Sun in Leo, but every planet in Virgo

Hi, I have a general question.
I like a guy who was born in late July, making him a Leo. However, when I did his natal chart, I noticed that basically all of his planets are in Virgo (Mercury, Venus, Mars, Saturn, etc.) This makes a lot of sense because I always thought that he acts, as much as I know, not like the typical Leo. He's very shy, very focused with work and efficient, and very concerned with health matters, clean, etc. I am sure every person is a beautiful and unique snowflake, so to speak, but this is just what I kind of know about my Virgo friends...that they act like this. I like Virgos, I seem to get along with them usually.

I adore him very much, actually. So, my question is...should I consider him to be a Virgo? Is there a point when you have all your planets in something that you are just kind of like a sign through and through (even if your sun sign is different)?

Also, I don't know really anything about Venus in Virgo. I'm a Cancer, but I am an equal mix of air and water signs. I have known him for about 3 years, and had boyfriends during this time, but my flame always burned for him. Sometimes we talk a lot, and sometimes he disappears (but pops up again). I can't explain it, I adore him. Is it a typical thing for him to disappear and then just suddenly pop up again? Or is it a sign that he doesn't really think of me like that?
I don't know. I seek Virgo help ~~ 🙂

Stay friends or run like the wind!

I speak from 10 years of intimate experience (and knowledge of others)

He is wonderful and so pleasantly calm, sweet and (gasp) appears to want to know and talk about you. They seem to be Virgo-like but they are finicky pussycats to the ninth degree. I struggle to find one who hasn't driven a woman bonkers with their undefined moodiness when they sit there and worry and wonder themselves to death whether or not you're the perfect catch; they will dangle you forever if you let them.

Keep it fun, platonic and flirty but don't throw your emotions into this one. You'll be crushed repeatedly. But (as a friend) he can be great loving ally.

Do you mean people with this kind of natal chart? Or Leos in general? I think you could be right about the way he acts, though.
I realize from what you said...He is moody about the weirdest things, and he seems to get annoyed at the smallest actions of others. I think that is "moody", right? Although it hasn't been directed so much at me, I can see some of his Virgo-ness coming through because he nit-picks about lots and lots of things (examples like how I need a jacket, need to eat breakfast, etc.) If I am just your friend, why does it matter if I ate breakfast that day?