need help!

i jst want to consult something to u guys because im really having trouble with this virgo guy..im not sure of our

situation.i think we are only having a mutual understanding... no verbal talks about feelings but we show it through

actions...yesterday night we slept together for the second time and we kiss each other for the first time and have

foreplays but no sex...we have been together for more than a year now,together almost everyday and just only this month

we had intimacy..... though we slept together,we never really opend about the feelings we have... right now, i just

realize that i think im left hanging because i dont know if he has feelings for me...or should i say, i know but im not

assured because he never told me.. and i almost gave my all to him...body and soul...and i find it awkward to have

intimacy without knowing our status.... is it okay to ask him what our stand right now since intimacy is there already??

wouldnt it be awkward huh? what are the chances that its only lust that

drives him to act that way?(but i doubt) addition to that, during we are having foreplay...he so caring and not that agressive as

compared to others.. lol... but really, i want to know how can i open up and ask him about our feelings for each

other(whether he has,... but i think he really has) without being so awkward and embarassing? please tell me your

opinions... specially CAJUN!! thanks

i really need advise from u guys!

so are you saying that if a VIRGO GUY is with someone for more than a year and started to be intimate... could it mean he already has feelings for me? i dont think its a virguys'attitude to be act and play around..especially he's in the late 30's already?

ask him.

If you're waiting for him to bring it up - well,

Honestly, I think you don't want to ask him and are afraid to because you won't like the answer.

You've been together for a year, but you just kissed this month? I don't understand how you can "be" with somebody and you haven't discussed on what level?

"Mutual understandings" without conversation cannot be certain.

Ask him before you go deeper in your feelings for him.