head of his.I agree about you booking on him first...scarey cat. LOL!
Hahaha....yes he'd probably be an excellent case study. I don't even think he knows what goes on in his head...lol
oh yeah I'd be gone faster than he could say my name....I have my own shell to run to hahaha But I think I'll stick around for a while 😉They can be a bit scary. 'Dangerous' is usually the word that comes to mind when I think about them sometimes. The way they can just act on impulse? Like you say, the way they don't even know what's in their own heads...makes me nervous. Sorry, not trying to discourage you or anything. That's just the other side of it for me. Other than that, I think they're great!
Oh I completely agree....Thats kinda what has stopped me in the past with him. Made me a nervous wreck....but now that he's older...I think he's a lot better....but I'll just sit back and wait and see.
Yeah, when I read that crab board my heart skips a beat each time. Those sad, sad stories. You have to get them when they know what they want and are fairly secure in themselves. Like 40. I kid....ahhhhh...teenage boys of the zodiac.
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Oh I know...tell me about it. Not saying mines gonna end up a fairy tale by no means but at least with virgos...we can cut all ties and never look back if things go wrong!
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
^^^He should be our case study. Wonder wtf is going on in that head of his.I agree about you booking on him first...scarey cat. LOL!
Hahaha....yes he'd probably be an excellent case study. I don't even think he knows what goes on in his head...lol
oh yeah I'd be gone faster than he could say my name....I have my own shell to run to hahaha But I think I'll stick around for a while 😉They can be a bit scary. 'Dangerous' is usually the word that comes to mind when I think about them sometimes. The way they can just act on impulse? Like you say, the way they don't even know what's in their own heads...makes me nervous. Sorry, not trying to discourage you or anything. That's just the other side of it for me. Other than that, I think they're great!
Oh I completely agree....Thats kinda what has stopped me in the past with him. Made me a nervous wreck....but now that he's older...I think he's a lot better....but I'll just sit back and wait and see.
Yeah, when I read that crab board my heart skips a beat each time. Those sad, sad stories. You have to get them when they know what they want and are fairly secure in themselves. Like 40. I kid....ahhhhh...teenage boys of the zodiac.
Oh I know...tell me about it. Not saying mines gonna end up a fairy tale by no means but at least with virgos...we can cut all ties and never look back if things go wrong!
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I know right? It's a gift!
On the contrary, those crabcakes can be addictive. Like sitting in a corner, rocking back and forth, scratching your arm addictive. Shit, you see all those stories on the crab board. Yikes! I know. I was almost there but thank God I was able to pull myself from out of the abyss. LOL. They can be so hard to get rid of once they get those pincers in!
Posted by catguy
hahaha Which question? The original one?You been drink'n again? Yes the original one...sheesh.
I don't drink. What about the favs thing?
Tenacious one you are...all at nearly 1:10 in the morning. You never answered the question.
Extremely tenacious. It's 10:11pm over here. So in Pacific Standard time it means I don't give a fuck what time it is back east.
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Sigh, are you trying to pick a fight with me at 1:20am east coast time?
Still didn't answer the question...
Posted by catguy
hahaha Which question? The original one?You been drink'n again? Yes the original one...sheesh.
I don't drink. What about the favs thing?
Tenacious one you are...all at nearly 1:10 in the morning. You never answered the question.
Extremely tenacious. It's 10:11pm over here. So in Pacific Standard time it means I don't give a fuck what time it is back east.
Sigh, are you trying to pick a fight with me at 1:20am east coast time?
Still didn't answer the question...
Again, I live on the muthafuckin' west coast. I like your avatar, btw.
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Duh!!! Like, I know that. I'm referencing MY coast...k.
Don't try to butter me up.
Sometimes being "emotionless" or however people wanna call it....is a good thing lol
I know...that's what I'm afraid of....being addicted and never getting the pincers out! But I'll keep my pot of boiling water by my side LOL
Posted by catguy
@VV -- why would I have to butter you up? lol. I'm just being me. That avatar is hot.
What the...would you leave me the hell alone and go yo' ass to bed! The tigers and bears are all asleep and here it is 1:30 east coast time and yo' ass is still up?
Don't you think you've derailed my thread long enough? Rude ass.
Posted by LostinmyMind11
Sometimes being "emotionless" or however people wanna call it....is a good thing lol
I know...that's what I'm afraid of....being addicted and never getting the pincers out! But I'll keep my pot of boiling water by my side LOL
Scary innit?
LOL @ hot boiling water! Don't forget a 40oz of Budweiser. Gotstah make that shit tasty!
Posted by catguy
@VV -- why would I have to butter you up? lol. I'm just being me. That avatar is hot.What the...would you leave me the hell alone and go yo' ass to bed! The tigers and bears are all asleep and here it is 1:30 east coast time and yo' ass is still up?
Don't you think you've derailed my thread long enough? Rude ass.
I'm not tired. Well, actually I am, but I don't feel like going to bed yet. My mind is rolling.
I can't take my eyes off that fuckin' avatar.
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Go to sleep. Soon you'll be a babbling fool.
Compliments will get you nowhere.
Posted by LostinmyMind11
Sometimes being "emotionless" or however people wanna call it....is a good thing lol
I know...that's what I'm afraid of....being addicted and never getting the pincers out! But I'll keep my pot of boiling water by my side LOLScary innit?
LOL @ hot boiling water! Don't forget a 40oz of Budweiser. Gotstah make that shit tasty!
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Now I'm hungry LOL on that note...I better take my ass to bed!! Have a nice day off VV!!
Posted by LostinmyMind11
Sometimes being "emotionless" or however people wanna call it....is a good thing lol
I know...that's what I'm afraid of....being addicted and never getting the pincers out! But I'll keep my pot of boiling water by my side LOLScary innit?
LOL @ hot boiling water! Don't forget a 40oz of Budweiser. Gotstah make that shit tasty!
Now I'm hungry LOL on that note...I better take my ass to bed!! Have a nice day off VV!!
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Night! Night! Have a great day at work tomorrow!
Was just over hanging out with my virguy friend. It was time to go, since we both had a busy day ahead. I thanked him for making time to chill & shoot the shit, and he (with his head turned away and in a quiet tone) said "always".
We crabcakes love that assurance of permanence. As virgoish & reserved as he is, that one word in context let me know that he appreciates our time together, me as a friend, and that i can count on that as a fact of life.
That's nice.
Was having a really bad day today, at work--and they gave me a backrub :")
^ That's great! 🙂 I needed a smile tonight too.
First of all, I have to say: Very nice topic!
Hmm... where do I start?... I think with the crab... He said to me the most beautiful words that touched my soul. Yesterday we've hugged and I asked him... "You still love me... is it?" And he says "Enough" And I asked "How much enough is?" He says... "Strong enough". And completes with "I feel you close to me".
I remember one thing the crab did for me long time ago. I bought 2 coffees for us. He had to do something so he went ahead. I found the door from the office unlocked, and a little bit opened. He knew I would have my hands occupied, se he opened the door in advance. Such a small thing, brought so much joy into my heart.
And there is another male colleague ( a scorpio). Sometimes he brings me chocolate drink. That is sweet too.
And... for Christmas, my mom (a cancerian) gave me a jewelry box and a little ball with a happy face on it. That was also very very sweet, because I can't remember when was the last time I have received such a great present to meet my desires and tastes. I have the little ball with the happy face at the office, on my desk. The crab just loves it and we always play with it (and have to say... it brings us closer). And he makes funny faces to complete the smiley ball.
Just remembered... my mom told me yesterday about a dream she had. I was holding a white pigeon and wanted to let it go. And she said to me.. don't do that! Look how soft it is, you should keep it! Same day (as I told you at the beginning of the post) met the crab... spent such a great time together at the office... I tried to ignore him... But he started... look I have new shoes... look, I have a new hair cut... look at me! 🙂 My mom's dream fits very well with my intentions to let go to the crab... to distance myself from him.... it's weird... And there is something else... My mom had a brother who died long time ago... she loved him very much and sometimes I think she still suffers, and... the crab shares the same birthday with my uncle... Should it mean something?
Posted by sandyclaws
Was just over hanging out with my virguy friend. It was time to go, since we both had a busy day ahead. I thanked him for making time to chill & shoot the shit, and he (with his head turned away and in a quiet tone) said "always".We crabcakes love that assurance of permanence. As virgoish & reserved as he is, that one word in context let me know that he appreciates our time together, me as a friend, and that i can count on that as a fact of life.
That's nice.
LOL @ "shoot the shit". Haven't heard that in so long.
What a mighty splendid connection you two have. I tell ya, crabs and virgins go together like peanut butter and jelly, like ham & eggs, like fish & chips, like...well you get my drift. 😉
I know you're already involved but if the two of you were an item...fuggedaboutit!
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So Virgos (and friends) what was it?
How did you feel? What was the purpose behind it? Do you think it was given out of true sentiment?
Mine is kinda small but still nice. "Fire & Ice" roses given by a co-worker today for helping her out with a project (you know how we do).
and she gave me a hug (I felt hella weird) and now I suddenly feel all warm and fuzzy inside. 😉
So tell me...