Virgo compatability - Gemini v's Taurus?

Hi,

Would appreciate anyone's perspective..

Had brief but intense long distance relationship with a gemini about a year ago, which ended because he couldnt handle long distance and for other reasons I wont go into. Took a long time for me to get over it as I had fallen for him big time.

Anyway, about two months ago I met a great Taurus man, wasn't as exciting but I guess we are more compatable in many ways..although perhaps I am being influenced by things i've read about virgo-taurus compatability a bit!!

Now the gemini emails me out of the blue saying thinks about me all the time and thinking of moving to where I live. Now I know very well how a gemini can say something and be completely sincere at the time, only to change their mind in a flash - this is what I find difficult about them.

The thing is, this email seems to have changed my feelings for the Taurean when I thought things were going well. Should I stick with him because he is good for me, or risk being let down by the gemini?

yeah becareful virgo2125, female gem here.. just careful cuz as you said we do say things..granted we mean them at the time, and no doubt very sincere.. but that changes at the drop of a hat and a simple hello from someone else. I wouldn't drop that the bull just yet.. see what's the next move the gem makes. call his bluff so to speak. Because if what he is feeling is deep down.. which could be.. seeing he emailed you out of the blue.. you could have done something to him and he can't forget you. Unforgetable people are WONDERFUL and we hate when they are out of our lives. And typically when gem's are done.. they tend to be done.. so for him to try and pull you up from his past.. makes me grin. what did you do to him— LOL

Taurini sounds like a delicious drink! Shake it on ice? hehe ...shake that a $ $ !

thanks babygrl,

We had an amazing month together and I don't think I've ever been happier in someone's company, I felt so relaxed and comfortable in my own skin.

I suspect that he didn't want anything serious. He has never really admitted his feelings until now. Feel a bit annoyed that he keeps contacting me though as it means I can't move on, and the Taurean is so much better for me. But the relationship seems to be lacking something that I had with the gemini, can't quite put my finger on it but maybe it's a kind of spiritual connection...

I knew he would do that as soon as I'd met someone else (although he doesn't know I have), and I fear that this will go on for a while if neither of us meet anyone who matches up to our expectations.

This is what we do, it's bad. But we are very difficult to make committ and it usually takes a whole lot to get us hooked. We fall in and out of love quick. BUt if he is still thinking about you.. that's a great sign. Will be confusing to you, but you're in his head and thats 3/4 of the battle. I'm dating a Libra and it's similar to this. He keeps my attention for a bit.. and then i get bored.. but there is something about him.. and after a few months i'm always going back. I don't know or understand but i miss him when i'm not with him for a while. lol but this guy doesn't chase me, which i so appreciate.
Sooo i'm not saying drop the taurus and all that stuff.. but if it's like you say i would just keep the lines open and let the gem lead it.. make him come to you. Make him call you or email you.. give him something to keep working for, because i promise if he is feelin' ya.. he will come around. when we like someone.. it runs in our head NON STOP.. we almost obsess with it in our minds.. and it's obvious your there... but don't make it easy.. i hope this helps a littlle.

do u think I should tell him I'm seeing someone else in the hope that he might make his mind up either way or is that too risky?!