You??ve got a secret, don't you? Most people wouldn't guess this based on your demure exterior, but you??re a total sexpot. The only things that get in the way of your ideal sex life are scheduling problems and floating anxiety. If you can use your body to make your mind stop working overtime, you??re golden.
Sure, you could be boring and get your exercise on the treadmill. Or you could pencil in plenty of time with your lover. It's your choice, Virgo.
If you??re lusting for a Virgo:
Cleanliness is a virtue if you aim to seduce a Virgo. They can't stand even a speck of dirt beneath your fingernails. Be prepared for criticism, because they??ll dole it out, even if they want you. Show class but not too much sass; they prefer a low-key approach.
This sign loves to serve, however, so if you get them into bed you??re in for the best time of your life.
It should really be noted that an individual's Venus and Mars will play a large role in how their sexuality manifests. Other areas of a natal chart to look at are the 5th and 8th houses. If you use asteroids, Juno can be a good indicator. There is also an asteroid called "Lust" #4386.
Picky Virgo, love can be a challenge when your high standards get involved. As the zodiac's perfectionist, it's hard for anyone to measure up to your criteria. You'd rather be alone than settle -- a great attitude, as long as you keep your expectations realistic.
When applied correctly, this weeding-out process chases away the losers and can even tame eternal bachelors. Many times, though, you barely give anyone a chance. One human slip-up can be a fatal flaw for your suitors. Since first dates are often filled with nervous moments, you may need to give people a tad more leeway. Analytical Virgos have a way of sizing people up, your eyes squinting as you assess the creature in front of you. You don't mean any harm -- you just can't help noticing every detail! However, it can be quite intimidating for the person under the Virgo microscope. Underneath it all, is the fact that you're just incredibly hard on yourself. Thank your inner critic for sharing then tell it to shut up. It will give you a lot more tolerance for other people's "imperfections."
Wise and worldly though you are, there's a certain childlike innocence about you as well. No matter how tough or wild you act, when it comes to romance, Virgos have an old-fashioned streak. You want the princess fantasy, complete with a dashing knight who sweeps you off your feet. Even if you run a physics lab or boast several PhDs, you'll revert to 5 years old at the thought of being a blushing bride. Amid the fantasies of veils and white dresses, your prince still has to pass a long, practical checklist. For starters, he has to be clean (Virgos are hygiene freaks), loyal, respectful and intelligent. No dummies make it past a first date with picky Virgo -- not even the hot ones!
Bookish Virgos can be introverts, and many of you are reluctant to spill your secrets, which makes it hard for people to get close to you. Or, you may dump out all your baggage right away, assuming that the other person can already see all your so-called flaws. Both of these extreme attitudes can prevent you from forming lasting relationships. Although everyone appreciates a great listener, make sure you're not lending your ears in order to avoid opening up. And if you're tempted to spill your dirty laundry too quickly, take a deep breath and talk about the weather instead.
Like a Virgin, you need to be wooed and courted. Flings bore you, and you rarely indulge in them. Virgos have their eye on the real thing. Your family must approve of your mate -- and he will eventually be paraded in front of them before you decide if he's a keeper. You should be able to picture him as the father of your children. You may be sentimental, but you're far more practical. You choose with your head before your heart.
There's one exception to this trend. As the sign of the helper, Virgos need to be needed. This can tempt you to fall for a "fixer-upper" type who leaves you drained and unsupported. Remember, it's not your job to be someone's therapist or helpmate. There are people who charge $ 150 an hour to do that -- and chances are, you've got your own neuroses to deal with.
To keep yourself in check, make sure you're not falling in love with a person's potential. Just because you're capable of running the show doesn't mean that you should! Although it can be easier to give and receive, relationships are a two-way street. Virgos will do anything to avoid that vulnerable feeling of DEPENDING on someone. Yet, once you let down your walls and try it, you've just laid the groundwork for real love. Aim for mutuality and respect, a true balance of give and take.
Learn how to bring out the best when dating a Virgo and be wary of relationship pitfalls. While cautious in love they??re a rewarding partner when understood. Don't be fooled by the name. The Virgo is no simpering virgin who might be easily impressed and effortlessly satisfied. Rather, this complex sign heralds a person who is cautious in love — but a very rewarding partner when understood and appreciated. So if you??re thinking about dating the Virgin (or your romance is already underway) be wary of the pitfalls, and heed how to bring out the best in this mysterious personality.
The perfectionist
The good news? Virgos never approach anything halfheartedly, which means yours will undoubtedly devote mountains of energy to your relationship. If you??re still in the flirtation stage, be prepared for a dedicated courtship.Your Virgo may lavish energy in the form of gifts, calls and compliments. Or, more likely, you??ll find their energy spent in the form of more conservative, but carefully thought-out gestures — and painstakingly laid plans. And don't expect that dedication to dissipate once flirtation gives way to the long-term. It's quite the opposite??_ Virgo??s efforts may redouble when faced with a new role to perfect. Remember — they are never quick to give up on a relationship.
A Virgo is likely to focus on doing it right, on being the —perfect?? partner. This can be frustrating when your lover is so focused on taking the perfect steps that they miss the right ones. You may find you have a great listener, who always remembers your favorite meals or plans hopelessly romantic Friday nights — but doesn't want to talk about their doubts regarding the relationship, or the problems they??re having at work. It may be up to you to make sure you don't miss out on the makings of true intimacy. You??ll have to help your Virgo see that the best relationships aren't perfect, and that being real will bring you closer together.
Of all the zodiac signs,Virgo has the best eye for details — and a mind that's built for analysis. They also have a refreshingly honest drive to be helpful to others. These qualities make for a partner who is talented at assessing your needs, and helping with your problems. They will never fail to notice that you crave sweets when you??re happy, or that you??re uncomfortable when talking about your family. Your Virgo may also have uncanny insights into your problems, because they notice things about you that you yourself might miss.
Unfortunately, a keen observer can also make for a finder of faults — your Virgo may notice details you??d rather not have brought to light. Virgos can come across as harsh or critical??_ even as know-it-alls. Try not to be offended. Keep in mind that Virgos notice just as many flaws in themselves. It is in their nature to consider all the details, and their criticism is often their way of trying to help.
The pragmatist
Relentlessly practical, the Virgo is probably the sign that is least likely to bring unnecessary drama into your life. Virgos are down to earth, and will acknowledge when they are wrong as long as they are presented with clear, logical facts. Also notoriously clean and healthy, Virgos like everything to be in its place and at its best.
On the other hand, a Virgo??s capacity for order and logic may push your limits, especially if you take an earthy approach to romance. While often creative, the Virgin is rarely dreamy or whimsical. Pack rats beware: the Virgin is likely to clean your apartment and try to change your habits. And if you??re a dreamer yourself, be prepared to adjust to The Virgin??s Vulcan sense of logic.
For Virgos, love comes slowly, and burns deeply. It is difficult for a Virgo to fall in love, and even after taking the leap, it can be hard to express those feelings. A Virgo thrives on self-control, and needs time to understand what they are feeling before acting on it. This can be maddening when you??re aching for warmth and expression. Don't misread a Virgo??s hesitation as coolness or lack of interest: your Virgin will express love in their own way — you just may need to demonstrate your own feelings first.
In the bedroom, the Virgo??s perfectionism and helpfulness translates to an eagerness to please. The Virgin may be careful in love, but is hardly prudish about physical intimacy. This attentive lover loves giving as much as receiving, and will never leave a partner unsatisfied. While Virgos are usually unstinting in giving pleasure, they can be reserved about expressing their own passion. The same sense of caution and control that governs emotions can rule the Virgo sexually. If you can manage to unleash the Virgin??s passionate side, however, you??ll find yourself paired with a dedicated lover whose attention to detail will drive you wild.
When your Venus is in Virgo, you express love by doing things for, and fussing over, your loved one. You notice little things about your partner, make mental notes of their likes and dislikes (this may sound contrived, but it's not—it's simply the way you're wired!), and genuinely try to help your lover in practical ways. You listen to what your lover has to say, and you have something sensible and intelligent to say in response! In fact, you are great at communicating about your relationship.
One dilemma that can easily happen with this position: Your partner doesn't always know how to please you. You might have a simple answer, but he/she may still wonder. You see all of the details of your relationship. You worry about its viability, and tend to the practical details of partnership. These are important contributions to the relationship, but because they lack glamour, your partner may not always appreciate you. You are not the most romantic partner, and your tastes are rather simple (although, as mentioned before, it is hard for others to see that simplicity because you may have a habit of fussing). Can't see the forest for the trees? Your partner might accuse you of this, and it may be true. You will benefit from sitting back and infusing yourself with some faith in the big picture, once in a while. But, you are needed! And there are partners who will see that. You work hard at making yourself indispensable in your partner's life. Generally, you don't throw yourself into love affairs too readily. This does not mean you are chaste, like the Virgo of yore. Some Venus in Virgo natives can even be promiscuous. But when it comes to gooey romance, where lovers bare all, you are rather selective and self-contained. You are a very sensual being who wants to feel safe before giving yourself to another.
Venus in Virgo has a reputation for being critical. This does happen, but it generally is a symptom of insecurity. You can't help but see the failings and the holes in any partnership, and you can sometimes be quite reticent about entering a partnership. Generally, though, you will see what's wrong with a person at the outset of a relationship when it doesn't feel safe to you as yet. It's a defense mechanism more than anything! Your own insecurities can propel you to see faults and problems in your partner. Once you feel safe, however, you are not quite the fussbudget Venus in Virgo is made out to be. You value effort put into a relationship (in fact, for many with this position, effort from their partner is at the top of their list).
Here, we are mixing Fire (Aries) and Earth (Virgo - you!). It's not an easy combination, for certain, but it has its merits. One of the most noticeable differences between you and your partner is his/her need for stimulation and excitement contrasted with your desire for safety and security. You can be quite active together, and pour some energy into activities, but your partner's impulsive and competitive nature may leave you feeling insecure. Both of you are simple in your needs, but those needs are markedly different. Your partner isn't the most flowery of lovers, and neither are you, but he/she can be downright insensitive at times. You are a sensitive soul, although not quite as delicate as one might think. You will put up with so much, just to make a relationship work, but you do want some appreciation for all your efforts. Both of you value honesty, and you'll generally get it from each other. Your partner will likely appreciate your willingness to please, in the moments when he/she notices this trait. Money matters will most certainly bring some conflict, as you are more cautious and a natural worrier and your partner can be the classic impulse buyer. Shared interests are important to you, and this may also be a problem, as you and your partner are really quite dissimilar!
You and your partner are both Venusian Earth signs, which means you definitely share some common ground. You want to build a workable partnership, and so does your partner! You look for security and safety in love...ditto for your lover. One of the main differences in your temperaments is your willingness to make adjustments. Your partner is a more stubborn soul, possessing staying power, for sure, but not the flexibility that you so gracefully offer any partnership. This issue may be the most difficult of your problems together. Both of you are sensual lovers, appreciating the simple pleasures of sex. Sexually, your partner is more capable of calming your nervous nature than most lovers, helping to make you feel whole and scads more comfortable in your own skin. You appreciate the aura of safety that quite naturally surrounds your partner. He/she senses your commitment and integrity in partnership, which is very pleasing indeed! Shared interests and projects are important to you in terms of satisfaction derived from partnership, and this may indeed happen with your Venus in Taurus partner, although you might be the one doing more of the hard work.
Because you tend to value intelligence and communication, there can be quite a bit of mental attraction between you and your Venus in Gemini partner. Both of you are somewhat restless and curious people. Although sharing ideas is important to you, your partner may be less discriminating than you in terms of who he/she communicates with. You come alive in an established relationship. Your partner, on the other hand, requires a little more freedom and may often turn to other people in addition to you for mental stimulation. This is healthy for your partner, but it may be somewhat intimidating for you, as you prefer to be the most indispensable person in any partner's life. You also tend to be more sensitive in matters of the heart than your happy-go-lucky lover. Your partner thrives on variety, and tires easily of a love relationship that becomes too predictable. You are restless as well, but you are at your best in an established, rather predictable, and safe relationship. Both of you are flexible people, although your partner may take this to an extreme that makes you feel uncomfortable. You may begin to question the sincerity and constancy of your partner over time.
This pairing is one of the better combinations in practice! Care and nurture will be a strong theme in this relationship. This is most likely to be a low-key relationship—perhaps not as exciting as some, but fertile in a quiet way. The physical and sensual aspects of love are important and emphasized in your relationship with this loyal and nurturing partner. Your partner's mood swings in love may spark an occasional problem, and he or she might find your approach to love a tad dry at times. Both of you, however, crave security and dependability in partnership, and you are both very capable of delivering these things to each other. You and your Venus in Cancer lover come alive in a safe environment—exactly the kind of atmosphere you enjoy creating. You value the sincerity of your partner's approach to love, and he or she senses your willingness to put effort into making your relationship work. You may find your partner lacking in the communication department, however, simply because he or she places higher value on non-verbal expressions of love. You need to understand that your partner is very sensitive to criticism, and what you might consider constructive criticism might result in some feelings of rejection. With understanding and tolerance, however, your partner can help you see the forest for the trees, and you, with your gentle ways, can stimulate your partner to open up a little more than comes naturally to him or her. More than likely, there is a lot of respect between the two of you, and a feeling of security that is enviable.
You are the worrywart in love, focusing on what will come of your relationship in the future. Your Venus in Leo lover, however, lives for the moment, fully enjoying the delightful passion and desire that is often characteristic of the first stage of romance. You worry about the practical side of the partnership. Your partner expresses his/her love for you in a lavish, showy manner. He/she is consumed with the romance of your relationship, and might expect you to feel the same way. You easily feel threatened by your partner's apparent "experience", but do remember that your lover is given to brag a little, and he/she is trying to win your favor—perhaps the wrong way! In his/her desire to be viewed as irresistible, your partner may inadvertently make you feel insecure. You express your love by laying solid groundwork for your partnership. This doesn't sound exceptionally romantic to your starry-eyed lover, but the practical side to your relationship is important, and somebody has to do it (Venus in Leo would prefer not!). Try not to feel intimidated by your partner, and enjoy his/her generous love nature. Your partner may be so lavish with praise that it seems insincere. It's not! Don't overanalyze it. Virgo and Leo are side-by-side signs—they don't share the same element nor do they come from the same modality. The result is a lack of understanding between the signs. Do not despair, however! With a healthy dose of tolerance, this relationship can be handled. A conscious relationship is what Astrology can help with. Being aware of the different personality traits and needs of each partner is the first step to greater understanding.
How You Relate to a Partner who also has Venus in Virgo:
Both of you value the same things in love, which is a good starting point. Shared interests are important to you, but in this case, when two Venusian Virgos are together, it would make a little more sense (a word you both love!) to have different projects and interests. Why? Because you both tend to want to run the show when it comes to pet projects. In the love relationship in general, however, you are flexible and attentive. It may be difficult to choose a leader! There doesn't always have to be a leader in a relationship, of course, but the relationship might become a little bogged down in details. Ideally, you have some strong Water or Fire signs elsewhere in your chart, helping to infuse some energy and heart into an otherwise somewhat dry combination. You need to establish some far-reaching goals for the partnership, something that doesn't come too naturally for either of you, simply because you are too busy taking care of the business at hand. You can be somewhat nervous in love, and your partner is inclined in this direction as well. Be careful not to pick each other apart, and enjoy the fantastic conversations you will inevitably share.
You and your lover share a love of balance and harmony, which can be a major point of attraction between you. One of the problems that arise between Venusian Air (Libra) and Earth (Virgo) temperaments, however, is a fundamental difference in style s of loving that can lead to misunderstandings. You are certainly a thinker, but your partner is more given to sharing flights of fancy while your ideas are more conservative and practical. Your partner might find you too skeptical in matters of the heart; at the same time, you might consider your partner to be too idealistic. Your Venus in Libra lover has a somewhat detached manner, and you might interpret the "airs" that he/she puts on (read: charm!) as a lack of sincerity. Loyalty is of utmost importance to you, and your lover is certainly capable of giving a lot to the partnership. In fact, he/she lives for partnership! But your partner's detached manner might make you feel somewhat insecure and threatened. Both of you, however, are very willing to make adjustments in order for your relationship to work. You can enjoy very stimulating conversations, especially if you appreciate each other's different style s of expression. Both of you are very willing to bend and adapt in order to keep the relationship alive, and this can make all the difference when two dissimilar personalities pair up.
How You Relate to a Partner with Venus in Scorpio:
Trust doesn't come extremely easy to either you or your partner, but put you together, and the atmosphere feels quite safe. Your partner is passionate and intense—perhaps even provocative. If he/she senses passion and commitment is missing or waning, your lover may go to any means (often subtle) to keep the relationship from becoming boring. This is because your partner can be somewhat addicted to emotional excitement. You are usually receptive to your partner's wishes and needs, and you tend to bend your ways accordingly. You work hard at making your relationship work—something that your partner senses and appreciates. Neither of you is frivolous about committed relationships, and if you and your partner are committed to each other, this pairing can be hard to break. This pairing combines Venusian Earth (you) and Water (your partner). When you understand each other's different style s of loving, the combination can be very fertile. Problems generally arise between the differences in focus. Both of you are committed to making your relationship last, but you value practical expressions of commitment, while your partner values emotional ones. Subtle control issues may be the source of problems over time. If your partner senses any emotional distance on your part, he/she may use various means to regain some sense of control. Generally, you only appear "distant" because you are busy tending to the cogs in the machine of your relationship. You may find your partner's silences frustrating, as you are always willing to talk about your relationship and don't always understand why your partner resorts to giving you the silent treatment! Your partner is skilled at knowing how to push your buttons, however, and this may be one of the more potent ways he/she has discovered to get your attention! As long as game-playing is kept to a minimum, this relationship has many strengths and much potential.
How You Relate to a Partner with Venus in Sagittarius:
This combination is one of the more difficult ones. There can be considerable attraction at the beginning, but some major disconnects in terms of values and relationship style s are likely over time—nothing insurmountable, of course! The common ground you share is a desire to learn through your relationship and a willingness to talk things over. Your partner values your keen insight and you can have some wonderful conversations. Your Venus in Sagittarius lover, especially, gets off on the sharing of ideas, and enjoys philosophizing. You are certainly the more practical partner in this pairing, and your partner may find you a bit of a stick in the mud at times. You may complain of his/her blind faith in the relationship, preferring that your partner live in the here and now. You value effort put into the relationship, and you can't help but see all of the "little things" that make up its whole. Your partner, on the other hand, prefers to think of your partnership in grander, larger terms. This can be very annoying for you! You will likely disagree on how to spend money as well. Your partner is not a save-for-a-rainy-day type of person by any stretch of the imagination (unless Saturn is aspecting his/her Venus)! Your lover needs space and at least the illusion of freedom. He/she is very threatened by any attempts to confine him/her. Needless to say, your partner will be much happier if there is a strong feeling of growth in your relationship. Making plans and defining goals may help, but attempting to control or cage your partner in will have unfavorable results.
How You Relate to a Partner with Venus in Capricorn:
Both of you have Venus placed in earth signs, and the similarities between your needs in romance and partnership will be obvious. Security in partnership is a shared value, and each of you takes responsibility for their share of the relationship. Although pairing two earth signs sounds a little...well, dry...there is sure to be plenty of mutual respect and appreciation circulating between you! Your partner cherishes some moments of solitude, and that is something that you will need to understand and respect. There is no reason to feel threatened with this behavior. Both of you are somewhat reticent at the beginning of a relationship, perhaps more so on your partner's side, perhaps because both of you are responsible people who can be a little shy and cautious in matters of the heart. It may be slow-moving at the beginning as a result. However, this is a commitment-friendly combination as you will find much to trust in one another. Both of you have a work ethic and are relatively conservative with money. You will work hard at making things work, and so will your partner. Each of you is concerned about putting down roots. Criticism tends to come naturally to both of you, so you will have to try to channel it into constructive areas instead of letting loose on each other! All in all, however, this pairing is an easygoing and stable one.
How You Relate to a Partner with Venus in Aquarius:
Your partner gets off on visions, possibilities, and opportunities. You, on the other hand, are most concerned with making a relationship work. Mentally, you and your partner might have much to share. Both of you enjoy having meaningful conversations with the people you love. What you prefer to talk about may not be compatible, however! You believe your needs are simple, and in many ways they are. You respond best to practical displays of affection, and because your Venus is in an Earth sign, you value your partner's physical presence. A partner who is always running off to see friends, for example, could make you feel somewhat insecure and decidedly unloved. Your partner values exactly that freedom, so this is an area in your relationship that you both will need to work on. Your partner's appreciation of you is paramount. Otherwise, you are prone to feeling like you have done something wrong. Your partner shows his or her love in different ways, and the independence your lover needs, if misunderstood, can lead you to worry far too much. Note that if you loosen up and be yourself, your lover will appreciate you all the more. Misunderstanding of each other's unique and different love natures is what is most likely to divide you. This relationship can be a little more challenging than some, but compassion and understanding can most certainly make it work.
This is a case of "opposites attract", except that when signs are literally opposite in Astrology, they share a common thread that can bind them together. This is a magnetic combination. You sense in each other a common sensitivity, but you express your love in different ways altogether. The truth is that you have much to learn from each other. Relationships become challenging when the very qualities that attract you to one another in the first place become a source of friction later. Always remind yourself that your partner is just that--your partner, not an enemy. You will appreciate your lover's gentleness and sympathy, although you can find him or her somewhat evasive at times. This is because while you are happy to define love, your partner prefers to leave some things unspoken. Faith in love is something your Venus in Pisces partner can teach you, if you are open to it. You can help ground your partner, reminding him or her that order in a partnership is helpful for establishing a sense of purpose, when done in moderation. Moderation, in fact, is the answer to establishing balance in your relationship, and with love and compassion, you will find it easier than most couples to work toward that goal.
With Mars in Virgo your energy is refined and discriminating. In everything you seek to do there is an exacting standard you must attain, always, in order for your drive to be fulfilled. In matters of sex and love you can be quite a productive romantic partner - both in and out of the bedroom!
Mars in Virgo - Venus in Aries
Mars in Virgo is the essence of serving energy so pleasing your lover and satisfying every sexual need is a turn on for you. You see sex in a healthy, necessary way to release energy tension and even though you are attracted to someone who has a healthy respect for their body, you're not looking for the perfect person. Your energy is more the type to love someone that can become more perfect through your energy.
If the planet Venus is in Aries then your number one need for romance is passion! In sexual matters you're likely to be direct and bold. You're a flirt and can easily attract others to you even though you prefer to be the one who initiates a relationship. The thrill of the chase is a big turn on in love. In fact, to prevent boredom you must always feel pursued by your lover. Venus in Aries needs plenty of attention and stimulation. Since this is a sign known for assertiveness and independence, in matters of romance and sex, Venus in Aries takes the lead.
Mars in Virgo is the essence of serving energy so pleasing your lover and satisfying every sexual need is a turn on for you. You see sex in a healthy, necessary way to release energy tension and even though you are attracted to someone who has a healthy respect for their body, you're not looking for the perfect person. Your energy is more the type to love someone that can become more perfect through your energy.
If the planet Venus is in the sign Taurus then your greatest need in love is security. Physical security by knowing your partner is sexually loyal will be crucial. Venus in Taurus is a possessive sign in love and since you give yourself completely to someone you love, you expect nothing less in return. In your heart, love equals ownership. Taurus loves everything that is stimulating to the senses so you are the typical Venus sign that enjoys being wined and dined in the most romantic settings. Plenty of hugs, cuddling and physical affection are given freely by this sign but are also needed for Venus in Taurus to feel loved in return.
Mars in Virgo is the essence of serving energy so pleasing your lover and satisfying every sexual need is a turn on for you. You see sex in a healthy, necessary way to release energy tension and even though you are attracted to someone who has a healthy respect for their body, you're not looking for the perfect person. Your energy is more the type to love someone that can become more perfect through your energy.
If the planet Venus is in the sign Gemini you need to be loved for your mind above all else. You want to be valued as clever and bright and your endlessly stimulating conversation is sure to be one of your most attractive assets. In romance, if there isn't good communication then Venus in Gemini probably won't pursue a sexual relationship and you definitely can't fall in love with someone who doesn't know how to tickle your cerebellum. You enjoy variety in romance and while this does tend toward losing interest in one partner quickly, Venus in Gemini can be loyal just so long as you have a partner who understands your need for freedom and keeps you constantly stimulated.
Mars in Virgo is the essence of serving energy so pleasing your lover and satisfying every sexual need is a turn on for you. You see sex in a healthy, necessary way to release energy tension and even though you are attracted to someone who has a healthy respect for their body, you're not looking for the perfect person. Your energy is more the type to love someone that can become more perfect through your energy.
If the planet Venus is in the sign Cancer then your most dominant need in love is emotional security. You are tender and sensitive in matters of romance and sex. You need to be nurtured and most easily express love for another by nurturing beyond a lover's wild expectations. This could lead to co- dependent relationships where you end up getting hurt, especially if you confuse love with smothering which you sometimes do. Venus in Cancer is timid when dealing with romantic pursuits. You much prefer to prove to a potential lover how you can feed their heart and soul rather than be bold and direct in sexual matters. Feelings must be genuine and if hurt in love having Venus in Cancer is likely to shield you from opening your heart for quite some time.
Mars in Virgo is the essence of serving energy so pleasing your lover and satisfying every sexual need is a turn on for you. You see sex in a healthy, necessary way to release energy tension and even though you are attracted to someone who has a healthy respect for their body, you're not looking for the perfect person. Your energy is more the type to love someone that can become more perfect through your energy.
If the planet Venus is in the sign Leo in your horoscope then love is a grand, romantic adventure! In fact, you're an incurable romantic and with Venus in Leo you're likely to be in love with love. You need loads of attention and open displays of affection and anyone lucky enough to romance you will be doused with warm, generous gifts. Venus in Leo expects to be treated like royalty in love and sex, but you also know how to treat your romantic partner like the King or Queen of your castle in return. Venus in Leo has a tender ego and strong pride in love so you do need loads of validation and attention but you're free with compliments and have such a strong need to experience true love that once you find it, your loyalty knows no bounds.
Mars in Virgo is the essence of serving energy so pleasing your lover and satisfying every sexual need is a turn on for you. You see sex in a healthy, necessary way to release energy tension and even though you are attracted to someone who has a healthy respect for their body, you're not looking for the perfect person. Your energy is more the type to love someone that can become more perfect through your energy.
If the planet Venus is in the sign Virgo then your overwhelming need in love is to have the object of your potential affection pass some very discriminating tests before you're truly willing to step into romance. Yes, Venus in Virgo is famous for that "checklist". It could intimidate potential lovers but that's not really a threat since they'll never even know you're analyzing them to decide whether or not love is possible in the first place. Venus in Virgo does all this quietly and without fanfare. Your greatest need in love besides perfection is simply to be needed. You most easily express love by being of service to your lover and taking care of all those details in life. When you criticize or nag, it's only because you care so deeply and expect such pure love.
Mars in Virgo is the essence of serving energy so pleasing your lover and satisfying every sexual need is a turn on for you. You see sex in a healthy, necessary way to release energy tension and even though you are attracted to someone who has a healthy respect for their body, you're not looking for the perfect person. Your energy is more the type to love someone that can become more perfect through your energy.
If Venus is in the sign Libra then your most dominating need in love is to have peace at any price. You actually tend to experience much conflict in matters of romance but show your love through an innate desire and extraordinary talent to restore harmony through quarrels. Your Venus in Libra wants to be loved for diplomacy and a sense of justice. You also have an amazing need to be in a committed partnership so casual sex is usually not your best route. An intellectual connection in romance is a must for Venus in Libra. Your ability to compromise is one of your strengths in love and you tend to attract others easily through a pronounced physical beauty.
Mars in Virgo is the essence of serving energy so pleasing your lover and satisfying every sexual need is a turn on for you. You see sex in a healthy, necessary way to release energy tension and even though you are attracted to someone who has a healthy respect for their body, you're not looking for the perfect person. Your energy is more the type to love someone that can become more perfect through your energy.
If Venus is in the sign Scorpio then you have an intense need to love with more physical and emotional depth and commitment than perhaps any other sign. Love is not taken lightly and once love has infiltrated your soul it's there for good. Venus in Scorpio needs to be in control of this decision to fall in love however so it's likely you'll end up being initially guarded and slow to reveal yourself to a prospective lover as you size up the genuine potential of long term romance. Sex is the ultimate expression of love to Venus in Scorpio; however you're not interested in casual sex per se. You want intimacy. You want to know the good, bad and ugly when you're in love with someone and experience the ultimate pleasures and pain together.
Mars in Virgo is the essence of serving energy so pleasing your lover and satisfying every sexual need is a turn on for you. You see sex in a healthy, necessary way to release energy tension and even though you are attracted to someone who has a healthy respect for their body, you're not looking for the perfect person. Your energy is more the type to love someone that can become more perfect through your energy.
If Venus is in the sign Sagittarius then you love with an adventurous spirit and searching mind. You need freedom in love, that's for certain. Any forced commitment or overbearing lover is likely to send you running for the hills. But at the same time, if a romantic partner can engage your higher mind and click with your ideals and beliefs then you might never get that itch to escape. Then you know you've found a soul mate. Venus in Sagittarius attracts others easily through a fun loving personality and infectious sense of optimism and idealism. Venus in Sagittarius will need a sense of humor in love and may tire easily if romance or sex becomes too predictable.
Mars in Virgo is the essence of serving energy so pleasing your lover and satisfying every sexual need is a turn on for you. You see sex in a healthy, necessary way to release energy tension and even though you are attracted to someone who has a healthy respect for their body, you're not looking for the perfect person. Your energy is more the type to love someone that can become more perfect through your energy.
If Venus is in the sign Capricorn then your love nature is more serious and reserved than other signs. Your most predominant need in love is that it endures and is based on fulfilling your practical needs. Love is given a heavy dose of realism with Venus in Capricorn. There's no romance if you can't pay the bills. Sex can be a serious deal for you as well and you're able to exhibit a great deal of control over your libido. This sign can't love someone who has no goals or ambitions but is instantly attracted to someone responsibly climbing that ladder of success. With your Venus in Capricorn you'll show love through proving how able you are of taking care of the business in life and helping your love do just that.
Mars in Virgo is the essence of serving energy so pleasing your lover and satisfying every sexual need is a turn on for you. You see sex in a healthy, necessary way to release energy tension and even though you are attracted to someone who has a healthy respect for their body, you're not looking for the perfect person. Your energy is more the type to love someone that can become more perfect through your energy.
If Venus is in the sign Aquarius, your love needs revolve around experimentation and thinking outside the box when it comes to sex and romance. Venus in Aquarius will attract others through a progressive, open and radical mind that isn't going to obey traditional rules of love. This is the "rebel" in love. You value friendship and a strong mental connection in romance and may appear less comfortable than other signs when it comes to expressing heavy emotion. Venus in Aquarius must have independence and freedom in love so a traditional relationship usually won't work for this sign. If a lover values you for your eccentricity and unpredictability then you may have found true love.
Mars in Virgo is the essence of serving energy so pleasing your lover and satisfying every sexual need is a turn on for you. You see sex in a healthy, necessary way to release energy tension and even though you are attracted to someone who has a healthy respect for their body, you're not looking for the perfect person. Your energy is more the type to love someone that can become more perfect through your energy.
If Venus is in the sign Pisces then you need to transcend the boundaries of physical love and completely surrender your body and soul to romance. You attract others easily with your compassionate and forgiving ways however this sensitivity does make you vulnerable to being easily taken advantage of. Venus in Pisces can confuse sex with love and expect impossible ideals from romance. It's so easy for you to lose your breath and get carried away with a dreamy enchanted world you've created. You may fall in love with someone who another sign would quickly discard. Venus in Pisces is capable of seeing the potential for love in anyone. If someone understands your imaginative, dreamy tendencies and can respect your need to escape reality without using you, then you've found true romance!
In the natal astrological chart, Venus and Mars are the —go to?? planets of love and relationship. More than almost any other signature in the chart, these planets (and their aspects and house placements), give clues as to how you like to —do love?? (Venus) and —do sex?? (Mars). They represent the internal feminine and masculine, giving valuable information about how you like to love and be loved (Venus) and what makes you passionate, lusty and turned on (Mars). In a woman??s chart, Venus can give indications as to how she relates to her own femininity and sense of herself as a woman. Mars in a woman??s chart tells how she expresses her masculine energy, and also indicates what she may project onto the men in her life. Mars in a woman??s chart also can describe what she is attracted to in a man. In a man??s chart, Mars describes what makes him feel —manly,?? and gives clues as to how he personally expresses his own inner masculine energy. Venus in a man??s chart indicates the feminine qualities a man may project onto a woman, what he's looking for in the women he relates to, and also describes his relationship with his own inner feminine side.
Like Felix and Oscar in The Odd Couple, this combination has an almost comical chemistry, defined by their very different approaches to love and sex. They can't help but bang heads as they each try to get their needs met — yet as they push through their conflicts and learn to navigate their challenges, they have the potential to ultimately build a dynamic and lively connection.
Venus in Virgo wants to love and be loved, with great attention to details and specifics. She needs to feel like she is serving and being served in love. When Venus in Virgo cooks, cleans, massages, or organizes for her sweetie, she is expressing her deepest heart and emotions. Venus in Virgo channels her romantic feelings into practical forms that may seem mundane to others, but that are very heartfelt to her.
AriesMars in Aries, on the other hand, is like a fire storm, pushing boldly in the direction of his needs and desires. This Mars wants what he wants, and he wants it NOW. Impatience is a vast understatement when applied to this planet/sign placement. Like a marauding raider, Mars in Aries takes no prisoners on the path to love. Courageous, risk-taking, brash and exciting, this expression of Mars is pure fire, acting first and thinking later.
When these two energies meet, Venus in Virgo can feel overwhelmed by the sheer passion of Mars in Aries, and need to retreat and defend. This may manifest in Venus in Virgo as outrageous nitpicking and criticism directed towards Mars in Aries. Mars in Aries may in turn feel blocked and confused by Venus in Virgo??s ability to break things down to the smallest denominator. When Mars in Aries would rather —go, go, go,?? Venus in Virgo is saying, —no, no, no??.
This couple would benefit from really practicing the art of walking in the other??s shoes for a day, just to get a sense of the nature of their differences, so they can then reconnect with a broader sense of perspective and a greater sense of compassion.
Venus in Virgo and Mars in Taurus are the ultimate earthy couple. This pair is all about practicality, but this doesn't mean boring. Their chemistry is embodied and grounded — they share a love for the sensual pleasures in life. This duo enjoys cooking, gardening, hiking and working together, and can spend many hours quietly side by side, happily puttering away.
Venus in Virgo??s style of loving is all about service. She wants to please her partner with her impeccable attention to detail and her almost uncanny ability to anticipate their every need. Because Venus in Virgo so appreciates quality, she may set her standards very high, demanding a lot from both herself and those she loves. This can create stress and tension when she neglects to serve herself first. However, when Venus in Virgo is relaxed and worry-free, she can be the most sensual of lovers, applying her exquisite understanding of perfection to lovemaking in a most earthy way.
TaurusMars in Taurus??s ability to focus and patiently persist in his efforts makes him a lover of renown. This Mars could easily spend all of his time indulging in sensual pleasures, and sometimes does. He is most driven to action when motivated by the thought of further pleasure and physical comfort. If there's a sensory treat to explore, Mars in Taurus is on it. Though his steadiness can sometimes turn to stagnation, when he is at his best, he is a conneusseur of earthly delights.
Mars in Taurus thrives on Venus in Virgo??s skillful application of the arts of love. Venus in Virgo appreciates the steady and thorough approach that Mars in Taurus takes both in bed and in life. Together, this couple can create the stable ground on which to build a life together.
Headmistress meets class clown when Venus in Virgo and Mars in Gemini come together in love. Though plenty of turmoil and tension abound between this couple, they have a passionate interplay that neither can resist. This couple enjoys nothing more than to spend time stimulating the love organ that to them is the most important: the mind. Their shared love of words and communication keeps them hopelessly fascinated with each other, engaged in endless intellectual debates. Though their union is high energy, both enjoy the pace.
As a lover, Venus in Virgo is conscientious and thoughtful. She aims to please and often gets it just right. She is at her best when she feels needed and appreciated in her relationship. Since she can sometimes feel insecure about her style of loving, she needs plenty of positive strokes for reassurance. Mercury-ruled, Venus in Virgo values an intellectual bond, but her earthy nature demands physical chemistry as well.
GeminiMars in Gemini seduces with a silver tongue and a sharp wit. Mercurial and hard to pin down, this Mars is a whirlwind of activity and words. He pursues the object of his affection in a haphazard manner, often going in many different directions at once. Though not known for his lusty nature, Mars in Gemini has a creative mind in bed, putting his dexterous touch to good use. This Mars may woo with words, but he's also smart enough to know when words alone just won't cut it.
Venus in Virgo??s desire for order and neatness may be challenged in this relationship, but entertained by Mars in Gemini??s quick mind, she is never bored. Mars in Gemini loves the challenge of trying to get under her skin. Nothing excites him more than when he is able to get a reaction from his not-so-prim partner in love.
The Venus in Virgo and Mars in Cancer couple is more about long, slow kisses than fireworks, and though they may not impress the world with their passion, at home and in private this couple knows how to make their moments together count. This quiet duo easily creates an aura of safety, comfort and caring in their relationship. As their union grows more solid over time, they have much to share at their own steady pace. The Eco-Empress?? sensual earth melds smoothly with the Crab King??s watery depth, initiating a powerful interchange of lusty magnetism.
Venus in Virgo shows her love best when it takes a physical form. She??ll give you the perfect backrub, find you just the right item to decorate your home, or cook you an exquisite meal. When Venus in Virgo is relaxed and worry-free, she is a joy to be around. Treat her to a massage or other calming treat, and watch her sensual side emerge. Venus in Virgo??s sense of safety with Mars in Cancer allows her to let down her hair, ensuring that her deeply earthy nature will emerge.
CancerMars in Cancer, like the crab he is, moves sidewise, rather than straight-ahead when going after what he wants. His crabby pinchers know how to hold on tight, and so in relationships, this Mars is one of the most loyal and steadfast of them all. Mars in Cancer wants nothing more than to create a comfortable and safe container for his lover. Once he knows he and his partner are secure in their nest, he can open up and let his vulnerable and soft interior be seen. Venus in Virgo supports Mars in Cancer in feeling grounded and focused in the world, helping him move out of his shell more easily and providing him a safe foundation to return to.
United, this pair can sustain a relationship that is both practical and romantic, where each gets their needs met in fulfilling and positive ways.
Here's an unusual couple that don't seem to have much in common. Mars in Leo is loud, Venus in Virgo is reserved. But they both want a relationship where only the best is available. Read on to find out if they can make it work.
Venus in Virgo will not partner with just anyone. This woman knows exactly who she wants. She can be standoffish, but her shyness fades when she meets someone who makes her comfortable. Virgo will quickly figure out all her man??s needs, inside and outside the bedroom. She strives to be the best lover, companion and confidant her partner has ever had. The downside of this drive for perfection is that she is high-strung. Virgo can be critical, zeroing in on her lover??s faults and not backing off.
Leo Mars in Leo is boldly confident. He will launch a no-holds-barred pursuit of the woman he is attracted to, showering her with romantic words and fabulous gifts. He can be pushy, but he's so good-natured that most women don't mind. A generous, enthusiastic lover, he just wants everyone to enjoy themselves (while appreciating how fabulous he is). He can be loyal and devoted until he senses that he's being ignored. Then he??ll look around for someone else to appreciate him.
Leo??s displays may initially be a turnoff for Virgo. She likes things understated, so he won't win her over with gifts. What will work is Mars in Leo??s warmth and determination to get past her frosty reserve. He??ll be intrigued by Venus in Virgo??s untouchable vibe and will assume that she's a prize worth winning. Leo will be thrilled to discover that Virgo caters to his every whim, and Virgo will adore Leo??s appreciation.
The trouble will start when Venus in Virgo points out Leo??s imperfections. She may do this lovingly (because everyone can stand some improvement) but Mars in Leo has a low tolerance for this. Nothing cools his ardor faster than suggestions on how he could do something better.
For this union to work, Virgo will have to pull back on the criticism and Leo will have to develop a thicker skin. However, both have an instinctive understanding of their complementary roles and they play them to the hilt. With enough self-awareness, these two can fit together like pieces of a puzzle.
This match is not exactly made in heaven—since Virgo does its best to keep grounded—but it does get pretty close to being a —perfect?? fit. With both Venus and Mars in Virgo, this couple strives to do love just right. They both work hard to improve their relationship; making mistakes may be the biggest bogeyman between them. Their challenge will be to allow each other the humanity of imperfection and accept their union just the way it is. If they can do this, they will enjoy a thoughtful, sincere and devoted connection that is unique to them.
Venus in Virgo loves with a precision and care that is unmatched by any other Venus sign. This earthy girl aims to please and often does just that. If only she didn't always feel the need to try so hard! This Venus can learn a lot from allowing herself to be on the receiving end from time to time. When she gets plenty of appreciation for her efforts, she is at her best. Ruled by ultra-smart communication planet Mercury, Venus in Virgo needs to have some kind of intellectual bond with a prospective partner, but as an earth sign, the physical chemistry is just as important.
The Virgo is named after a Virgin, but this sign is anything but chaste. Mars in Virgo brings the same high standards to the bedroom that he brings to everything else. Sensual and skilled with his hands, this Mars knows that the devil is indeed in the details. He can be shy at first, but once warmed up, Mars in Virgo knows what it takes to get the job done.
Mars and Venus in Virgo understand each other??s desire to provide service to others, and for this reason they can easily form a partnership that is mutually supportive and fulfilling.
Sensitive and refined, this pair has a heightened awareness of the realm of love. They both appreciate the finer things in life, bringing a connoisseur??s touch to the details of their relationship. Because they resonate at such a similar frequency, this couple may find that they have to work to keep the passion alive between them.
Venus in Virgo may appear to have a bit of a perfectionist streak when it comes to love and relationships—and the truth is, she probably does. Suffice to say, cleanliness, attention to detail and precision are all qualities this Venus values in a partner.
As Venus in Virgo seeks to find the perfect mate, she gains more awareness about what her —dealbreaker?? needs are in a relationship and what she can realistically live without. As far as sex goes, Venus placed in the sign of the Virgin is anything but chaste, but she may need certain criteria to be met before she takes the big leap.
LibraMars in Libra is courtly, mannered and polite when it comes to going after the one he loves. As a placement that is truly —in love with love,?? this Mars can sometimes get confused about where to direct his lusty energy, turning his attention to anyone who seems open to romance. This Mars wants to please others and sometimes does so at the expense of his own needs and desires. When this Mars is in a balanced and harmonious place, he can be the ultimate lover, pleasing his partner effortlessly.
Venus in Virgo appeals to Mars in Libra??s fine taste, offering a delicate approach to love. Mars in Libra infuses Venus in Virgo with a touch of poetry, softening her heart and emotions.
If this couple can infuse their relationship with enough positive tension to keep things interesting, they can create a union that fulfills them both.
The Goddess of the Grain (Venus in Virgo) and the God of the Underworld (Mars in Scorpio) make a formidable couple. Their union has a steady fluidity built on trust and mutual respect. Though they don't make a big fuss about their relationship, the deep bond between them is usually evident to anyone who knows them well.
As an earth sign, Venus in Virgo shines when she expresses her love in physical form. Backrubs, food, cleaning—when this Venus aims to please, she rarely misses the mark. She wants to —do?? love just right, so it can be hard for her to admit it when things don't go the way she imagined. In a partner, Venus in Virgo looks for someone who is practical and grounded, since she??d rather be wooed with solid, dependable actions than romantic promises.
Mars in Scorpio brings a magnetic intensity to the art of love, focusing like a laser beam on the object of his affection. He??ll never show his relationship cards first; instead, he??ll wait patiently until the time is right to declare his affection. His sheer sexiness wins him plenty of lovers, but Mars in Scorpio prefers to have just one very loyal partner. This watery Mars can be overly guarded in love, fearing vulnerability and rejection. But when he bares his soul, he expresses a unique depth of feeling that is impossible to resist.
Venus in Virgo becomes more sensual, soft and open in the presence of Mars in Scorpio. He exudes a sense of safety and protection that allows her to relax and just be in the moment. Mars in Scorpio is drawn to Venus in Virgo??s subtle but powerful sexiness. Like a moth to a flame, he just can't seem to stay away. Even better, her grounded practicality allows him to open up and trust. Together, this couple makes a winning match.
With very different approaches to the art of love, Venus in Virgo and Mars in Sagittarius are a bit of an odd couple. Their attraction arises out of their differences, rather than what they have in common, so conflict and adjustment are an essential part of their dance. Earthy Venus in Virgo strives to create a practical, grounded relationship, while Mars in Sagittarius shoots for the stars, constantly seeking growth and new horizons in love. This couple will need to work at accepting their diverse needs in partnership, drawing on the chemistry between them to sustain their connection.
Venus in Virgo loves with a great attention to detail. She needs a sense of routine and order in her relationships and likes to plan out every stage ahead of time. This Venus strives to be of service to her partner, offering assistance however she can. She can become critical when she feels unappreciated and then takes on the role of martyr in love. However, once she knows that her service is valued and recognized, she will blossom with the pleasure of a job well done.
SagittariusLike Indiana Jones, Mars in Sagittarius is both a philosopher and an adventurer in love. He seeks out diverse partners who know how to have a good time and can share his desire to learn, grow and explore. This Mars doesn't sweat the small stuff in relationships, painting with broad-brush strokes that overlook the details. His storytelling skill and love of a good laugh make him charming and fun to be around, though his love of freedom and spontaneity can sometimes make him unreliable.
Mars in Sagittarius knows just how to get under Venus in Virgo??s skin, which leaves her both irritated and turned on. Venus in Virgo??s cool —Virgin Queen?? sexiness is an invitation that this Mars just can't resist, though sometimes he feels intimidated by her high standards. Though this couple faces conflicts as they adjust to each other??s style s of mating, their electric interplay can keep them intrigued for the long term.
This is a solid union where the desire for order complements the urge for structure. Forget the champagne and sparklers. These two earth signs will support each other as they build a relationship that means business.
Venus in Virgo wants to get it right when she falls in love. Finickiness in selecting a partner is just Virgo??s way of ensuring no one wastes her time. She already knows who Mr. Right is before she even meets him. Serious contenders only, please; this lady will rarely indulge in flings. Venus in Virgo wants a companion who will appreciate her gold standard of devotion. She incorporates love into her daily routine, expressing it with small, practical gestures.
Mars in Capricorn is all about control. He's not comfortable putting himself on the line when someone catches his eye. Proof is required that the attraction is mutual before he makes a move. Once he feels secure, Mars in Capricorn will launch a serious, focused pursuit. Some may find his approach heavy-handed, but he is simply not interested in playing games. Here is a devoted (if somewhat controlling) lover with hidden reserves of sensuality.
Virgo and Capricorn can both be aloof, so initial approaches are tricky. However, each will be drawn to the complementary energy in the other. Venus in Virgo will recognize that Capricorn is a man of quality and will be charmed by his formal approach. Mars in Capricorn will appreciate Virgo??s respect for his boundaries and will feel safe opening up to her. In turn, he??ll respect her need for order even as he debunks her endless series of anxiety-fueled crises. Virgo will find great comfort in Capricorn??s grounded strength.
The caution here is that their greatest asset as a couple could drag the Virgo/Capricorn union down. Realism could degrade into pessimism as the relationship becomes a chore. These two need reminders that it's ok to just be together and enjoy each other. With the occasional shot of perspective, this can be a satisfying, long-term relationship.
The desire for order meets a lust for chaos with this couple. The attraction between Virgo and Aquarius may not be obvious, but they do share a surprising commonality. Read on to see how they can make it work.
For Venus in Virgo, love is in the details. Nothing escapes her attention, especially the needs of her partner. She will tend to her relationship on a daily basis and leave nothing to chance. Her lover will never be taken for granted and could end up wondering how he ever functioned without her. The downside is that Virgo can be a micro-manager. She is an intellectual who needs to categorize everything. If this trait is taken too far, emotions are analyzed, bled dry and filed away.
Aquarius Mars in Aquarius needs to do his own thing. It's not that he can't commit, he just wants do it on his own terms. Initially he can be unnervingly focused on his lover, blasting away her expectations with passion and excitement. But he can switch from intensity to friendly detachment overnight if he feels trapped or bored. Although he can be unpredictable, a part of Aquarius always stands back and observes.
How will free-wheeling Mars in Aquarius ever tolerate Ms. Virgo??s scheduling fetish? Most of the time he won't. And Venus in Virgo will be distressed by the pleasure Aquarius takes in disruption. But here's a secret about Virgo: she's a closet eccentric. Her love of routine can approach bizarrely ritualized proportions. Mars in Aquarius is instinctively drawn to anyone who??s a bit left of center, and he??ll find Virgo intriguing as he tries to figure out what makes her tick. Venus in Virgo will be disarmed by his friendly approach and captivated by his need to understand everything. Here is the couple that will literally talk for hours about anything, including their mutual attraction.
In some ways they make better friends than lovers as their detachment can keep things cool. But if other factors in their charts lead to a passionate connection, this pair will keep each other endlessly fascinated.
Earth and water in love may make some think of mud, but Venus in Virgo and Mars in Pisces create a dynamic polarity in relationship that is anything but boring. This Venus and Mars pair is in opposing signs, and embodies the —opposites attract?? energy in all its interactions, from the bedroom to the kitchen. Inspiring each other to explore what it means to be whole and fulfilled, Venus in Virgo and Mars in Pisces, at their best, are able to infuse their partnership with a sense of devotion, service, sensitivity and subtlety.
Venus in Virgo needs to feel needed in relationship, and wants to feel deep down inside that she is helpful, or even better, indispensable to her partner. She thrives on tending to the daily, routine tasks that make life run smoothly, and her love is offered up in a quiet way that sometimes may pass by unnoticed. When she isn't appreciated, this Venus can grow critical and bitter, experiencing a martyr-like syndrome that may drive her partner away.
PiscesMars in Pisces is awed by Venus in Virgo??s tangible grasp on love, and turned on by the —sexy librarian?? vibe that this Venus does so well. Wooing from his watery depths, Mars in Pisces uses poetry, music and possibly even astral dreaming to seduce and attract. This deeply sensitive Mars has a well of compassion to offer Venus in Virgo, and provides a soothing and mystical perspective that helps this Venus relax and release anxiety and stress. Mars in Pisces?? main challenge in partnership is to not get lost in the misty lands of imagination, living more in fantasy than reality.
Like all the opposing Venus and Mars pairs, these two only run into trouble when they become polarized and stuck in their own perspectives. Remembering to appreciate, honor and benefit from each other??s differences helps them to grow closer, rather than further apart.
Adaptable Earth Virgo — almost a contradiction in terms. When is earth adaptable? Answer: When it is Virgo earth of course. Adaptable earth is enigmatic for most people. This is because most people (non-earth types of course) don't really consider earth to be anything more than the least evolved element. However, Virgo earth realises that earth is no different from air, water and fire, that it is, in fact comprised of all of these and these of it — in a fashion. Virgo is an intellectual earth sign — the purist Mercury. Virgo is about INTEGRITY.
Virgo rules the sixth house of health. The human body, to a Virgo reflects the integrity of life on our planet itself. Sometimes fastidiously clean some Virgos themselves find it hard to recognize their own motivations in regard to their health and that of others. Until they are able to identify the essence through their process of discernment these adaptable earth types will, just like the adaptable fire type roaming everywhere, push and pull and criticise and frustrate themselves with everything about themselves and about other people, and about the earth itself, until they realise their task is integration through efficiency, not hypochondria, nor obsessive compulsive hygiene. Adaptable earth can, as long as their nerves allow (Mercury ruling the nerves of the body — the source many say of all life) adapt to anything life can throw at them. Physically youthful, adaptable earth is able to manipulate its body and adjust to conditions that others may buckle under.
Virgo??s symbol is the Virgin. The Virgins of old were the temple harlots whose integrity came from being their own person — not owned (married) to the authority of one male (husband). Virgo??s are enigmatic contradictions to most non-Virgo??s yet in every one of our charts Virgo has an impact in at least one area of our lives. How can you be —intellectual?? and —earthly sensual?? without combining —air?? (mental thinking)? Like the Taurean who creates beauty through its own means, Virgo??s intellectualism is pragmatic — realised through the integrity or combination of all things. Like Sagittarius, the other adaptable sign that is —wholistic?? in its enterprise, Virgo??s earth contains all things manifest. Virgo??s —service?? comes about because Virgo must make its integrity useful. Where Virgo falls in your chart it will not be enough to be considered good at something because it is
You??ve got a secret, don't you? Most people wouldn't guess this based on your demure exterior, but you??re a total sexpot. The only things that get in the way of your ideal sex life are scheduling problems and floating anxiety. If you can use your body to make your mind stop working overtime, you??re golden.
Sure, you could be boring and get your exercise on the treadmill. Or you could pencil in plenty of time with your lover. It's your choice, Virgo.
If you??re lusting for a Virgo:
Cleanliness is a virtue if you aim to seduce a Virgo. They can't stand even a speck of dirt beneath your fingernails. Be prepared for criticism, because they??ll dole it out, even if they want you. Show class but not too much sass; they prefer a low-key approach.
This sign loves to serve, however, so if you get them into bed you??re in for the best time of your life.
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