The Vrigo Mind

I have known my Virgo for 3 years through friends, but only recently have he and I started spending time together.
I am in constant communication with this guy, we light up eachothers phones all day, whether it's with texts, phone calls...we are in our early 30's so this is strange for both of us... but it's fun! I was not looking for anything with anyone, and it seems now that I might be falling for this guy.... he made a statement to me the other day in reference relationships, he said 'You know when you just know? and I just smiled..... he said 'See you know.'


I plan to take it one day at a time with this guy because we're having so much fun... but I'm just wondering, will Virgo men ever tell you how they feel, or does it have to come on the heels of you exposing yourself first.

Just curious!

Thanks

Sorry..dont mean to be a downer or anything, but this is a pretty stupid question 🙂

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Sorry..dont mean to be a downer or anything, but this is a pretty stupid question 🙂

Do you mind substantiating your statement by explaning what exactly makes the question stupid?

And thanks for the warm welcome to this message board. Nice to meet you too.

I didnt call you stupid, I called your question stupid, so no need to get personal about it.

Are you seriously asking me to explain why?

My first serious relationship was with a Virgo. In the beginning, he just sort of "showed" me how he felt. He was very romantic, not sappy romantic, more like extremely attentive. There was no ambiguity about whether we were dating or just friends. But he never actually said, "Hey I like you, so let's give this thing a shot" lol

Damn Shaka just answer the question. What's the big deal?

Do you seriously question whether in the entire history of mankind there has been any Virgo that has expressed feelings towards his beloved one spontaneously?

*Shakes head*

LOL

Its like..people are always looking for answers which is great, but at least make sure you ask the right questions.

Besides, she has known this guy for 3 years, how could we possibly know any better than herself whether he's the type of guy to express his feelings spontaneously—

LOL, the only way a Virgo is going to express their feelings is if they really like you and are unsure of your feelings.
If you are all gooogly eyed and clearly are expressing your liking, he probably won't and if he does it will be completely random.

Kaboom you are my favorite Virgo don't know what your opinions are about me just wanted to let you know my love for you. If you think its gay your a Virgo. Sacasm is the antidote for stress or maybe somes disease for annoyance. If it is your disease my response is dust kicking shoes and c ya later.

-Trots off-

^Yeah sure..cause you have met every Virgo on this planet^

Im getting headache from so much head shaking today..

*Shakes head*

That was for GodMadeBeauty..

Posted by GodMadeBeauty
LOL, the only way a Virgo is going to express their feelings is if they really like you and are unsure of your feelings.
If you are all gooogly eyed and clearly are expressing your liking, he probably won't and if he does it will be completely random.

+1000

Id say this goes with Earth in general the exception might be Bull Baloney.

Posted by ArticleL
Kaboom you are my favorite Virgo don't know what your opinions are about me just wanted to let you know my love for you. If you think its gay your a Virgo. Sacasm is the antidote for stress or maybe somes disease for annoyance. If it is your disease my response is dust kicking shoes and c ya later.

-Trots off-

Cool bananas, *high five*

Welcome! *confetti*

I'm going to assume that you're trying to figure out the emotional connection in your relationship, rather than trying to define your relationship status (i.e. I'm assuming that you're going out rather than hanging out). The latter is fairly simple to find out if you ask directly. Or at least, it ought to be.

Virgos tend to show you their feelings through their actions, rather than telling you outright. I think this partly has to do with the fact that it seems far too easy (and by extension, unauthentic) to merely claim that we feel a certain way. We have to prove it to you (and ourselves). The reverse is true as well: Virgos tend to see words as just words - we place more weight on inferring how you feel (sometimes incorrectly, depending on maturity and self-esteem).

Just be yourself and the truth will come out naturally, over time. It's a two way street, though - if you do need to hear those words more often, explain it to him once you both get more comfortable with each others' feelings. Virgos are pretty good at being accommodating, even if we don't always share those needs.

Sorry about the poor reception. I've always wondered why people on forums go out of their way to tell you why it's beneath them to answer a question. You'd think it'd be faster to either answer or ignore (what we lack in tact, we at least ought to make up for in efficiency). o_o

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Posted by ArticleL
Kaboom you are my favorite Virgo don't know what your opinions are about me just wanted to let you know my love for you. If you think its gay your a Virgo. Sacasm is the antidote for stress or maybe somes disease for annoyance. If it is your disease my response is dust kicking shoes and c ya later.

-Trots off-

Cool bananas, *high five*

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I got ten use both hands. 😛

LOL Boom, I didnt say i met every Virgo but I AM A VIRGO so its my personal opinion.

Thanks =]

Never mind NG22, The Retard Army is here to help you out answering your questions..good luck! 🙂

NG22,

Their actions should be so obvious that you needn't even ask this question.

Because you have to ask us, I'm going to go ahead and deduct that he is still "speculating". What you have to do is be tactful, go with the punches. Continue to show him your interest and he'll continue to reciprocate until one day when he stops you dead in your tracks, looks deeply into your eyes... and then you'll have your answer.

I personally think a lot of people just spoil the process with too many questions, thus, end up spoiling the connection.

Posted by Lochinvar
Welcome! *confetti*

I'm going to assume that you're trying to figure out the emotional connection in your relationship, rather than trying to define your relationship status (i.e. I'm assuming that you're going out rather than hanging out). The latter is fairly simple to find out if you ask directly. Or at least, it ought to be.

Virgos tend to show you their feelings through their actions, rather than telling you outright. I think this partly has to do with the fact that it seems far too easy (and by extension, unauthentic) to merely claim that we feel a certain way. We have to prove it to you (and ourselves). The reverse is true as well: Virgos tend to see words as just words - we place more weight on inferring how you feel (sometimes incorrectly, depending on maturity and self-esteem).

Just be yourself and the truth will come out naturally, over time. It's a two way street, though - if you do need to hear those words more often, explain it to him once you both get more comfortable with each others' feelings. Virgos are pretty good at being accommodating, even if we don't always share those needs.

Sorry about the poor reception. I've always wondered why people on forums go out of their way to tell you why it's beneath them to answer a question. You'd think it'd be faster to either answer or ignore (what we lack in tact, we at least ought to make up for in efficiency). o_o

Thank you for your kind and through response and advise on how to manage my time on this message board! To be clear I met him 3 years ago... but have only starting seeing him of late... and we speak all the time, he spends every spare moment in his life communicating with me in some way...we are both very busy. What I'm getting at ultimately is that we both feel good about whats happening, im faithful, and I'm quite sure he's faithful.....but will he ever claim me for his own, or is that something I will have to instigate?

Posted by Let*It*Be
"he made a statement to me the other day in reference relationships, he said 'You know when you just know? and I just smiled..... he said 'See you know.'"


^^the beginning of that Virgo mental connection...love it! Don't read too much into what's happening, just go with it and keep the communication open! Good luck! 🙂

Thank you!! I feel really good about this one....for the first time ever.

Posted by Nebulous_Cloud9
NG22,

Their actions should be so obvious that you needn't even ask this question.

Because you have to ask us, I'm going to go ahead and deduct that he is still "speculating". What you have to do is be tactful, go with the punches. Continue to show him your interest and he'll continue to reciprocate until one day when he stops you dead in your tracks, looks deeply into your eyes... and then you'll have your answer.

I personally think a lot of people just spoil the process with too many questions, thus, end up spoiling the connection.

I can appreciate that he's still 'speculating' and that's totally cool... I'm a Sag and I am just going with the flow here... but for the first time in my life I see myself with someone forever, and that has NEVER happened to me. So I'm also kinda scared.
In our busy lives we see eachother as much as we can, and we talk every single day several times a day. Although we met 3 years ago, we only recently became reconnected, and it's been a blast thus far.

I look forward to being stopped dead in my tracks by this guys... I'm ready for it. IT's clear that he shows me with gestures and touches and kisses and hugs that he's into me, but even something simple as ' i like you' kinda makes me feel better about where this might be headed.... meh, we'll see how it goes. Thanks!

Posted by Let*It*Be
"he made a statement to me the other day in reference relationships, he said 'You know when you just know? and I just smiled..... he said 'See you know.'"


^^the beginning of that Virgo mental connection...love it! Don't read too much into what's happening, just go with it and keep the communication open! Good luck! 🙂

Sound advice! Thank you! I shall procceed as normal! 🙂 xo

Posted by ArticleL
Kaboom you are my favorite Virgo don't know what your opinions are about me just wanted to let you know my love for you. If you think its gay your a Virgo. Sacasm is the antidote for stress or maybe somes disease for annoyance. If it is your disease my response is dust kicking shoes and c ya later.

-Trots off-

You spelled sarcasm wrong.

Posted by NGG22
What I'm getting at ultimately is that we both feel good about whats happening, im faithful, and I'm quite sure he's faithful.....but will he ever claim me for his own, or is that something I will have to instigate?

Let go of your expectations and live in the moment. If you're yearning to express your own feelings, do so gently, but don't put any pressure on your relationship to force it forward. Throw away your map and enjoy the wilderness. That shouldn't be too hard for a Sagittarius, should it?

I know that for practical purposes you'll have to determine for yourself if he's interested in committing in the long run, but that's something that's going to become obvious only from watching his behavior, rather than anything that he can say to make you feel better.

I'm not sure if this is a Virgo trait (I'm not the best example), but I tend to hold myself back when there are outstanding issues in my own life that need to be dealt with elsewhere (i.e. work before play). There's the issue of having the desire to commit, and then there's also the issue of actually being able to do so on a practical level. He might not let you catch wind of his feelings on the matter unless both points are met - because there's simply no point in making promises before you're absolutely positively certain that you can keep them.

tl;dr plan: Observe prey. Plant traps and wait. Get distracted by passing butterflies. :3

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Posted by ArticleL
Kaboom you are my favorite Virgo don't know what your opinions are about me just wanted to let you know my love for you. If you think its gay your a Virgo. Sacasm is the antidote for stress or maybe somes disease for annoyance. If it is your disease my response is dust kicking shoes and c ya later.

-Trots off-

You spelled sarcasm wrong.

lol

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+1

Because there Virgos im watching one talk to a telephone pole asking it why is it so tall.