Virgo marriage drop

If she brings another man into the scenario and tells you that she has interests elsewhere, then she isn't your woman.

so, marriage should be taken off the table ... indefinitely, regardless of any/all astrologies

She telling me if the other guy leave hetr she would come back?

...And you're okay with that? You're okay with playing second fiddle? Second choice??
If the guy comes back in a few years, what makes you think she'll hang around?

Just leave. Leave as fast as you can.

Posted by Tora
...And you're okay with that? You're okay with playing second fiddle? Second choice??
If the guy comes back in a few years, what makes you think she'll hang around?

Just leave. Leave as fast as you can.

she was a girl and i'm the man and she with another man.

we still do things the same way. should i just step out. how do i leave my virgo girl easily but deep inside of me i want her to love me the same way she did before?

Posted by Scorby21

Posted by Tora
...And you're okay with that? You're okay with playing second fiddle? Second choice??
If the guy comes back in a few years, what makes you think she'll hang around?

Just leave. Leave as fast as you can.

she was a girl and i'm the man and she with another man.

we still do things the same way. should i just step out. how do i leave my virgo girl easily but deep inside of me i want her to love me the same way she did before?

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if she comes back and the guy comes after her should i accept her? shoul i still trust her?

Firstly, stop being too nice about this whole thing. You need to toughen up and end it. It's situations like these that teach people self respect. I bet the Gemini is a bastard and she loves it that way.

Posted by LunarMaiden
Firstly, stop being too nice about this whole thing. You need to toughen up and end it. It's situations like these that teach people self respect. I bet the Gemini is a bastard and she loves it that way.

actually the gemini guy doesn't want to make promise on her and there relationship is a secret at work

Thanks i'm telling her this Saturday that i'll end it.

should we remain best friends or avoid her totally?

When she admit it she promising me that if she comes back she won't cheat again it would be her last and first should i trust her?

No. You shouldn't trust her. You should move on.

You obviously have no integrity, since you continue to ask the same question about trust, eventhough you've been told by us. For the fact you keep stating the same thing, means you want to take her back, disregarding your own honor.

Therefore, you should fall head first into this, just as you wish to do ... maybe then you might actually realize you are beneath her, and hopefully that will trigger a desire in you to rise above.

So, I've changed my advice ... I believe you should try to get her back. If it doesn't work out with the other man, then do whatever you can to win her back, sweet talk her, pamper her, whatever it takes.

And my hopes for you lies in the future, after realization sets in

Actually, you know what .... perhaps there is something else entirely different going on here.

Scorpios cannot be broken up with ... they won't allow it. If a person breaks up with them, they will do whatever it takes to get the person back so that they can be the breaker uppers.

Thier ego cannot handle it otherwise.

so, this is likely the case of your ego not being able to handle it, and nothing to do with actually wanting the girl. The moment you think she's yours again ... in Scorpio fashion, you'll likely dump her.

Thank guys another problem is her family i'm very close with her mother and sister. her sister doesn't want me to communicate anymore. her mother still want preferred me. is it good to remain friend with her and keep her as a contact?

is this normal for a 1st decan virgo girl on an ox in chinese zodiac?