What has happened to my Virgo?

Usually he disappeared for a hundred days then texts me "hi" or "srry, been busy". He is suddenly calling me every night before bed, texting me "I miss you, like really really bad" and pouring his heart out. Is he sick? Should I make him a doctor's appointment?

I'm sure once he's thrown a bone, he'll calm down.

::: pats you on your head :::

Now go lay down, good little dog, until you're needed again.

But, then again ... it's you, the one who has to ask other people what he is into enough to buy a present for him ... so, I'm not surprised that what he says and does flies over your head.

Maybe he met a Taurus and now he's "in love."

i been back with this virguy for a couple weeks, he has been way more attentive and first rate than he was before, he always been sweet as f, but, i feeling so great. i lost him once, for stupid reasons, and i just know, that I gotta open up and let him see and feel who i am and how i am. people don't get that sometimes we wear our hearts on our sleeve, that is for us, but to be real with someone else isn't the easiest and I know that means being vunreable, but, that is what i gotta do to show this man i want him to be in my life and stay. get tired of game playing and only thinking of our wellbeing,, sometimes our well being is in letting another person in 100% . wish me luck, cause i am going in:}

p angel.. not asking for your opinions, thank you very much

hahah my story has really traumatized some people for life 😛

Posted by raerae2one8
p angel.. not asking for your opinions, thank you very much

P-Angel likes to voice her opinion in every thread, best to just not feed the troll

Posted by raerae2one8
i been back with this virguy for a couple weeks, he has been way more attentive and first rate than he was before, he always been sweet as f, but, i feeling so great. i lost him once, for stupid reasons, and i just know, that I gotta open up and let him see and feel who i am and how i am. people don't get that sometimes we wear our hearts on our sleeve, that is for us, but to be real with someone else isn't the easiest and I know that means being vunreable, but, that is what i gotta do to show this man i want him to be in my life and stay. get tired of game playing and only thinking of our wellbeing,, sometimes our well being is in letting another person in 100% . wish me luck, cause i am going in:}

This truly resonates with me, especially the part about being vunerable. I have this thing about not appearing weak and a fear of rejection both of which I associate with my Arian pride. I said to him, I want to say certain things and do certain things, but I don't want to appear weak or vunerable. He said "You can always be vunerable with me". I talk to him about spending our lives together and stuff like that and he always seems to be right with it and all for it. He knows that I work really hard and a future with me with probably be worry free (at least on the fiscal front). He keeps telling me "im trying" almost as if he knows he hasn't been doing his best. It's pretty awesome. I expect him to go back into his shell soon but for now, i'm loving it.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
hahah my story has really traumatized some people for life 😛

No trauma but you did make a laughing stock of yourself, which adds to endless giggles and frequent references as the epitome of assholes. You're welcome. I'm sure you ego loves it.

I dont take myself seriously enough to care if people laugh at me, in fact Im happy bringing joy into peoples lives, even if its at my own expense 🙂

Dude you are so sensitive.
Virgo's are no fun!

Hard to believe considering youre having so much fun on the Virgo board 😄

I'm trying to have fun here.
I may need to start a new thread.
Somehow this one has been derailed......

Be original starting your thread, remember the "Virgos suck" shtick is already taken by CC

That actually has a nice ring to it though.
However, since it tends to be a general consensus I will switch it up a bit.
Maybe about my Virgo girlfriend I have lost touch with.

I don't know the context of your relationship but I don't like what he did.... Unless you take it in slowly. Meaning don't sleep with him & make him rework your trust and affection again. I don't disappear on someone I like for a 100 days. Maybe a couple days but no more than 2. When I'm into someone I'm anxious to be with them all the time. If it's getting too serious I may need to "breath" but not for a long time.

Posted by trashedbliss
I don't know the context of your relationship but I don't like what he did.... Unless you take it in slowly. Meaning don't sleep with him & make him rework your trust and affection again. I don't disappear on someone I like for a 100 days. Maybe a couple days but no more than 2. When I'm into someone I'm anxious to be with them all the time. If it's getting too serious I may need to "breath" but not for a long time.

The "hundred days" thing was an exaggeration! Just means he can be kinda distant and short for days at a time.

Posted by aressupreme

Posted by trashedbliss
I don't know the context of your relationship but I don't like what he did.... Unless you take it in slowly. Meaning don't sleep with him & make him rework your trust and affection again. I don't disappear on someone I like for a 100 days. Maybe a couple days but no more than 2. When I'm into someone I'm anxious to be with them all the time. If it's getting too serious I may need to "breath" but not for a long time.

The "hundred days" thing was an exaggeration! Just means he can be kinda distant and short for days at a time.

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How often is he disappearing.... Ok average?

You people are fucking idiots ..... none of you got it where he stated that the guy calls him at bedtime stating he needs him really really bad.

And you stupid fuckers are acting like fucking females and carrying on as if this is something other than booty call.

How stupid can people get, is my question

Shh..leave the Aries to keep thinking he is the one playing the Virgo and the one who has the power to "break his heart".

Posted by P-Angel
You people are fucking idiots ..... none of you got it where he stated that the guy calls him at bedtime stating he needs him really really bad.

And you stupid fuckers are acting like fucking females and carrying on as if this is something other than booty call.

How stupid can people get, is my question

^^^^^^
Maybe your the F***ing idiot P- angel... Sometimes that's all we need is a booty call... You should try it sometime! Might do wonders for your attitude!