Thank You!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thank everyone for their comments P Angel I found you very helpful the problem is that now he seems as though he isn't into me anymore so then I pull away and he acts as though I am hurting his feelings.I know that he has a problem with dating on the job,but I know that he wants to go out with me and I can't believe that he would deny himself some thing that he wants to do because of something so silly.If I ask him outright about his feelings for me I know that I would never get a straight answer. I am changing jobs in the next two weeks and I dont want to wonder anymore. Iguess I am trying to find out a little more about the habits of a shy virgo male that is possibly in (like).

Good for you...

Smart people no matter their ethnicity/racial/cultural/nationalities/religion backgrounds would NEVER...EVER get into interpersonal/intimate relationship with anyone from their neighbourhood let alone work place?

You're welcome, dess ..

"I am changing jobs in the next two weeks and I dont want to wonder anymore."
Excellent .. maybe he'll open up a little more because the concern won't be there about employee relationships. Dess, for him to date a co-worker is just going to be extremely difficult because they are very dedicated people. He would likely feel disrepectful towards his employers even IF you two were fabulous together. Anyway, you're leaving, so many of his worries can be eased.


"I guess I am trying to find out a little more about the habits of a shy virgo male that is possibly in (like)."
A lot of times, people look at the Virgo as being shy (maybe some are), mainly, they are very calculating and are really analyzing you quietly. He is playing with you, so that would suggest he isn't too overly bashful .. yet, when he withdraws and seems sullen or indifferent at other times - this isn't shyness - this is a normal Virgo trait. Once a Virgo likes a person a lot, they REQUIRE space to be able to review in their heads things that transpire between the two of you .. that's just the way they work.

Don't worry, he's showing all the signs that he is into you .. just keep being your normal self that he was drawn to and don't freak out when he becomes distant, at times. These men just HAVE to "think" longer and harder than others.

This is something you're gonna have to keep in mind, if the two of you get to actually start dating .. they are full-blown worry-worts and will fret about every little thing. It's just their nature and no cause for alarm.

I hope once you finally leave your job, that the two of you can find wonderful moments to share together. 🙂