september virgo female are selfish?

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yan queiro
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does september born virgo female are selfish and take love for granted? Did she only desired her lover only when her wants and needs are fulfilled? But when it comes to her lover's wants and needs from her, she change the topic and gone disappear next? She didnt reappear unless if her lover reach her...and still, she looks like she didnt want to fulfil her lover wants and needs. Then the lover frustrated and tell her that himself/herself always be there for her, give and give every of her desires n wishes...but how about himself/herself? Did she ever appreciate and make effort for her lover? She then upset, assuming such as her lover is not sincere and want her to give everything back to her lover...n then accuse her lover for too much brought up about the past...and then she disappear again after that. Didnt she understand that in a relationship, there must be "give and take" and "reciprocal"? I'm sorry if this offending you all virgos but thats my point of view of my virgo girl. Correct me if I'm wrong, thank you☺
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yan queiro
@zoe gonzales
10 Years

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I remember too my gf ever said she done something to make me smile n laugh, now I knew what do u mean by "doing little things that go unnoticed". I appreciate things that I can 'see' shes done for me...but how can I show my appreciation to her for the little things shes done that I unable to notice? What actually her expectation? I'm not suppose to call her selfish if I knew shes hurt, but I didnt knew...and I cant accept that shes running away when the times I emotionally needing her the most to make me feel okay.
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Palerio
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does september born virgo female are selfish and take love for granted? Did she only desired her lover only when her wants and needs are fulfilled? But when it comes to her lover's wants and needs from her, she change the topic and gone disappear next? She didnt reappear unless if her lover reach her...and still, she looks like she didnt want to fulfil her lover wants and needs. Then the lover frustrated and tell her that himself/herself always be there for her, give and give every of her desires n wishes...but how about himself/herself? Did she ever appreciate and make effort for her lover? She then upset, assuming such as her lover is not sincere and want her to give everything back to her lover...n then accuse her lover for too much brought up about the past...and then she disappear again after that. Didnt she understand that in a relationship, there must be "give and take" and "reciprocal"? I'm sorry if this offending you all virgos but thats my point of view of my virgo girl. Correct me if I'm wrong, thank you☺
They're passive-aggressive by default I wouldn't say selfish.