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This topic was created in the Virgo forum by cancergem on Friday, January 8, 2010 and has 3 replies.

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@cancergem
17 Years500+ PostsCancer

I met this virgo, well technically we didn't just meet, we met over a year ago through a mutual friend, but we never really talked to each other much back then. and honestly somehow I just didn't really notice him. Fast forward to the week before Christmas, I was at a party with some friends and one of my close guy friends, who also happens to be a virgo invited him over to the party. When he arrived I went up to him to just say hi and briefly catch up. Well that brief catching up turned into me and him just talking for the rest of the night, and as we're talking I start to realize how incredibly handsome he is. Most of the conversation revolved around art (we're both artists) and school (we went to the same art school). Anyway, earlier that night I dropped my phone in the toilet 😢 somehow it's still alive but at that time I just figured it was completely out of commission. I had work to work a brunch shift the next morning and I use my cell as an alarm clock, so I started to get incredibly worried as to how I'd be waking up for work. One of my friends suggested I sleep over her house and I could use her alarm clock. So, my friend's bf comes to the party and they both end up leaving in a drunken stupor with out me! I tell the virguy this and he offers up his place and well his alarm clock I agreed and we left the party incredibly late to go to his place which happened to be not to far away from where we were. We watch a movie before going to sleep, I end up sleeping in his bed with him, absolutely nothign happened beyond a kiss here and there and lots of snuggling. Next morning, I wake up for work, he offers up some quick food before I go and also takes my number.

Some time passes and I hadn't heard from him, I mention it to a mutual friend of his about it and he tells em that he's really shy and I'll have to initiate the contact... which honestly, I really didn't want to do. Oh, and fyi, since we had met so long ago already we were already friends on facebook, so I decided the best indirect/direct way to contact him would be through there so i left him a comment asking how he was doing and he instantly replied. So at some point I write back that we should hang out some time and 2 mins. after I write that he calls asking what I'm doing the next day. We hang out at my house watch a bunch of movies and drink wine.

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@cancergem
17 Years500+ PostsCancer

... he sleeps over again and again, not much happens besides cuddling and some kissing. We made plans to hang out last night but he had to cancel and he said he was going to give me a call today. I've never really been involved with a virgo before and the only other guy I had to make the moves on because he was shy was a libra. not really sure what to expect, he seems really nice, smart and incredibly mature for someone whos 2 years younger than me. I hope to hang out wiht him again soon but I don't think I'll let him sleep over again because my venus in leo wants to pounce on him.

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@nyc125
16 Years

so just make the move if he doesnt like it it means A. hes gay B. hes gay. If it was me i would have given you the treatment offf jump lol idk thats my opinon.

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@Ferghus Clydelover
20 Years500+ Posts

So he's 21 and is not interested enough in sex to say something about it... or try to make moves in that direction... uh... dunno what to say. He should be all over you... especially sexy Cancer that you are... I guess you'll just have to have a talk about sex if you want to stick with him. Just say... "SO, about sex.... what are your thoughts?" LOL. I don't know what else to offer for advice. Do you think he's straight? Maybe he's Bi- and only barely straight... you know, like a 5 on the Kinsey scale. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale