virgo ex, still friends.

Starting to get a little exhausted from this roll my ex and I have been playing. He broke up with me six months ago, since then we have remained friends and we hang out regularly. I know he still loves me and puts in the effort to talk to me/call me daily, but I want to tip the scales. I want him to MISS me instead. As much as I enjoy our relationship for what it is now (we broke up due to stress in his creative life/work life/insecurities he has) and I feel I am constantly this voice of reason for him. Any time there is an issue or a stress he reaches out to me to talk him out of it. But I miss and love him and our romantic relationship. Having conversations about our romantic life scares him off. So that route doesn't help too much. But I don't know if placing a great deal of distance between us is what I need to be doing or just focusing on myself and really slowing the communication? HELP

You need to be honest about how you feel. Let him know that you aren’t entirely happy with being his friend and that you still have feelings. I think you should focus on yourself because you will just drive yourself crazy.

Also, it’s unfair that he breaks up with you and then treats you like your his therapist. I’m sure you have your own shit to deal with. Tell him to go see a counsellor dammit 😂