Need Virgo Guy Advice please {Scorp Gal here}

Long story short, he's a Virgo guy and I'm a Scorp gal and we met at the neighborhood bar where I work. It's been five months and I've never seen him come in with a girl {or guy} friend and know that he mostly hangs out in a town on the other side of the bridge. I figured he must not have many friends near him, no big deal.

A couple months ago, after a few times of hanging out on the same side of the bar together for happy hour and enjoying hours-long of conversation, he invited me to come over to his house to try the beer he's brewed and "hang out". I was curious, so I went. Mind you, this guy is a typical gentleman of a Virgo - down to the firefighter job to cooking for his dog - so I had no worries about going over to his house. Nothing happened between us...but I'd be lying if I didn't notice something...developing between us since then.

I didn't notice it at first. I had just started dating a guy I liked {Taurus}, so I genuinely thought my Virgo guy's invitation was purely platonic and friendly. Virgo and I had a buddy kind of friendship - we would have a couple of drinks at the bar and then go to his house and hang out for another couple of hours and then I'd go home. It started raising eyebrows at work and the girls started teasing me about how 'close' Virgo and I 'seemed to be getting', which made me start paying attention, and then I began to feel guilty about all the time I was spending with my Virgo friend. Most of the time it was because my Taurus was dropping the dating ball, and eventually I called that off because I didn't want the confusion. Virgo knew I was seeing Taurus, but I never spoke of him until I let Virgo know I'd ended it. I don't know why I never felt it appropriate to talk about Taurus with him, but it didn't - yet I felt it appropriate to tell him when it was over. It was a relief almost. Honestly, I think I told him to let him know I was available.

Whatever mind voodoo he's doing to me, it's working. We still hang out as friends, and things feel like they're getting thicker between us body language-wise, but he's still not making a move...will he? Is he interested? Is this typical Virgo dating dance or just my hopeful imagination?

I am a Scorp female and I dated a Virgo male many moons ago (mind you it was amazing and he STILL contacts me via text/phone even though he is married). That said, they do play mind games even though they may truly like you and enjoy your company. It always seemed to me that my Virgo guy couldn't get himself to commit to moving forward with me. He liked to "hang out" as you say, but never talked about anything more serious. I had to eventually cut him loose and move on without him. Needless to day we are both still in each other's hearts and minds to this day, almost 15 years later. Good luck!

As a virgo male. He is what you do. He may think your friend zoning him. But he may want you just as much as you want him.

So touch him. I mean give him a physical hug or rub his back in a girlfriend way.

He'll drop the gentleman repose in no time. Maybe not then and there but he will.

No mind games with him, he just values so much that if he makes a move and it is wrong it would kill him to lose as a friend. No mystery just palying it safe on his part.