this virgo i know

Hello, I'm new to these boards though, I have been lurking alot. I finally decided to join because of my virgo curiosity. 🙂 This will be my first post.

I know virgos are all "leave me alone I want to think and analyze you" thing.
They're known for not showing emotion too but I have a friend virgo who shows most of the virgo qualities, which I understand why she does what she does. But there are a couple of things this virgo girl does that I'm not sure what to think. Maybe you guys can help me out. 🙂

1. We talk alot have great conversation. This one time we are talking she brings up commitment and says, "You know what I'm afraid of? Commitment". She totally dropped that on me without warning. What was that? That was showing emotion?

2. One time we haven't seen each other in a while and she has never done this before but she hugged me and told me that she thought I quit (forgot to mention we work togther) Now I'm not sure what she meant by that but she hasn't hugged me ever since.

3. Last thing is when we went to the movie together with the three of us. It worked out that she and I were supposed to be sitting together but she went out of her way to sit away from me. What was that about?

Does this virgo love? or hate me? or what? :S

I've read alot about virgos but I just don't know what this about. Any thoughts?

Okay maybe I kind of like her and I'm trying to see any signs of her liking me.

That thing about her needing a better view can't be true seeing as there was no one in front of us.

Maybe there isn't a chance if not I am ready to move on. Maybe I think virgos are way less complex that I put them up to be. After reading so much I was so sure they have so much more going on in their mind than I do.

Whats with the commitment comment? Commitment in a friendship? We weren't on a date and I don't think she is interested in that way anyway.

Virgos are known to work on a relationship if they feel its worth it?

Well, virgoangoat, I wanted to get some virgo perspective on this. Seems I've been looking too much into this. I appreciate you're input I do.
This girl is so confusing. She'll be super friendly and we'd click next she'll act all cold. For example
She once asked me if I wanted to hold her hand. I thought she was testing me or something.. its these kind of things that make me think she likes me. Then she starts to talk about other guys endlessly. It was probably a test wasn't it? Do they usually try to make potential partners jealous by bringing up other people.
I do like her but I do hide it alot, I am afraid of something. Maybe she is confused and thats making me confused.

"1. We talk alot have great conversation. This one time we are talking she brings up commitment and says, "You know what I'm afraid of? Commitment". She totally dropped that on me without warning. What was that? That was showing emotion?"

My perspective.. commitment is a big step especially if you know the odds of things working out. So when I commit, I want to make sure i'm willing to deal with and accept all angles otherwise I won't even bother.


"2. One time we haven't seen each other in a while and she has never done this before but she hugged me and told me that she thought I quit (forgot to mention we work togther) Now I'm not sure what she meant by that but she hasn't hugged me ever since."

That sort of hug would be for missing you


"3. Last thing is when we went to the movie together with the three of us. It worked out that she and I were supposed to be sitting together but she went out of her way to sit away from me. What was that about?"

Well she either wanted to sit near someone else or get a different view or she just felt uncomfortable.


"Does this virgo love? or hate me? or what? :S"

I don't think either one, yet. Both are strong words.

"I've read alot about virgos but I just don't know what this about. Any thoughts?"

Virgos can be confusing because of keeping our thoughts to ourselves.