Virgal always burned by Scorps

I feel like I always give 110% in my relationship with Scorpios but all they do is let me down. They take advantage of me but I can't help but always be attracted to scorps! What other signs have Virgals find compatible with them? I don't think Scorpios are it...

Funny I have never dated any Scorpio man. Have no idea what they are like as a bf, even though I have several female Scorp friends I am close to. I think I am way too independent for the Scorp man. He wants to lead and dominate is what I have heard, can't verify. I am also very investigative. I need to know everything about him. So if he wants to stay mysterious, he will not be comfortable with my inquisitiveness.

I have best experiences with Libra men. They are fun and LOVE to be a couple and belong to someone, so that makes life easy.

Another Virgo can work too, though it can get a bit stodgy if he has too many earth elements.

Capricorns are way too calm, reserved for me.
Taurus males probably find me too restless. They like steadiness and predictability.

I would positively enjoy dating a water sign like a Pisces. I like how deeply they feel, into the murky depths that few men wade, and their ability to think outside the box (think Steve Jobs), and can relate on an esoteric level. The only two guys I know doing yoga are both Pisces. Surprise surprise.

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Virgos are mutable, we adapt. So we can really go with any element. Leo might be a good fire sign too for Virgos.

Scorpios....

Well as a Vguy, I definitely know that strange paradox connection we have with scorpios. I know quite a few scorp females, but I've never dated one, but I could see how passionate it could be. What I noticed about scorp is they don't like weak people, so maybe that's were you went wrong.

Posted by virgo824
I feel like I always give 110% in my relationship with Scorpios but all they do is let me down. They take advantage of me but I can't help but always be attracted to scorps! What other signs have Virgals find compatible with them? I don't think Scorpios are it...

Scorpios don't like people who lay down in front of them, and eagerly hand out 110% .

Scorpios like people who are willing to work for it.


You aren't that person, obviously, from what you wrote.


It's not always about you giving, you know Virgo ... the only thing a Virgo can recognize is that they give, and how the other should be very appreciative. But, what you don't get is that other people don't like to be given to constantly and without merit, because then it becomes superficial.

You probably won't get that, due to being a Virgo. 😭

Posted by virgo824
I feel like I always give 110% in my relationship with Scorpios but all they do is let me down.

You shouldn't give 110% to ANYONE. You allow them to let you down, so they only do what you've taught them to do. He's just applying what he's learned from you.