Scorpio man and Virgo woman Friends with benefits situation

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Spike on Monday, May 16, 2016 and has 4 replies.

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@Spike
10 Years

Im in a friends with benefits situation with a virgo woman and i wold like to go from that to Serious one with her because i love her and she cares about me ....may be that we are a bit more than FWB coz we hang out a lot we comunicate a lot hours a day and she like's to spend time with me and all.... we are haveing a wow time in bed and she is just amazed of that part in bed ......... im allways there for her to help and do anything for her ...and im wondering if she will ever want to go to a serious relationship with her and she keeps teling me that timeing is not wright and continues to refuse,,,,, im wondering how can i make her decide on this relationship to advance .. do i have any chance or its a virgo thing to keep FWB to that lvl only ? Help me pls

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@Peanutbutter
14 Years1,000+ Posts

I think if shes hanging out with you alot then you dont have much to worry about..

What about the timing makes it wrong btw? Is she busy with work, school, did she just get out of a relationship?

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by Spike
and she keeps teling me that timeing is not wright and continues to refuse,,,,,

Why should she get in a relationship with someone who doesn't listen?

Since you say "continues to refuse" it means you're not letting the flow taking you in one direction or another...it means you keep on pressing a point about making her your girl.

If you keep it up, she'll cut you off completely.

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@Spike
10 Years

So if i give her the space that she needs it may be ok ? i admit im pressuring her and i am acting gelous coz im a freaking scorpio and its in my nature 😢 il try to control myself and just make her happy and help her when she need's help 😄

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@Missvirgo
13 Years

Posted by Damnata

Posted by Spike
and she keeps teling me that timeing is not wright and continues to refuse,,,,,

Why should she get in a relationship with someone who doesn't listen?

Since you say "continues to refuse" it means you're not letting the flow taking you in one direction or another...it means you keep on pressing a point about making her your girl.

If you keep it up, she'll cut you off completely.

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100% correct .

I had a Sagittarius male that was so full on with me it really turned me off . He made me feel backed into a corner and I hated it , it got to a point I dreaded his messages and phone calls . He's now been cut off completely.