VirgoVixxxen
@VirgoVixxxen
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Posted by 25thDecan
I. Legends Cafe let me and my co-producer/rapper perform one of our little hits last Wednesday. They didn't have to do that...and they showed love. It's a DIVE...which I love playing/performing at...because 1)it's where you pay your dues and 2) you never know who's watching and it makes for good practice.
And..they asked us back. It's free and open mic and never crowded but hey....this is the love of what it is to be a musician/artist/composer. I felt all warm inside(which has been rare considering some setbacks I've had). And it inspired me to crank three more songs.
II. My father sent me an email detailing the things in life he's personally seen me succeed at and why he's proud of me.
III. My father and I are talking more often(civilly and not in some debate or cynical world view conversation) about just about anything. The guy is/has always been a Superman figure to me. I've seen him go through ALOT and just to get positive attention from him as a son(even though I'm 29) for me does wonders for my personal confidence.
IV. My lil sis cooked me those fried oysters and shrimp w'cajun spices just awhile back. I love her cooking, reminds me of my grandmother(paternal). I was heartbroken when she died in 2000 and my lil sis knows that her "food" makes me remember her and the love I felt when in her presence.
V. Yesterday, my friend/co-producer/rapper pointed out that my sound has improved(on my horn) and the last three tunes I wrote(drums and all) have inspired him.
So....I'll be giving back positively because of all I've recieved as of late. After work tomorrow, I'm going to help a local high school band's brass section with their wind ensemble music. And, I'm going to continue with positive reinforcement like I did last time. It's awesome how when kids learn and see it applied(and they see you teaching them with a smile and not a critique or yell) how hungry they get for more and how much they appreciate your time. I was like that once. Ok, rambling...but I needed this smile tonight.
Posted by catguy
How do I get tangled up with these Virgo-moody-toward-Leo things?

Posted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by CLCNY30
Was having a really bad day today, at work--and they gave me a backrub :")
Hmmmm....who's "they"? πclick to expand
Posted by CLCNY30Posted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by CLCNY30
Was having a really bad day today, at work--and they gave me a backrub :")
Hmmmm....who's "they"? π
Lmfao, you already know.
It took me by surprise, but it made my day.click to expand
Posted by 25thDecan
Fyi...gumbo isn't cajun per se but cajuns do eat it. Its a lot like she-crab soup
Posted by AngelicVirgo
First of all, I have to say: Very nice topic!
Hmm... where do I start?... I think with the crab... He said to me the most beautiful words that touched my soul. Yesterday we've hugged and I asked him... "You still love me... is it?" And he says "Enough" And I asked "How much enough is?" He says... "Strong enough". And completes with "I feel you close to me".
I remember one thing the crab did for me long time ago. I bought 2 coffees for us. He had to do something so he went ahead. I found the door from the office unlocked, and a little bit opened. He knew I would have my hands occupied, se he opened the door in advance. Such a small thing, brought so much joy into my heart.
And there is another male colleague ( a scorpio). Sometimes he brings me chocolate drink. That is sweet too.
And... for Christmas, my mom (a cancerian) gave me a jewelry box and a little ball with a happy face on it. That was also very very sweet, because I can't remember when was the last time I have received such a great present to meet my desires and tastes. I have the little ball with the happy face at the office, on my desk. The crab just loves it and we always play with it (and have to say... it brings us closer). And he makes funny faces to complete the smiley ball.
Just remembered... my mom told me yesterday about a dream she had. I was holding a white pigeon and wanted to let it go. And she said to me.. don't do that! Look how soft it is, you should keep it! Same day (as I told you at the beginning of the post) met the crab... spent such a great time together at the office... I tried to ignore him... But he started... look I have new shoes... look, I have a new hair cut... look at me! π My mom's dream fits very well with my intentions to let go to the crab... to distance myself from him.... it's weird... And there is something else... My mom had a brother who died long time ago... she loved him very much and sometimes I think she still suffers, and... the crab shares the same birthday with my uncle... Should it mean something?
Posted by venusianbull
One of my dear Pisces friends stayed up with all me night and on into the morning to talk and lend an ear.


Posted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by CLCNY30Posted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by CLCNY30
Was having a really bad day today, at work--and they gave me a backrub :")
Hmmmm....who's "they"? π
Lmfao, you already know.
It took me by surprise, but it made my day.
Why of course. Clever girl you. So its stepped up its game I see. I think we're moving into soap opera territory.click to expand

Posted by 25thDecanPosted by Virgobeauty
A guy held the door open for me as I entered the building this morning lol. I know its minor, but I pay attention to things like that. Old fashioned gentlemen are hard to come by these days π
You're welcomeclick to expand
Posted by Virgobeauty
A guy held the door open for me as I entered the building this morning lol. I know its minor, but I pay attention to things like that. Old fashioned gentlemen are hard to come by these days π
Posted by CLCNY30Posted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by CLCNY30Posted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by CLCNY30
Was having a really bad day today, at work--and they gave me a backrub :")
Hmmmm....who's "they"? π
Lmfao, you already know.
It took me by surprise, but it made my day.
Why of course. Clever girl you. So its stepped up its game I see. I think we're moving into soap opera territory.
Yep, lol. Keeping a safe distance, but the force is strong with this one...click to expand
Posted by VirgobeautyPosted by 25thDecanPosted by Virgobeauty
A guy held the door open for me as I entered the building this morning lol. I know its minor, but I pay attention to things like that. Old fashioned gentlemen are hard to come by these days π
You're welcome
Lolclick to expand

Posted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by Virgobeauty
A guy held the door open for me as I entered the building this morning lol. I know its minor, but I pay attention to things like that. Old fashioned gentlemen are hard to come by these days π
Hi Virgobeauty,
How nice. We are some traditional souls now aren't we. I like the holding of the door thing very much. Makes me feel so girly.
On a few occassions however, I have caught some guys using it as way just to check out my ass...MEN! π Gotta love chivalry!!!!click to expand
Posted by VirgobeautyPosted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by Virgobeauty
A guy held the door open for me as I entered the building this morning lol. I know its minor, but I pay attention to things like that. Old fashioned gentlemen are hard to come by these days π
Hi Virgobeauty,
How nice. We are some traditional souls now aren't we. I like the holding of the door thing very much. Makes me feel so girly.
On a few occassions however, I have caught some guys using it as way just to check out my ass...MEN! π Gotta love chivalry!!!!
Lmao! Yeah you're right, but hey they can look, as long as they don't touch! lolclick to expand

Posted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by CLCNY30Posted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by CLCNY30Posted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by CLCNY30
Was having a really bad day today, at work--and they gave me a backrub :")
Hmmmm....who's "they"? π
Lmfao, you already know.
It took me by surprise, but it made my day.
Why of course. Clever girl you. So its stepped up its game I see. I think we're moving into soap opera territory.
Yep, lol. Keeping a safe distance, but the force is strong with this one...
Girl that force is so strong I'm feeling it! Shit!
Just be sure that if anybody's gonna be playing any Jedi mind tricks it's you and not 'IT'. (gotta use code around here. π)
I don't wanna have to come down there and cut a MUTHA!click to expand
Posted by CLCNY30Posted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by CLCNY30Posted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by CLCNY30Posted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by CLCNY30
Was having a really bad day today, at work--and they gave me a backrub :")
Hmmmm....who's "they"? π
Lmfao, you already know.
It took me by surprise, but it made my day.
Why of course. Clever girl you. So its stepped up its game I see. I think we're moving into soap opera territory.
Yep, lol. Keeping a safe distance, but the force is strong with this one...
Girl that force is so strong I'm feeling it! Shit!
Just be sure that if anybody's gonna be playing any Jedi mind tricks it's you and not 'IT'. (gotta use code around here. π)
I don't wanna have to come down there and cut a MUTHA!
LMFAOOOOO, nah--like I said, safe distance and just livin' my life. If it happens it happens, if not--life will go on.click to expand

Posted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by CLCNY30Posted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by CLCNY30Posted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by CLCNY30Posted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by CLCNY30
Was having a really bad day today, at work--and they gave me a backrub :")
Hmmmm....who's "they"? π
Lmfao, you already know.
It took me by surprise, but it made my day.
Why of course. Clever girl you. So its stepped up its game I see. I think we're moving into soap opera territory.
Yep, lol. Keeping a safe distance, but the force is strong with this one...
Girl that force is so strong I'm feeling it! Shit!
Just be sure that if anybody's gonna be playing any Jedi mind tricks it's you and not 'IT'. (gotta use code around here. π)
I don't wanna have to come down there and cut a MUTHA!
LMFAOOOOO, nah--like I said, safe distance and just livin' my life. If it happens it happens, if not--life will go on.
I know, I know, but if he starts acting up, let a sistuh know 'cause his ass could be sleep'n with the fishes real fast. πclick to expand
Posted by STARPISCESWAR
My Virgo Childh??d Friend She Is Very Nice Pers?n, She Gift Me One Jacket On My Birthday and I Like That Jacket S? Much (That C?unt?)
Posted by CLCNY30Posted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by CLCNY30Posted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by CLCNY30Posted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by CLCNY30Posted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by CLCNY30
Was having a really bad day today, at work--and they gave me a backrub :")
Hmmmm....who's "they"? π
Lmfao, you already know.
It took me by surprise, but it made my day.
Why of course. Clever girl you. So its stepped up its game I see. I think we're moving into soap opera territory.
Yep, lol. Keeping a safe distance, but the force is strong with this one...
Girl that force is so strong I'm feeling it! Shit!
Just be sure that if anybody's gonna be playing any Jedi mind tricks it's you and not 'IT'. (gotta use code around here. π)
I don't wanna have to come down there and cut a MUTHA!
LMFAOOOOO, nah--like I said, safe distance and just livin' my life. If it happens it happens, if not--life will go on.
I know, I know, but if he starts acting up, let a sistuh know 'cause his ass could be sleep'n with the fishes real fast. π
LOL
I got neka, and a Cap at work saying the same
I haz protekshin! πclick to expand
Posted by catguyPosted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by catguy
How do I get tangled up with these Virgo-moody-toward-Leo things?
Virgos are NOT moody.
*sigh* this stuff is old hat for the cat.click to expand
Posted by catguy
VV, I luuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuvvvv that avatar.



Posted by VirgoVixxxen
Sandy you and that blasted Virgo just needs to go ahead and get married already!!! π
I read somewhere once that V's & C's don't really have to get married because from the start, the relationship is damn near seamless and they behave like 'life partners' even when they are just friends.
Very 'Virgo' of him to give you the view and I'm sure that you being a Cancer would have done the same for him in return.
Posted by sandyclawsPosted by VirgoVixxxen
Sandy you and that blasted Virgo just needs to go ahead and get married already!!! π
I read somewhere once that V's & C's don't really have to get married because from the start, the relationship is damn near seamless and they behave like 'life partners' even when they are just friends.
Very 'Virgo' of him to give you the view and I'm sure that you being a Cancer would have done the same for him in return.
The one thing I do know is that we'd kill each other trying to cohabit π
My partner is cancer sun, virgo moon & rising, so I get a lot of thoughtful treatment at home too, just with a side of moodiness sometimes π
My vgf does nice things for a lot of people, but doesn't always get thanked for it. I try to always 'notice' when he does something sweet, because it's sweet, and also because being a squishy cancer, I know how nice it feels when someone notices extra effort. I'm sure that's true for everyone, but virgos & cancers esp seem to enjoy doing things for their people, even when they get no thanks for it.click to expand

Posted by Grael1975
My male Virgo 'friend' who I have only been talking to for 5 weeks came round when I was battling to clean my secondhand bike I had bought (since he had said I should get to know it by cleaning it up myself), and without asking him or even suggesting it, and with a bad back, he finished cleaning it for me. I found it very kind and sweet.



Posted by seadream
Yesterday when lunchtime came round (I work in the food industry) there was nothing on the menu I really wanted so decided to give it a miss and sit and read for a while....ten minutes later a Virgo friend and colleague placed a fresh pan fried chicken and pepper wrap with mango mayo infont of me. Appart from tasting divine it was a lovely thoughtful thing to do, before I left I ruffled his hair and thanked him for lunch and the smile I got in return was the sweetest and is still bringing a smile to my face now......Underneath that analytical, systematic mind of you peeps there's a really sweet thoughtful side to you that can be very touching....Just thought I'd share that
Posted by SomeRandomVirgo
my lioness brought me food when i was hungry at work...in the rain...in the middle of the night...and had to use a gps to find me. *sigh* what a sweetheart, i honestly wanted to cry.
Posted by quo vadis?
@VirgoVixen : "I always say that Virgos and Cancers are pretty much the same person underneath it all and I think this is where much of the conflict can come in (sometimes I don't know whether I want to hug or strangle you guys!)"
i like how you state this^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^π and understand it
virgo male colleaugues helped me to solve a problem ,interrupting their important tasks,putting aside precious minutes from their busy schedule.
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i was taken aback when they did it,because i know they don't like me/i'm not using "like" in the physical context/
i thanked them,but is it possible a simple word like this to reward them?
perhaps it does not express enough my appreciation , could do it in a better way?
Posted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by seadream
Yesterday when lunchtime came round (I work in the food industry) there was nothing on the menu I really wanted so decided to give it a miss and sit and read for a while....ten minutes later a Virgo friend and colleague placed a fresh pan fried chicken and pepper wrap with mango mayo infont of me. Appart from tasting divine it was a lovely thoughtful thing to do, before I left I ruffled his hair and thanked him for lunch and the smile I got in return was the sweetest and is still bringing a smile to my face now......Underneath that analytical, systematic mind of you peeps there's a really sweet thoughtful side to you that can be very touching....Just thought I'd share that
Now isn't he the cutest.
Hight time for you to make it happen, girl. πclick to expand
Posted by seadreamPosted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by seadream
Yesterday when lunchtime came round (I work in the food industry) there was nothing on the menu I really wanted so decided to give it a miss and sit and read for a while....ten minutes later a Virgo friend and colleague placed a fresh pan fried chicken and pepper wrap with mango mayo infont of me. Appart from tasting divine it was a lovely thoughtful thing to do, before I left I ruffled his hair and thanked him for lunch and the smile I got in return was the sweetest and is still bringing a smile to my face now......Underneath that analytical, systematic mind of you peeps there's a really sweet thoughtful side to you that can be very touching....Just thought I'd share that
Now isn't he the cutest.
Hight time for you to make it happen, girl. π
Hey I'm gonna work on it and thankyou sweetie just hope I have the balls to see it through....and freak I don't have smilies (downloaded some and caught a virus...ouch) so a smilie right back at yaclick to expand
Posted by virg_goki
The hug that I always get from my favourite cancer is the best thing that happens to me. She just knows how to make it worth a million dollars π
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