My Virgo male loves me alot... But he thinks I'm just dating him for the moment... And he will never live up to being my husband...
Anytime I help him with something... He thinks I'm preparing to leave him. For instance... Since we are low on money for the seasons... I asked if I should just buy a whole bunch of food... That way we won't have to spend as much money buying food out everyday. He asked me If I was trying to make sure he is fed... When I leave. I didn't bother to say anything.
I know he is a little scared... Because I'm the first girl he has ever gotten serious with... As he is my first.
I know us Aries can be a lil oblivious sometimes... SO thats why I'm asking... What can I do to make my Virgo know... I'm with him, only him... And For now I see no other.
-So he knew I'd be with him... I asked if he wanted to start a ritual... Since this is my first valentines being someone... I asked If I could take care of it... And each year we could Alternate.... You know the deal... So he knows I see us a LONG term thing.
I just think it will take time for him to build trust and become confortable. Some people are not as secure as others.
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But he thinks I'm just dating him for the moment...
And he will never live up to being my husband...
Anytime I help him with something... He thinks I'm preparing to leave him.
For instance... Since we are low on money for the seasons... I asked if I should just buy a whole bunch of food... That way we won't have to spend as much money buying food out everyday. He asked me If I was trying to make sure he is fed... When I leave. I didn't bother to say anything.
I know he is a little scared... Because I'm the first girl he has ever gotten serious with... As he is my first.
I know us Aries can be a lil oblivious sometimes... SO thats why I'm asking... What can I do to make my Virgo know... I'm with him, only him... And For now I see no other.
-So he knew I'd be with him... I asked if he wanted to start a ritual... Since this is my first valentines being someone... I asked If I could take care of it... And each year we could Alternate.... You know the deal... So he knows I see us a LONG term thing.