Virgo #1 and I broke up in May. Met Virgo #2 around a month later. Learned a lot form Virgo #1 so thought Virgo #2 would be a bit of a breeze.... NOT!! Lol! Same traits, but I am doing this one differently. So it's been 4 months with the hot and cold. mia, gave him the space he needed, yada yada....Had not met any of his family and 2 weeks ago, he invited me down and I had dinner with him, his children and his ex wife and her boyfriend. He started pulling away after that (I'm sure because he was feeling close) and an event came up that was very important to me. I ask him to go and he declined, said he had plans and ended it with "Don't hate me". I was very hurt since it was important to me and let him know I was, and ... that I had felt that it wasn't as important to him. Several days later I get the I haven't treated you right, you deserve better and I'm not ready for a relationship speech. There is no commitment at this point or before and we are both dating other people. Things got heated between us and we both said things that we didn't mean, but here's my question... he stated that he made it clear that he didn't want a girlfriend or a relationship right now, but is very hurt and upset that I told him that I had gone out with someone a couple of times. Someone please explain this to me.....
