Pretty confused with this Virgo guy..

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by BankyaBS5 on Sunday, December 8, 2013 and has 4 replies.

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@Geminisces
12 Years

Well, i know i shouldnt be giving advice since i have terrible experience with a specific virgo... But i do know that virgos like to take things slow and test out the waters first. What is your sign?

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@BankyaBS5
12 Years

I am Aries/Taurus cusp, a big mess if you ask me, haha. How slow is slow because I tend to be pretty impatient :/

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@LetltB
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Posted by BankyaBS5
I am Aries/Taurus cusp, a big mess if you ask me, haha. How slow is slow because I tend to be pretty impatient :/

What's the rush? Sounds like he's treating you like a queen when you go out, are you acknowledging that to him? If you can't tolerate his pace and be patient, he'll sense this immediately and run (not walk) away. Are you blowing up his cell phone? They hate that too. Let him be the man and call the shots.

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@LetltB
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Also...next time you are out, you may want to communicate with him in a subtle way and ask him if he sees you as more than a friend. Don't force him to define, it's a simple yes or no question and answer and up to him to elaborate when he is comfortable to do so on his terms. That's just how these guys rock and roll. Patience will pay off if you allow it. Good luck.

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@BankyaBS5
12 Years

Thank you so much for the feedback! Well, I don't think I'm blowing up his phone because appreciate his space plus I'm not exactly the kind of person who needs to knows what the other person is doing or thinking 24/7. I have a feeling that probably he is in doubt of my feelings, too, because I act cool around him, I rarely expose my feelings at all and I find it hard to do it when I'm unsure in the other person. I'll slow down a bit and be patient (*motivation*)