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Posted by GingaSnapKrakle83
Are there any tell tale signs when a Virgo is into you? I know that they are usually very conservative with expressing their emotions initially... But are there any for sure signs that a male
Virgo is interested?



For the girls, when you walk up to them, you can sense and see their nervousness. Its subtle but also very obvious at the same time. You can see a little sparkle in their eyes and their eyes will widen a bit. This is a total giveaway. If you can imagine what a guy or girl would look like, widening their eyes like "wow" when they see an attractive person walk by, its a bit like that, but less pronounced, and right in front of you, *seemingly* accidental or unconscious. They'll often try hard to entertain you with their nervous little jokes...lol. They often lower their brow and try really hard to focus on what you're saying intensely, trying not give away their attraction with their face. They will smirk a bit sometimes when they're listening to you - push out their lips a bit - trying to sex up their listening face a little. LOL....

That's my experience.
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Posted by GingaSnapKrakle83
Are there any tell tale signs when a Virgo is into you? I know that they are usually very conservative with expressing their emotions initially... But are there any for sure signs that a male
Virgo is interested?



Subtle compliments...not about your looks but more regarding character issues (you work hard, you're honest, you're thorough etc.)

Look at you directly in the eye when listening to you and genuinely smile

Not afraid to enter your personal space while in conversation with you

Be protective of you but in a manner that is subtle

make a point of being in the same location you are so they can watch you walk away

comment about how you have things in common. but again, this is subtle

when emotions are involved, they withdraw or get upset around you. you are making them feel emotions inside that remove that control mechanism they all have

communication....when they are comfortable with responding to your inquires and emails

when they look at you and try to figure you out without saying a word...aka "the stare"

when they try to make you jealous by talking about another girl (especially one you know or are friends with)

when they talk about you with their family or friends and you hear about it second hand

most of these are similar with most men. the big difference with virgo's is in the subtle approach. once you are in a committed relationship, i'm told they change and open up completely. i wouldn't know. i married a scorpio. but my experience with virgo guys have been fairly predictable and spot on. with the exception of one who did a complete 180 and went MIA. LOL
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Posted by GingaSnapKrakle83
Are there any tell tale signs when a Virgo is into you? I know that they are usually very conservative with expressing their emotions initially... But are there any for sure signs that a male
Virgo is interested?



Well you had a kid with one according to your other posts, you tell us.

Birth control would be a fine start. Not chasing him down would be another.
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Geeze who knows, those Virgos are a confusing bunch...especially the men! All I seem to attract Virgos and each guy's style has been different. One was very flirty, almost TOO flirty, I mean he came on strong. He was also very playful, almost too playful and I'm a playful bugger myself but goooooodness LOL.

The second Virgo I talked to was very quite in the beginning, very GQ in nature (All of the guys for the record looked, dressed, and act like they could be the spokesmen for GQ), and he did A LOT of intense staring. It was kinda daunting, enough to get a girl flustered.

The third Virgo we never really got anything off the ground because I just couldn't figure him out. But he stared a lot too, but this was me noticing in hindsight because it was subtle--not nearly as intense as the second Virgo. He also made a point to really try to engage in conversation with me, and I just always got the feeling that he wanted to talk to me, that he wanted to know more, figure me out, and of course I didn't catch any of these signs until it was far over.

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Look at you directly in the eye when listening to you and genuinely smile


when emotions are involved, they withdraw or get upset around you. you are making them feel emotions inside that remove that control mechanism they all have

communication....when they are comfortable with responding to your inquires and emails

when they look at you and try to figure you out without saying a word...aka "the stare"

when they try to make you jealous by talking about another girl (especially one you know or are friends with)





Question, how does anyone put up with that or figure that out? That would and has made me the insecure little twat so I try to stay far away from Virguys. I can't help to take them as wishy washy and guys into games when they pull those disappearing acts.

Ladies? Gents? Anyone date a Virguy like this? How did you get pass it to develop an actual relationship beyond just the occasional I'm into you, now I'm not, now I'm into you push and pull?
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Posted by malloryor


Look at you directly in the eye when listening to you and genuinely smile


when emotions are involved, they withdraw or get upset around you. you are making them feel emotions inside that remove that control mechanism they all have

communication....when they are comfortable with responding to your inquires and emails

when they look at you and try to figure you out without saying a word...aka "the stare"

when they try to make you jealous by talking about another girl (especially one you know or are friends with)





Question, how does anyone put up with that or figure that out? That would and has made me the insecure little twat so I try to stay far away from Virguys. I can't help to take them as wishy washy and guys into games when they pull those disappearing acts.

Ladies? Gents? Anyone date a Virguy like this? How did you get pass it to develop an actual relationship beyond just the occasional I'm into you, now I'm not, now I'm into you push and pull?
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unless the push pull stops and you see a change in behavior, your best option is to move on. seriously.....otherwise you will go insane trying to figure them out, and in the process, lose yourself.

i'm not saying all VM are like this. My experience has been with enough to see consistent patterns. I don't know if it's about control or the inability to understanding their own feelings. Honestly, I have NEVER been around a male virgo who was comfortable dealing with emotions, especially from a woman and out in the open. Some of them are emotional infants. If you're serious about a VM, determine if they are in this category or more mature, or be prepared for a lesson in patience and a huge bill from your new therapist. 😉
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Maybe go get lunch for the office with her. Make something up to get her in your car.



Siighh I wish it was that easy, the tension between us is crazy when it's just the two of us, even customers notice the energy between us it's a bit scary, and she always looks at me all starry eyed.



What is it that is stopping you?
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I looked up our synastry and there is mostly negative aspects and dangerous ones at that, I think even though it's one of those things you want to act on in the end you shouldn't.
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Posted by malloryor

Geeze who knows, those Virgos are a confusing bunch...especially the men! All I seem to attract Virgos and each guy's style has been different. One was very flirty, almost TOO flirty, I mean he came on strong. He was also very playful, almost too playful and I'm a playful bugger myself but goooooodness LOL.

The second Virgo I talked to was very quite in the beginning, very GQ in nature (All of the guys for the record looked, dressed, and act like they could be the spokesmen for GQ), and he did A LOT of intense staring. It was kinda daunting, enough to get a girl flustered.

The third Virgo we never really got anything off the ground because I just couldn't figure him out. But he stared a lot too, but this was me noticing in hindsight because it was subtle--not nearly as intense as the second Virgo. He also made a point to really try to engage in conversation with me, and I just always got the feeling that he wanted to talk to me, that he wanted to know more, figure me out, and of course I didn't catch any of these signs until it was far over.



That's cuz while sun sign is very noticeable, so is rising and a sun's ruler. Moon is less noticeable but so very good for compatibility. ^_^
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Ppffft I'll enjoy popcorn with you while the Sag's forget you are around 😛



We should share notes of sagtastic's titties when we're sharing popcorn too 😄



ohhh did more get added to that thread? 😆



nope but I think I caught sight of her titties while stalking.
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Creeper 😛
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So I have a question what does it mean if a Virgo woman is starting to act childish/silly around you?, she also is trying to get in my physical space a lot and she get all starry eyes when she looks at me like I'm some shiny object, does she like me or just finds me fun to play with?



Duuuuuuude. Shiny!

Everyone has their image they want to project, and Virgo's is 'proper' and 'perfect'. When someone wants to seem somehow 'better' in the eyes of another, they stoke their preferred image. That's a sign that someone likes you. If this woman is "starting to" act silly around you, I imagine that she was being more serious and proper before... and is now letting down her guard. Letting down one's guard, no longer trying to project an image to you, is a danged good sign of kinship (really really like ya) from any astrological standpoint. Heck, basic psychology. Enjoy!
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-I catch him staring at me often, usually like he's confused lol
-We talk constantly, as much as possible while we work together
-We talk about everything and everything
-He did mention to a co-worker that I "have a crush on him", with no negative nor positive annotations to it
-There has been brow-furrowing, squintied eyes, wide eyes (with surprise as the crazy dumb shit that I say, but he tends to rebuttal well!!)
-We have had very close proximity conversations
-His eyes light up when we joke around in conversation or play fighting

-Don't fuck your married co-worker. It's just wrong (coming from a single mom of 3 now due to a home wrecker)Especially if there are kids involved in the marriage. dont take the chance on potentially messing up their lives cus you 2 want to get it on.


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Posted by Sn1p3r187
My guess- comfortable and relaxed but they tend to stare and whenever what you were stating at theyd be like "oh nothing". Turn your head and they start back staring. From my experience with virgals.



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They will stare at you!



True...It would make me uncomfortable, i would get all shy like a little schoolgirl...lol



When I catch him staring at me I smile back, blush and look away lol
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Virgos will stare as blatantly as a Scorpio, but it's more of an intense curiosity than any sort of probing. It's fairly unconscious, so your blushing and giggling is pretty much what Virgo does if you stare right back. Coming from a Scorp sun who's returned Virgo stares and watched em get nervous with a humorous lilt. 😄 One got mad, but she seemed more Leo than Virgo anyway.


In person,
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Oh, and another question LOL... So, he's known for like almost 4 months that I like him, but he hasn't given me any negative feelings about it, but he also hasnt really pursued anything either... I feel like he's just feeling and figuring it out.. is this a common characteristic of Virgos? Yes, I have dated Virgos before, but neither of them did the staring thing, they were both rather upfront about being interested in me.. this one's nothing like the other 2 in that aspect LOL
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Posted by GingaSnapKrakle83
Oh, and another question LOL... So, he's known for like almost 4 months that I like him, but he hasn't given me any negative feelings about it, but he also hasnt really pursued anything either... I feel like he's just feeling and figuring it out.. is this a common characteristic of Virgos? Yes, I have dated Virgos before, but neither of them did the staring thing, they were both rather upfront about being interested in me.. this one's nothing like the other 2 in that aspect LOL



It's been 4 months. When a Virgo is into you HE WILL ASK YOU OUT. They don't play games. He's not feeling anything out. He's had plenty of time to do that. As you mention above, about past Virgos, they were upfront. Move on.
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My guess- comfortable and relaxed but they tend to stare and whenever what you were stating at theyd be like "oh nothing". Turn your head and they start back staring. From my experience with virgals.



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They will stare at you!



True...It would make me uncomfortable, i would get all shy like a little schoolgirl...lol



When I catch him staring at me I smile back, blush and look away lol
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Virgos will stare as blatantly as a Scorpio, but it's more of an intense curiosity than any sort of probing. It's fairly unconscious, so your blushing and giggling is pretty much what Virgo does if you stare right back. Coming from a Scorp sun who's returned Virgo stares and watched em get nervous with a humorous lilt. 😄 One got mad, but she seemed more Leo than Virgo anyway.


In person,

lol I have returned the Virgo stare too and it's interesting to see their reaction.
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Gee you people make Virgos sound like the White Walkers. Emotionless robots staring and staring and staring.

Here's how we are. Remember the blanket you had when you were small? The one you held close and hugged and kept you warm through the long winter nights? The one you also hated it when summer came up and would toss it away only to get back to it? The one that spells familiarity and friendship and caring to you? We're that blanket. Now imagine that blanket also wants to fuck you and..there you go, Virgo mystery explained.

For those who think Virgos in love do push and pulls..no, we don't. It's your warped up perception. The blanket is on the floor in the morning because some people tend to move a lot at night..not because it gained feet and walked out on you. Point being? A lot of the people who come on this board with wishy washy stories of Virgos are wishy washy themselves or not able to be vulnerable. We don't respect people who aren't emotionally strong. As for the rest of you who deem yourself capable to love us and put up with our humanity...if we do push and pull..get out because that Virgo isn't into you. I cannot stress enough how dark is the dark side with this sign. You either get one extreme on the Virgo spectrum or the other. And then the blanket grows horns. Dismiss the fucking blanket.
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Posted by Damnata
Gee you people make Virgos sound like the White Walkers. Emotionless robots staring and staring and staring.

Here's how we are. Remember the blanket you had when you were small? The one you held close and hugged and kept you warm through the long winter nights? The one you also hated it when summer came up and would toss it away only to get back to it? The one that spells familiarity and friendship and caring to you? We're that blanket. Now imagine that blanket also wants to fuck you and..there you go, Virgo mystery explained.

For those who think Virgos in love do push and pulls..no, we don't. It's your warped up perception. The blanket is on the floor in the morning because some people tend to move a lot at night..not because it gained feet and walked out on you. Point being? A lot of the people who come on this board with wishy washy stories of Virgos are wishy washy themselves or not able to be vulnerable. We don't respect people who aren't emotionally strong. As for the rest of you who deem yourself capable to love us and put up with our humanity...if we do push and pull..get out because that Virgo isn't into you. I cannot stress enough how dark is the dark side with this sign. You either get one extreme on the Virgo spectrum or the other. And then the blanket grows horns. Dismiss the fucking blanket.





That was a really good explanation , so to you if you act childish and playful around someone is that you letting your guard down/showing you like someone because a Virgo woman is acting really childish around me and she is a super Virgo (Sun.Mercury, Venus , Mars in Virgo) and it baffles me because I have never seen a Virgo so playful around me. Or is she just playing a game and like you said she isn't into me?
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Gee you people make Virgos sound like the White Walkers. Emotionless robots staring and staring and staring.

Here's how we are. Remember the blanket you had when you were small? The one you held close and hugged and kept you warm through the long winter nights? The one you also hated it when summer came up and would toss it away only to get back to it? The one that spells familiarity and friendship and caring to you? We're that blanket. Now imagine that blanket also wants to fuck you and..there you go, Virgo mystery explained.

For those who think Virgos in love do push and pulls..no, we don't. It's your warped up perception. The blanket is on the floor in the morning because some people tend to move a lot at night..not because it gained feet and walked out on you. Point being? A lot of the people who come on this board with wishy washy stories of Virgos are wishy washy themselves or not able to be vulnerable. We don't respect people who aren't emotionally strong. As for the rest of you who deem yourself capable to love us and put up with our humanity...if we do push and pull..get out because that Virgo isn't into you. I cannot stress enough how dark is the dark side with this sign. You either get one extreme on the Virgo spectrum or the other. And then the blanket grows horns. Dismiss the fucking blanket.



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