puzzled again

Thing have been going well w us I thought. .....and recently the virguy I'm seeing suggest I date other guys.......he says I should get out of my shell.
So does that mean he isn't interested anymore.
I've never had this happen to me before....however I am experiencing a lot of weirdness w this guy.
Is this apart of the pull away if ur feelings are getting to involved or what is it?

I think most virgo guys like to put off a front and their nonchalant nature will definitely piss you off so much because I'm in sort in the same situation

Virgo or not, I don't think it is in a mans nature to want their women dating/with another man (few exceptions, like swingers).

Why would dating other men bring you out of a shell? If he's in to you then he should be the one doing it.