Spontaneous or Think about it before?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by AVG on Tuesday, July 29, 2014 and has 12 replies.

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@AVG
12 Years500+ Posts

Are you more spontaneous or Think before you do? I try and be more spontaneous,but our minds work so much it's hard too not alright have things preplaned in our heads...like say for instance,if I'm walking down the sidewalk with my wife and see someone selling flowers, I already know that I'm gonna buy the flowers two miles away,before we even get near the guy...but I'll walk past the guy then go back like I wasn't gone get them,just too make it look spontaneous ...was that a good example? But I still think I'm like 60/40 think about it too spontaneous ratio...I'm getting better with age tho,I use too be worst then that..πŸ˜‰

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16 Years1,000+ Posts

with plans, usually think about it first. with communication, especially matters of the heart, mostly spontaneous. which often gets me into trouble because i'm a passionate and often intense individual at times. people often take that aspect of me as being defensive or overly aggressive.

when i'm in a more care free mood, then spontaneity comes more natural. but i don't feel that way as often as I used to. life for me and my family has taken on a more serious turn.

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@AVG
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@'Gemini64 ...yeah I'm more spontaneous with communicating too,mercury libra" but when it comes too being romantic about things...I wish I didn't see the flower guy so far back!!! Mercury sure don't want you too be spontaneous ..it wants you to know before it happens!! πŸ™‚

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13 Years1,000+ Posts

I doubt the existence of true spontaneity as people commonly like to use the term. I may not necessarily set out to make a specific decision but I always know I'm going to do something before I do it, how I'll do it, and why I'm going to do it.

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@Ariesgal92
12 Years

Posted by AVG

Posted by Ariesgal92
I barely think about anything before I do it and it gets me into a lot of trouble 😒 stupid Aries!!!

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I feel ya ....

Hahahah yes it's not good!! But if I don't do it straight away I will change my mind later and might regret not doing it or it might be too late later!

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Posted by TMV
I doubt the existence of true spontaneity as people commonly like to use the term. I may not necessarily set out to make a specific decision but I always know I'm going to do something before I do it, how I'll do it, and why I'm going to do it.

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