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This article....
ok love this and I can defiantly relate. Tried to copy some key parts but wasn't letting me.
Especially the don't be two halves of a whole- be two wholes to make and even greater whole 🙂
Sometimes I think I am too independent and it truly does make me uneasy to rely on another, getting better at this part but it's hard.
Posted by justagirl
ok love this and I can defiantly relate. Tried to copy some key parts but wasn't letting me.Especially the don't be two halves of a whole- be two wholes to make and even greater whole 🙂
Sometimes I think I am too independent and it truly does make me uneasy to rely on another, getting better at this part but it's hard.
Yeah I liked that part a lot myself ...its just so true!
Yes it is hard...something ive always struggled with and probably always will.
Posted by justagirl
ok love this and I can defiantly relate. Tried to copy some key parts but wasn't letting me.Especially the don't be two halves of a whole- be two wholes to make and even greater whole 🙂
Sometimes I think I am too independent and it truly does make me uneasy to rely on another, getting better at this part but it's hard.
Yeah I liked that part a lot myself ...its just so true!
Yes it is hard...something ive always struggled with and probably always will.
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There are times I wish I could just trust another that much to do it. Do you find it's a trust thing? I was once told it's more about control but for me I don't think it's about control. Yes in some areas of my life it's about control but not when it's the relying on another thing. I have to trust you to share that part of myself with you. Not sure if it's because in a strange way I find it a weakness, again working on that, because I KNOW it's not a weakness to rely on someone, but telling my head AND heart that is two different things. Hope I explained that, been a long day.
Posted by justagirl
ok love this and I can defiantly relate. Tried to copy some key parts but wasn't letting me.Especially the don't be two halves of a whole- be two wholes to make and even greater whole 🙂
Sometimes I think I am too independent and it truly does make me uneasy to rely on another, getting better at this part but it's hard.
Yeah I liked that part a lot myself ...its just so true!
Yes it is hard...something ive always struggled with and probably always will.
There are times I wish I could just trust another that much to do it. Do you find it's a trust thing? I was once told it's more about control but for me I don't think it's about control. Yes in some areas of my life it's about control but not when it's the relying on another thing. I have to trust you to share that part of myself with you. Not sure if it's because in a strange way I find it a weakness, again working on that, because I KNOW it's not a weakness to rely on someone, but telling my head AND heart that is two different things. Hope I explained that, been a long day.
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No I get what you mean 🙂
I think for me its more of a control thing...the other person having control over me and using it against me in the future. It literally makes me sick to my stomach. I guess it could be a trust thing to in a way...And yes I do see it as a weakness ...but like you I know its not.. you should be able to rely on others for certain things.
Posted by LostinmyMind11
Screams virgo lol. Or maybe it just screams me...but I thought others might like to read it. 🙂http://www.elephantjournal.com/2014/03/how-to-love-a-girl-who-doesnt-know-how-to-be-loved/
You should forward this to all the men you're interested in Limm. No best time like the present to make moves and take some risk in life, remember, we're only here for a small amount of time.
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Lol right! Pull this bad boy out and make them ready it first then proceed to the first date hahaha
WOW... Bookmarking this twice
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Screams virgo lol. Or maybe it just screams me...but I thought others might like to read it. 🙂
http://www.elephantjournal.com/2014/03/how-to-love-a-girl-who-doesnt-know-how-to-be-loved/