Scorpio&Virgo

Hey there. I am a Scorpio woman (Asc Sagittarius, Moon - Aquiarius, Mars - Capricorn) who (thinks she) is in love with a Virgo man.
Since it is not strictly about Virgos but about a relationship I have posted my story in the Astro&Relationships forum (https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/scorpio-woman-after-a-virgo-man-help-2359328/). I will truly appreciate an opinion from a Virgo. What do you think is the best attitude towards a Virgo? Am I making it way too complicated? When do you really feel you've met "the one"? Thanks.

Welcome to the board, Allistra. Won't really say much (I'm a virgal) but I will say that this should be interesting. Virguys on here are pretty cool so hopefully they will be in to help out. Good luck with everything.

I'm a Scorpio who dealt with Virgos. Have been married to one for many years.

When does a Virgo know you are *the ONE*? I would say pretty much off the bat. I always attract Virgos. I get his stare right from across the room. (Although lately I haven't gotten any stares... i guess i don't go out as much or too pre-occupied). A Virgo knows before you and I know. When they take the big step is when you leave him. He either takes the big step or he doesn't. In my case it took 2 weeks. I had moved far away of never return.

The second Virgo I had a huge crush on... he didn't take the big step. He even ignored me eternally. If he were to come back today, I would consider... i think. Sometimes I curse him to hell. He reminds me of 25thDecan on these boards for how he *HATES* Scorpios 😛

Online dating is quite stressful. When that 'Availability' light is on green on MSN and you fancy that person by expecting a response, it does become pure torture for me. I read your post on the other thread. He seems to show interest in you, but only time will tell how you two will make it work. You will need to require nerves of steel and patience. A Virgo man's understanding of time span is way longer than ours. Tricky tricky...

lol when i said 2 weeks it didn't mean i knew him for 2 weeks. He was quiet for 2 weeks and then came out of the box:

I want you!

I don't want you!

For the second response you need to listen veeery carefully, because I have not met a guy who tells you that in a clear way. They play around with your thoughts. If that playing around starts, I would assume those are the flags.

25th and ScorpSagian

i wish you two could hook up one day 😄