I am not really in a good place right now regarding my (ex) 40 Virgo bf who is a single dad like myself a single mum. However, recently for his and mine birthday in September, we had a brief re-encounter which (un) fortunately resulted in my becoming pregnant. i am now 7 weeks along.... it has been torture for me as I swayed back and forth on not keeping it...I am not financially able...but after much debate and self searching I have decided to proceed with Virgos baby..... THe day i found out I told virgo ex.... He responded as cooly and aloofly as possible "what are you going to do?" I have then informed him that I will be going ahead with said pregnancy, to which he stated by text "we are not ready for another child". Cant even discuss to my face.
Notwithstanding pregnancy hormones and all the other stresses, I have let him have a few of my "thoughts" by text about how i feel... blame being one of them. And as ususal he has disappeared which is nothing new with him. He did come over 2 fridays in a row and slept over but no talk on elephant, or baby in the room. He acted as if nothing was new . Since then I have heard very little from him. No talk, no calls or texes etc.
One of the reasons I liked him so much is that he is a great single dad to his daughter. However, I never never intended to have another baby at this point in my life.... Unplanned pregnancy is really just that unplanned. And the relationship was so so anyway. Please I dont need any bashing as i've done that enough to myself already... Do u think Virgo has gone into hiding forever leave him alone or just move on and dont bother with any support from him....
thanks 😢 btw he lives practically 5 mins away in my town... so visits are not even a problem if he wanted to talk....
We virgos live in our minds so were constantly over thinking things. Hes probably worrying himself to death about the negative side effects of having a child instead of the positives. Yu have to reassure him that everythings going to be ok [be specific on how so] and STOP annoying him. Yu can't let your emotions & his actions f*ck your pregnancy up - trust me I went thru it [i had a premature labor last month that ended up being a still birth & I spent my entire 22weeks of pregnancy worrying& once my child died I realized despite what I thought we would have had a great life together]
We virgos live in our minds so were constantly over thinking things. Hes probably worrying himself to death about the negative side effects of having a child instead of the positives. Yu have to reassure him that everythings going to be ok [be specific on how so] and STOP annoying him. Yu can't let your emotions & his actions f*ck your pregnancy up - trust me I went thru it [i had a premature labor last month that ended up being a still birth & I spent my entire 22weeks of pregnancy worrying& once my child died I realized despite what I thought we would have had a great life together]
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However, recently for his and mine birthday in September, we had a brief re-encounter which (un) fortunately resulted in my becoming pregnant. i am now 7 weeks along.... it has been torture for me as I swayed back and forth on not keeping it...I am not financially able...but after much debate and self searching I have decided to proceed with Virgos baby.....
THe day i found out I told virgo ex.... He responded as cooly and aloofly as possible "what are you going to do?"
I have then informed him that I will be going ahead with said pregnancy, to which he stated by text "we are not ready for another child". Cant even discuss to my face.
Notwithstanding pregnancy hormones and all the other stresses, I have let him have a few of my "thoughts" by text about how i feel... blame being one of them.
And as ususal he has disappeared which is nothing new with him. He did come over 2 fridays in a row and slept over but no talk on elephant, or baby in the room. He acted as if nothing was new . Since then I have heard very little from him. No talk, no calls or texes etc.
One of the reasons I liked him so much is that he is a great single dad to his daughter. However, I never never intended to have another baby at this point in my life.... Unplanned pregnancy is really just that unplanned. And the relationship was so so anyway. Please I dont need any bashing as i've done that enough to myself already...
Do u think Virgo has gone into hiding forever leave him alone or just move on and dont bother with any support from him....
thanks 😢
btw he lives practically 5 mins away in my town... so visits are not even a problem if he wanted to talk....