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Really want some insights here... This is always a tough one... I know it Christmas and emotions run high so... I was spending time with the Virguy yesterday and we were just enjoying each others company, talking, holding hands, just connecting.. I think this is my favorite thing in the world, I enjoy him so much! Anyway, it was time for him to go get his kids and we really didn't want to part, I was having a hard time saying goodbye. I was just sighing and I almost said I love you.. I stopped myself because its kind of soon but he new exactly how I felt and kept baiting me to say it... I just kissed him and said " you know I'm crazy about you" UGH! Did I mess up, should I have been the first to let it out!? I guess my question to you Virgo men especially is " do you like to hear this from your lady first, does it matter to you if she says it first or is it too much to soon...
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Posted by Shescomeundone
I just kissed him and said " you know I'm crazy about you" UGH! Did I mess up, should I have been the first to let it out!? I guess my question to you Virgo men especially is " do you like to hear this from your lady first, does it matter to you if she says it first or is it too much to soon...




Why on earth would you ask the Virgo men?

Noo. lol

You did just fine-- they aren't scared of it, and they'll do it themselves.

They're natural-born (if not, picky) knights.


What is your sign, again, SCU?

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LOL just saw my title... Was suppose to say " The L Word"!!!!
Thank you all for your comments! I'm pretty sure lillytree, just like your Virguy mine knows... It's obvious, but there is something about speaking it that puts a whole new perspective on it! We do have that crazy connection where we finish sentences or pick up the phone to call or text each other at the same time..I love that so much! And I'm a crazy in love Libra lady Montgomery... He is 1st deacon Virgo... I have read this is a good match as long as its VM LF .... Anyway the bad part or scary part is that he hasn't been divorced for very long....I'm older than him too... Quite abit.... So, the rest of the conversation that I left out was that for some dumb reason ( because its reality) I said that I couldn't wait for him... Even though I'm not interested in anyone else at all, I just had to put that out there... He said he knew and that he hadn't asked me to... I said yes I know F.Y... In a joking manner.... We laughed and hugged so much... I just have to be realistic, I want him so bad but am very happy to just have this for now... It stings though not gonna lie...
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Posted by houstonpeach74
They do give good hugs. I told mine I loved him over Christmas Eve - didn't get a response, but he came over last night and gave me a Christmas present. I had to go to the office today so when I told him I had to go to bed, he stayed with me for 3 hours, just laid there and held me. Very sweet, but they're still confusing. LOL


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Most confusing man I've ever been involved in.. I think they are complex and also Virgo is a feminine sign, not to mean theses men are feminine... Quite the opposite! I think that's why women are so drawn to them'! I see woman practically fall over themselves trying to talk to my guy...when is your Virguy's b-day and what sign are you HoustonPeach—?
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Posted by VirgoFlirt
"""So, the rest of the conversation that I left out was that for some dumb reason ( because its reality) I said that I couldn't wait for him... Even though I'm not interested in anyone else at all, I just had to put that out there."""

Don't be a fool and start manipulating things with him! If he has a brain he will throw right back at you and play you for ever and then shecomesundone for real.



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Of course he has a brain... He's a Virguy.... I don't know why I said it... It was a desperate move I admit... I'm just so crazy about him... Had an astrologer do our charts... Crazy they are so close to being identical!
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Posted by VirgoFlirt
Part 2.

"""I guess my question to you Virgo men especially is " do you like to hear this from your lady first, does it matter to you if she says it first or is it too much to soon..."""

If I hear that from you it means nothing at all coming from you. It is just random words, so no need to blurt it out.

It is what you do instead, your actions to him anad others. How you carry yourself in life and the troublesome adventures it brings. How you cope with daily life problems (don't sulk about things 24/7). Do you have any feelings towards others,,,,what do you do for his kids....Things like that will get you somewhere quicker that random meaningless words.

People often choose to interpret things differently than what they really do mean in life. Showing and doing will bring more success but don't make the mistake a lot of females make and try to 'buy him'.


Virgo flirt this is how we became so found of each other... He saw the way I treated others... Especially children and handicapped people ( my work) he fell hard... Same for me, love his work ethic and kindness and we both know when to let our kinky out!!!!
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Posted by Shescomeundone
Really want some insights here... This is always a tough one... I know it Christmas and emotions run high so... I was spending time with the Virguy yesterday and we were just enjoying each others company, talking, holding hands, just connecting.. I think this is my favorite thing in the world, I enjoy him so much! Anyway, it was time for him to go get his kids and we really didn't want to part, I was having a hard time saying goodbye. I was just sighing and I almost said I love you.. I stopped myself because its kind of soon but he new exactly how I felt and kept baiting me to say it... I just kissed him and said " you know I'm crazy about you" UGH! Did I mess up, should I have been the first to let it out!? I guess my question to you Virgo men especially is " do you like to hear this from your lady first, does it matter to you if she says it first or is it too much to soon...



I actually prefer words like that than the ordinary "I love you." This will really make me blush and to a certain point, horny. I think I would've loved to hear you say that if I were your Virguy.
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Posted by Sagtastic1
I told my Virgo I loved him first and his was response was like " you dummy of course I love you too, you couldn't tell" but he said "I love you too"

Mine has a Scorpio ascendant so getting to tell me how he feels is like pulling teeth.

I agree with them knowing how you feel, mine can read me like a book and that makes me sick. Lol but my Capricorn Venus appreciates that because I don't have to be all mushy, he just knows.

@VirgoFlirt you're right, it's all about action. It took me over a year to figure that out.



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OMG mine is Scorpio rising too! Impossible but not really now that I know him well... At first he made me crazy, I though I must be imagining what was developing because it was so shuttle at times with him... Now I see it in his eyes, just his body language lights up when he sees me... Makes me feel like a queen! I wonder if yours has the same magnetic attraction with woman as mine does? It's the Scorpio rising Virgo sun...I see women literally trip over themselves at him... He is handsome but not out and out drop dead gorgeous, I can't explain it! Guess that's why on the inside I'm abit insecure with him but I try very hard to be completely in control outwardly..inside I'm dying... I want to jump his bones every time I see him!
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Sorry for these typos, and my heading... DXP hard to navigate on my phone!

The grammar police (P Angel)?isn't here, don't worry. Lol


Btw, I have a libra rising ( I saw you are a libra) I know how you guys idealize love. I love the fantasy of it all


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Too crazy, I'm libra sag rising!
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Lmao *air five*

What's his moon? Hell, what the both of your charts look like
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Posted by LadyOfRebirth
At the OP I don't think you should worry if the feelings are there. He reacted positively right? that's a plus in itself. As long as you're genuine towards him you should be fine. I said it to mine first and he didn't say it back for a while but his actions and affection spoke for itself. Your guy is very earthy so it'll probably take a bit of time.


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@LadyRebirth.. Thank you, I see it and feel it so not stressing(now..LOL)!!!