Been together two years, and have lived together 1.
It all started with constant nagging at me. He would point out everything I do “wrong.” So I tried to accommodate him and stop, but no matter what I do to please him, I have always felt that it’s never been good enough.
The past few months he has distanced himself, and it’s come to a breaking point for me because I feel like we have been “roommates” for the past month. So I confronted him.
He says he doesn’t want to continue the relationship and he expects us to cohabitate for the next two months until our lease is up. He said I don’t understand him still, but how can I understand someone who never communicates and is mad 60% of the time.
I feel very lost and sad, becsuse he seems very resolute in his feelings that I am not right for him.
I am trying to see it as a positive thing- because why would someone want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be in a relationship, but at the same time it feels like he is throwing it all away because over trivial, stupid shit.
Any words or insights would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks
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It all started with constant nagging at me. He would point out everything I do “wrong.” So I tried to accommodate him and stop, but no matter what I do to please him, I have always felt that it’s never been good enough.
The past few months he has distanced himself, and it’s come to a breaking point for me because I feel like we have been “roommates” for the past month. So I confronted him.
He says he doesn’t want to continue the relationship and he expects us to cohabitate for the next two months until our lease is up. He said I don’t understand him still, but how can I understand someone who never communicates and is mad 60% of the time.
I feel very lost and sad, becsuse he seems very resolute in his feelings that I am not right for him.
I am trying to see it as a positive thing- because why would someone want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be in a relationship, but at the same time it feels like he is throwing it all away because over trivial, stupid shit.
Any words or insights would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks