September Virgo's ??

Ive been our with a couple of virgo guys, one born 8th september and we were together 5 years, really happy relationship, very loving, caring, trusting knew exactley were we both stood in the relationship but we it kindda just fizzled out to friends. The other was 14th september we were on/off for about 4 years but it was never awkward or bad just kindda never really that serious from both sides although intially he did do alot of chasing then i was into him and then him into me, were still freinds to this day but we both realised it was never going to be anything serious. Im now with another 14th September who has totally got my heart. We've been together since August 2009, initally he was intense, very vocal about his feelings towards me and his actions were extremely loving. We moved intogether on the request of my virgoguy but after about 8 months having only known each other for 2 living apart he kindda didnt like the distance from his family and we did have a few arguements although nother really serious, just niggles really. Anyho he moved out but assured me he did want to be with me, but as time has gone on and over the last 6 months the arguements increased but about things we never once argued about mainly his lack of affection, moody attitude, never wanting to spend time with me etc. I tried talking about it but he refused to. I was finding it hard to understand his reason for becoming so cold and detached. Anyway it was all too much for me so abut 2 months ago i ended it saying i just didnt know how he felt or what he wanted and it was too much heartache for me, a couple of weeks passed and i contacted him, we spoke and decided to give it a second chance, he said he wanted no pressure and no arguing (although he can never explain to me what pressure i put him under when asked)So anyway the majority of you guys say when your done with someone thats it, clear cut, so im kindda thinking him wanting to give it a second chance is a good sign, but what im trying to understand and perhaps if i could then it would help us both is, why he never hardly contacts me, i have to contact him, never asks to meet up, and yetsaid 3 days ago for the first time in nearly two months that he loves me and thought he should tell me, but then went 2 days not contacting me. When were together he's fine and talks about us as a couple and things to do next year, but when were not its like im totally forgotten just feel like mixed signals?

im a september 14th guys so i'll help you out if you notice we carry an air quality, but more often the sep 14th person sinc eits the begining of the third decan also have a aquarius moon. Meaning that the coldness is natural and he'll be feeling back to normal once you give him space. with that i mean dont call or nothing just give space, your'e suffocating him. when pressure on to him like that he feels smothered,when u ask to many questions it also feels smothering because its like ytoure trying to create problems out of small things that are not that serious which is why he doesnt feel like arguing because it woould disrupt his mental piece and make him feel unbalanced which is something i tell you you shouldnt do ;it will drive him away. just be yourself without needing him sort of speak,when youre around him and other people be social because we like people that can stimulate our minds especially with witty humor, and interesting conversations, TALK TO OTHER PEOPLE and havee fun but not to the point where youre disrespecting us and thats it.

oh yea and ps describe both the sep 14 dudes jsut out of curiosity just see how someone else with my bday acts, d we have an airy quality to us?and fashionable taste?talent?socially out there?

Hi There....well its really odd, even though they were both born on the same date they have turned out completely differnt. My first virgo when i was 19 and he was 23 was very what has been said on these boards typically virgo. Took it very slow, distant etc but once he'd decided i was the one for him he was very consistent, loving, caring, funny. His actions and words were never questioned i felt so secure and loved, id say it took about 7 months but once it was like that it didnt change. He was creative, loved music, dry sense of humour and most importantly i felt i could completely by myself with him, no questions asked. He was socialble towards my friends and family and they loved him. However my current virgo started off straight away like my first virgo guy but seems to have gone the other way! One of the main reasons i found myself falling for him was because he had the same charateristics as my first virgoguy, yet all of those have kindda disappeared, hence has left me wondering, espeically as he is 35 yet my first virgo from back in the day seemed a hell of a lot more mature and open to his emotions and would talk openly about problems.

Interestingly though they do have alot in common. They both like indie and 1960's bands, play guitar, dry sense of humour, same dress sense, close to their family, easy going, everyone loved them, but like i say my first virgo guy was consistent throught our 5 year relationship yet my current virgo guy for all he has alot in common seems to be emotionally cut off. Im not sure if the year they were born would play a part in it....my first virgo guy was born 1974 and my current one 1975

sorry i meant even though they werent born on the same date yet are still virgo

im so not with it today ive just noticed you wanted me to describe both 14th sept guys, the reason i ended up typing about my current 14th sept and my firt virgoguy born the 8th sept is because they are so alike, the other 14th sept virgoguy is completely different. Bascially you wouldnt have thought both guys were born on the 14th! My current virgoguy isnt as sociable or adventureous, the other one loves to rock climb, wind surf, travel you name it he likes it whereas my current one for all he like biking would rather stay home and play computer games. Mind you saying that the one similar quality they have is both can be harsh when it comes to words

Posted by flowerpower
Ive been our with a couple of virgo guys, one born 8th september and we were together 5 years, really happy relationship, very loving, caring, trusting knew exactley were we both stood in the relationship but we it kindda just fizzled out to friends.

Heeeeey, that's my birthday 😛

Hi Cajunspirit.....not sure what you'll think of this, but im an Aqua..AHHHH LOL i know supposedly virgo/aqua relationships are suppose to be pretty awful connection, but personally i seem to connect, although as you can see having a bit of a wonder about my current virgoguy

Posted by flowerpower
Hi Cajunspirit.....not sure what you'll think of this, but im an Aqua..AHHHH LOL i know supposedly virgo/aqua relationships are suppose to be pretty awful connection, but personally i seem to connect, although as you can see having a bit of a wonder about my current virgoguy

Virgos and Aquas connect mentally.
Everything else... it's up in the air.

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Posted by Cajunspirit

Heeeeey, that's my birthday 😛

You want a medal for that? 😛

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Yes, please! 🙂

virgo guys can be a bit hard at times and very selfish and stubborn so if that commented was aimed at me, then yeah i deserve a medal 🙂

Cajunspirit have you any wise words, advice? Being a 8th September Virgo and one of my best relationships was with one, how can someone born only 6 days later be so different?

Posted by flowerpower
Cajunspirit have you any wise words, advice? Being a 8th September Virgo and one of my best relationships was with one, how can someone born only 6 days later be so different?

Different day, different decan, different birth chart, different upbringing, different morals, different ethics, different experiences, different outlook.

Natal charts are the best answer. They are particular to the individual. The crap you read in newspapers or relationship advice on the internet is generalised heavily.

Aqua women go well with Aries men, Gemini Men, Libra men and Sagittarius men.

If you want a Virgo, you're going to need a strong and expressive emotional foundation. Something Aquas inherently lack.

Oh and Shaks wasn't directing his medal comment atcha.

hmmm interesting as im not actually a typical aqua and im very much into spiritualism and have been told i have alot of taurus in me, although there is none in my chart! Im actually very expressive and loving, very similar to a virgo, i do things to express my love and then back it up with the words. I take my time to fall for someone will weighing up the situation yet will not be aloof as to seem im messing that person about, very upfront. Once i love someone its very easy to see

Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
The whole idea is wrong flowerpower.

what do you mean?

Oh right, got you now....i was just speaking aloud i suppose...

Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
To assume that the difference between the two of your Virgo guys could be explained by the fact they were born 6 days apart.

Are you a Virgo?

Posted by flowerpower
hmmm interesting as im not actually a typical aqua and im very much into spiritualism and have been told i have alot of taurus in me, although there is none in my chart! Im actually very expressive and loving, very similar to a virgo, i do things to express my love and then back it up with the words. I take my time to fall for someone will weighing up the situation yet will not be aloof as to seem im messing that person about, very upfront. Once i love someone its very easy to see

If you live up to these words, the problem would be them I suppose...
They may not be receiving your expressions as they should, again, a Virgo - Aqua issue.

Yeah possibly, although its hard to express my emotions and live up to the person i know i am, when i love someone who has completley emotionally cut off from me. Its sad really but i suppose time is the greatest gift, i'll see how it progresses

Posted by nyc125
im a september 14th guys so i'll help you out if you notice we carry an air quality, but more often the sep 14th person sinc eits the begining of the third decan also have a aquarius moon. Meaning that the coldness is natural and he'll be feeling back to normal once you give him space. with that i mean dont call or nothing just give space, your'e suffocating him. when pressure on to him like that he feels smothered,when u ask to many questions it also feels smothering because its like ytoure trying to create problems out of small things that are not that serious which is why he doesnt feel like arguing because it woould disrupt his mental piece and make him feel unbalanced which is something i tell you you shouldnt do ;it will drive him away. just be yourself without needing him sort of speak,when youre around him and other people be social because we like people that can stimulate our minds especially with witty humor, and interesting conversations, TALK TO OTHER PEOPLE and havee fun but not to the point where youre disrespecting us and thats it.

oh yea and ps describe both the sep 14 dudes jsut out of curiosity just see how someone else with my bday acts, d we have an airy quality to us?and fashionable taste?talent?socially out there?

September 14th is a great day !

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Posted by nyc125
im a september 14th guys so i'll help you out if you notice we carry an air quality, but more often the sep 14th person sinc eits the begining of the third decan also have a aquarius moon. Meaning that the coldness is natural and he'll be feeling back to normal once you give him space. with that i mean dont call or nothing just give space, your'e suffocating him. when pressure on to him like that he feels smothered,when u ask to many questions it also feels smothering because its like ytoure trying to create problems out of small things that are not that serious which is why he doesnt feel like arguing because it woould disrupt his mental piece and make him feel unbalanced which is something i tell you you shouldnt do ;it will drive him away. just be yourself without needing him sort of speak,when youre around him and other people be social because we like people that can stimulate our minds especially with witty humor, and interesting conversations, TALK TO OTHER PEOPLE and havee fun but not to the point where youre disrespecting us and thats it.

oh yea and ps describe both the sep 14 dudes jsut out of curiosity just see how someone else with my bday acts, d we have an airy quality to us?and fashionable taste?talent?socially out there?

September 14th is a great day !

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