Need advices

Need advices

I need help with this virgo girl because i'm still wishing that we can stay together and if i have her i will feel that i'm the happiest man ever!!!! Because she was very lovely,kind,caring,supporting and gave me moral support!! and because of her i was saved from a big fail...well I'm still grateful and i really love her badly that i see her picture daily in my mind🙂
But suddenly she started ignoring for a long times and that made me upsets a lot so i sent her a message telling her i dont want to be her friends anymoreee (because i was too hurt and couldnt take it anymore) she replyed to me late at night telling me all the happiness and sucess but nothing else i felt that she didnt care about me anymore...Now 4 month have passed and i miss her badly :/ I need some helps to get her back and some explanation to changes in her mood
...thankx in advance
Your sad fish.

Posted by LoveSeeker
I need help with this virgo girl because i'm still wishing that we can stay together and if i have her i will feel that i'm the happiest man ever!!!! Because she was very lovely,kind,caring,supporting and gave me moral support!! and because of her i was saved from a big fail...well I'm still grateful and i really love her badly that i see her picture daily in my mind🙂
But suddenly she started ignoring for a long times and that made me upsets a lot so i sent her a message telling her i dont want to be her friends anymoreee (because i was too hurt and couldnt take it anymore) she replyed to me late at night telling me all the happiness and sucess but nothing else i felt that she didnt care about me anymore...Now 4 month have passed and i miss her badly :/ I need some helps to get her back and some explanation to changes in her mood
...thankx in advance
Your sad fish.

Unfortunately, I would say she has moved on. If you really want to know, contact her and feel it out. Virgo serve a lot, and don't ask a lot in return. We can be very healing to those we love and care about. However, sometimes people take advantage of that, and if we feel that is what is happening, it can be very hard. We need a shoulder to lean on just as much. We truly want to help, and sometimes the helping becomes too much, especially when it isn't returned. We are human. I'm not saying that was the case with your situation, and maybe she did become sidetracked, etc.. but when you are a virgo's mind and thoughts.. you will know. This is where the hot and cold of the virgo world comes into play.
I have used that same line myself before many times and wished someone the best. I always truly mean it, but I was on the way out the door. I might love and care about someone, but if they aren't for me, I hope that they find what or who they need.
I'm sorry that you are hurting from this all. Maybe just contacting her and being frank about how you feel would be a good idea. I have had someone do that and I was very honest about why and what I felt about the situation. I'm not sure which way it would go unless I know more.

In hindsight it would have been better if you had asked her why she was ignoring you before telling her you didn't want to be friends anymore. That would have given her a chance to answer rather than giving her the impression you didn't care. If you tell a Virgo you don't want to be friends anymore than even if they love/like you they will wish you the best as they don't want to hold anyone back on their path or hold themselves back. If they feel that the only way they and yourself can move on then unfortunately they will freeze you out of their life.

If I don't want to know someone anymore than I do tend to ignore that person hoping they get the message I don't want to know them anymore as I don't want to hurt them. If they then ask me why I will tell them but it will be the truth which then can hurt them.

I don't know what was going on in her life or why she started ignoring you or whether she would get back with you but the best thing to do is ask her just be prepared for a truthful answer.

First....thank youu for answering me lindavi2 and virgangel glad you are here 🙂

You said that she moved up and she dosent want me anymore but why i never hurted her or did something bad for her what went wrong,instead of ignoring me why she didnt tell me the cause at least i could fix it do you think the problem is with me or with her i really love her and i want to stay in my life she is the beauty of my life

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