Virgo may not have noticed, even if he did, he might not have cared!
This is exactly why I do not like office romances. Screws up many things while executives are doing their work and lower level staff engaging in useless daydreams. I generally start moving one person out to the other group. If that does not solve the problem, definitely one or more jobs are on the line. No mercy for romancing in office while at work.
and as for being conclusive, virgos are not that IDIOTS. So **NO** in most cases they do not jump to conclusions w/o analyzing facts/details, etc. If they really like you/love you, they get jealous/competative/hide/critical (oh yes this can shock you)/defensive and finally caring to do EVERY THING for you. To get to this point requires real guts and patience and under no circumstances it can be any head games/games to "get him" without really loving him. He will find out if it's infatuation or love for him.
I guess I just don't see it the same way .. of course, my interpretation of many things is not in accordance with most people. But, here's what I see with this situation:
Be yourself, period. If being you would have silly "girl talk" with a co-worker about hunky men, then that is who you are and shouldn't change that because then you would change you. It's harmless girl stuff, just like men sitting in bars talking about the waitresses butts, is just man talk and doesn't mean anything.
In essence .. you were being who you are with your friend, and now second guessing whether it is right or wrong for another person to accept or disprove ..
> making mountain out of molehill
And that is a clear indication of how this relationship will continue. You set the tone .. if you make a big deal, then it will be a big deal. If you set the tone that it was just silly girl talk, then it will be taken for what it means = nothing.
In your position, I probably wouldn't even feel the need to justify to the Virgo that this hunk was gay .. I wouldn't feel the need to justify anything to him if this silly girl talk meant nothing .. for if you feel the need to justify/clarify .. then that indicates that it indeed meant something because you were compelled to defend yourself.
Guilty defends theirself .. innocent does not. And him being a Virgo must just take it that way.
He might just look at you thinking, "If it was nothing, then why are you so determined to talk your way out of it."
Virgo may not have noticed, even if he did, he might not have cared!
This is exactly why I do not like office romances. Screws up many things while executives are doing their work and lower level staff engaging in useless daydreams. I generally start moving one person out to the other group. If that does not solve the problem, definitely one or more jobs are on the line. No mercy for romancing in office while at work.
Wake up!