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Virgos! How long does it take you to say I love you
How Long Do Virgos Usually Take to Say I Love You
Virgos tend to be cautious with emotional expressions and may take several months to a year to say I love you. They prefer to build trust and feel secure before sharing deep feelings. Individual experiences vary, especially with personal placements influencing communication styles.
Are u officially together?
If not then I’ve went 4yrs without saying it...tho I felt it 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
If official and still not saying it, be concerned!!!! I won’t just say it if I don’t feel it
"He has libra merc, venus, mars"
limp dick?
Nah actually good ass dick 😂😂😂
Are u officially together?
If not then I’ve went 4yrs without saying it...tho I felt it 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
If official and still not saying it, be concerned!!!! I won’t just say it if I don’t feel it
Not official just yet. 4 gotdam years? I don’t think I can do all that lmao idk if that’s in me that kind of patience 😂. Nah but what was your reason?
How long is a piece of string?
Twice the distance from the middle to the end
Are u officially together?
If not then I’ve went 4yrs without saying it...tho I felt it 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
If official and still not saying it, be concerned!!!! I won’t just say it if I don’t feel it
Not official just yet. 4 gotdam years? I don’t think I can do all that lmao idk if that’s in me that kind of patience 😂. Nah but what was your reason?
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😂 i know it’s crazy huh?
I was dieing inside to say it...but☝🏽 We never made it official so wasn’t gonna happen even tho he told me.
I take a long time waiting for the perfect moment. Hate it when they rush me, but sometimes the moment never comes.
So you’ve been in a relationship and never said it? ☹️
When I first met him he’s said stuff like “I love you too Crystal” and when I was gonna leave him alone in the beginning he’s said “when you like someone you wait for them” I said sounds like love and he said I’ve never text it only in person. Then he’s said it in hand gestures. This is allll before I said it flat out. Then when I finally said it he says nothing. So idk 🤷🏾♀️
Are u officially together?
If not then I’ve went 4yrs without saying it...tho I felt it 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
If official and still not saying it, be concerned!!!! I won’t just say it if I don’t feel it
Not official just yet. 4 gotdam years? I don’t think I can do all that lmao idk if that’s in me that kind of patience 😂. Nah but what was your reason?
😂 i know it’s crazy huh?
I was dieing inside to say it...but☝🏽 We never made it official so wasn’t gonna happen even tho he told me.
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He’s my twin flame though so like we’ll never not be. Like I’m gonna marry this man and he knows this lmao
"He has libra merc, venus, mars"
limp dick?
Nah actually good ass dick 😂😂😂
oooooooooooooo la la
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😂😂😂😂😂💅🏿
i dont know about libra mars, i'll always wonder, are they into me or did i coax them into being with me
can't trust libra placements
I don’t find him to be shady though. I can also see it in his eyes and when I kiss him
Are u officially together?
If not then I’ve went 4yrs without saying it...tho I felt it 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
If official and still not saying it, be concerned!!!! I won’t just say it if I don’t feel it
Not official just yet. 4 gotdam years? I don’t think I can do all that lmao idk if that’s in me that kind of patience 😂. Nah but what was your reason?
😂 i know it’s crazy huh?
I was dieing inside to say it...but☝🏽 We never made it official so wasn’t gonna happen even tho he told me.
He’s my twin flame though so like we’ll never not be. Like I’m gonna marry this man and he knows this lmao
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Yea I’m with him now officially but when we weren’t official I just couldn’t say it...
The fact that it wasn’t official made it impossible for me not to overthink it....so I just kept it to myself
Btw I’m libra merc, cancer Venus, Aries mars
Are u officially together?
If not then I’ve went 4yrs without saying it...tho I felt it 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
If official and still not saying it, be concerned!!!! I won’t just say it if I don’t feel it
Not official just yet. 4 gotdam years? I don’t think I can do all that lmao idk if that’s in me that kind of patience 😂. Nah but what was your reason?
😂 i know it’s crazy huh?
I was dieing inside to say it...but☝🏽 We never made it official so wasn’t gonna happen even tho he told me.
He’s my twin flame though so like we’ll never not be. Like I’m gonna marry this man and he knows this lmao
Yea I’m with him now officially but when we weren’t official I just couldn’t say it...
The fact that it wasn’t official made it impossible for me not to overthink it....so I just kept it to myself
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This is what happened before:
When I first met him he’s said stuff like “I love you too Crystal” and when I was gonna leave him alone in the beginning he’s said “when you like someone you wait for them” I said sounds like love and he said I’ve never text it only in person. Then he’s said it in hand gestures. This is allll before I said it flat out. Then when I finally said it he says nothing. So idk 🤷🏾♀️
SO virguy has libra mars - I said it first but he always says it straight back now
Probs took about 6mths of official relation
And I KNO he only says it back cos he can read my sincerity otherwise it’d be good luck with dat
He would never say it unless he meant it.
Talk is cheap to a Virgo
Are u officially together?
If not then I’ve went 4yrs without saying it...tho I felt it 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
If official and still not saying it, be concerned!!!! I won’t just say it if I don’t feel it
Not official just yet. 4 gotdam years? I don’t think I can do all that lmao idk if that’s in me that kind of patience 😂. Nah but what was your reason?
😂 i know it’s crazy huh?
I was dieing inside to say it...but☝🏽 We never made it official so wasn’t gonna happen even tho he told me.
He’s my twin flame though so like we’ll never not be. Like I’m gonna marry this man and he knows this lmao
Yea I’m with him now officially but when we weren’t official I just couldn’t say it...
The fact that it wasn’t official made it impossible for me not to overthink it....so I just kept it to myself
Btw I’m libra merc, cancer Venus, Aries mars
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What’s your moon?
Are u officially together?
If not then I’ve went 4yrs without saying it...tho I felt it 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
If official and still not saying it, be concerned!!!! I won’t just say it if I don’t feel it
Not official just yet. 4 gotdam years? I don’t think I can do all that lmao idk if that’s in me that kind of patience 😂. Nah but what was your reason?
😂 i know it’s crazy huh?
I was dieing inside to say it...but☝🏽 We never made it official so wasn’t gonna happen even tho he told me.
He’s my twin flame though so like we’ll never not be. Like I’m gonna marry this man and he knows this lmao
Yea I’m with him now officially but when we weren’t official I just couldn’t say it...
The fact that it wasn’t official made it impossible for me not to overthink it....so I just kept it to myself
Btw I’m libra merc, cancer Venus, Aries mars
What’s your moon?
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Cancer
Are u officially together?
If not then I’ve went 4yrs without saying it...tho I felt it 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
If official and still not saying it, be concerned!!!! I won’t just say it if I don’t feel it
Not official just yet. 4 gotdam years? I don’t think I can do all that lmao idk if that’s in me that kind of patience 😂. Nah but what was your reason?
😂 i know it’s crazy huh?
I was dieing inside to say it...but☝🏽 We never made it official so wasn’t gonna happen even tho he told me.
He’s my twin flame though so like we’ll never not be. Like I’m gonna marry this man and he knows this lmao
Yea I’m with him now officially but when we weren’t official I just couldn’t say it...
The fact that it wasn’t official made it impossible for me not to overthink it....so I just kept it to myself
Btw I’m libra merc, cancer Venus, Aries mars
What’s your moon?
Cancer
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Okay just like him. Soooo basically he ain’t gonna say it til it’s official? Should I stop saying it? Lol
SO virguy has libra mars - I said it first but he always says it straight back now
Probs took about 6mths of official relation
And I KNO he only says it back cos he can read my sincerity otherwise it’d be good luck with dat
He would never say it unless he meant it.
Talk is cheap to a Virgo
This man KNOWS I love his dumbass lmao. So maybe it’s like you and the other lady said, we need to be official I suppose.
Are u officially together?
If not then I’ve went 4yrs without saying it...tho I felt it 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
If official and still not saying it, be concerned!!!! I won’t just say it if I don’t feel it
Not official just yet. 4 gotdam years? I don’t think I can do all that lmao idk if that’s in me that kind of patience 😂. Nah but what was your reason?
😂 i know it’s crazy huh?
I was dieing inside to say it...but☝🏽 We never made it official so wasn’t gonna happen even tho he told me.
He’s my twin flame though so like we’ll never not be. Like I’m gonna marry this man and he knows this lmao
Yea I’m with him now officially but when we weren’t official I just couldn’t say it...
The fact that it wasn’t official made it impossible for me not to overthink it....so I just kept it to myself
Btw I’m libra merc, cancer Venus, Aries mars
What’s your moon?
Cancer
Okay just like him. Soooo basically he ain’t gonna say it til it’s official? Should I stop saying it? Lol
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Ummm idk
He will notice if u do but might not say so....then wonder why u stopped
Are u officially together?
If not then I’ve went 4yrs without saying it...tho I felt it 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
If official and still not saying it, be concerned!!!! I won’t just say it if I don’t feel it
Not official just yet. 4 gotdam years? I don’t think I can do all that lmao idk if that’s in me that kind of patience 😂. Nah but what was your reason?
😂 i know it’s crazy huh?
I was dieing inside to say it...but☝🏽 We never made it official so wasn’t gonna happen even tho he told me.
He’s my twin flame though so like we’ll never not be. Like I’m gonna marry this man and he knows this lmao
Yea I’m with him now officially but when we weren’t official I just couldn’t say it...
The fact that it wasn’t official made it impossible for me not to overthink it....so I just kept it to myself
Btw I’m libra merc, cancer Venus, Aries mars
What’s your moon?
Cancer
Okay just like him. Soooo basically he ain’t gonna say it til it’s official? Should I stop saying it? Lol
Ummm idk
He will notice if u do but might not say so....then wonder why u stopped
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How would it have made you feel?
My serious advice would be to just straight up ask him why he doesn’t say it after so long...
I mean I would first get uncomfortable Becuz
Emotions talks🤮 but then I’ll be totally honest
Are u officially together?
If not then I’ve went 4yrs without saying it...tho I felt it 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
If official and still not saying it, be concerned!!!! I won’t just say it if I don’t feel it
Not official just yet. 4 gotdam years? I don’t think I can do all that lmao idk if that’s in me that kind of patience 😂. Nah but what was your reason?
😂 i know it’s crazy huh?
I was dieing inside to say it...but☝🏽 We never made it official so wasn’t gonna happen even tho he told me.
He’s my twin flame though so like we’ll never not be. Like I’m gonna marry this man and he knows this lmao
Yea I’m with him now officially but when we weren’t official I just couldn’t say it...
The fact that it wasn’t official made it impossible for me not to overthink it....so I just kept it to myself
Btw I’m libra merc, cancer Venus, Aries mars
What’s your moon?
Cancer
Okay just like him. Soooo basically he ain’t gonna say it til it’s official? Should I stop saying it? Lol
Ummm idk
He will notice if u do but might not say so....then wonder why u stopped
How would it have made you feel?
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If you suddenly stopped saying it ( especially if u said it a lot) I would think u were
1.losing interest
2. No longer felt that way
Just know I will over think it to no end and might come up with a negative reason
But rarely will I realize you stopped Becuz I wasn’t saying it.
I take a long time waiting for the perfect moment. Hate it when they rush me, but sometimes the moment never comes.
So you’ve been in a relationship and never said it? ☹️
When I first met him he’s said stuff like “I love you too Crystal” and when I was gonna leave him alone in the beginning he’s said “when you like someone you wait for them” I said sounds like love and he said I’ve never text it only in person. Then he’s said it in hand gestures. This is allll before I said it flat out. Then when I finally said it he says nothing. So idk 🤷🏾♀️
I have the same chart as your dude except venus. He loves you. He just wants to hit you with something really sweet one day.
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But my birthday just past and we went on a date 😂😂😂😂😂😂 guess I’ll keep waiting idk. Should I keep saying it? Does it make him feel weird or anything? What’s your advice?
My serious advice would be to just straight up ask him why he doesn’t say it after so long...
I mean I would first get uncomfortable Becuz
Emotions talks🤮 but then I’ll be totally honest
We’ve had talks about it, he’s elusive 🤷🏾♀️
Are u officially together?
If not then I’ve went 4yrs without saying it...tho I felt it 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
If official and still not saying it, be concerned!!!! I won’t just say it if I don’t feel it
Not official just yet. 4 gotdam years? I don’t think I can do all that lmao idk if that’s in me that kind of patience 😂. Nah but what was your reason?
😂 i know it’s crazy huh?
I was dieing inside to say it...but☝🏽 We never made it official so wasn’t gonna happen even tho he told me.
He’s my twin flame though so like we’ll never not be. Like I’m gonna marry this man and he knows this lmao
Yea I’m with him now officially but when we weren’t official I just couldn’t say it...
The fact that it wasn’t official made it impossible for me not to overthink it....so I just kept it to myself
Btw I’m libra merc, cancer Venus, Aries mars
What’s your moon?
Cancer
Okay just like him. Soooo basically he ain’t gonna say it til it’s official? Should I stop saying it? Lol
Ummm idk
He will notice if u do but might not say so....then wonder why u stopped
How would it have made you feel?
If you suddenly stopped saying it ( especially if u said it a lot) I would think u were
1.losing interest
2. No longer felt that way
Just know I will over think it to no end and might come up with a negative reason
But rarely will I realize you stopped Becuz I wasn’t saying it.
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I don’t want him to feel bad. I also don’t want to manipulate a reaction so me being genuine would be to keep saying it when I feel it and hope he’ll say it back someday but it’s a bit discouraging after awhile ya know?
Are u officially together?
If not then I’ve went 4yrs without saying it...tho I felt it 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
If official and still not saying it, be concerned!!!! I won’t just say it if I don’t feel it
Not official just yet. 4 gotdam years? I don’t think I can do all that lmao idk if that’s in me that kind of patience 😂. Nah but what was your reason?
😂 i know it’s crazy huh?
I was dieing inside to say it...but☝🏽 We never made it official so wasn’t gonna happen even tho he told me.
He’s my twin flame though so like we’ll never not be. Like I’m gonna marry this man and he knows this lmao
Yea I’m with him now officially but when we weren’t official I just couldn’t say it...
The fact that it wasn’t official made it impossible for me not to overthink it....so I just kept it to myself
Btw I’m libra merc, cancer Venus, Aries mars
What’s your moon?
Cancer
Okay just like him. Soooo basically he ain’t gonna say it til it’s official? Should I stop saying it? Lol
Ummm idk
He will notice if u do but might not say so....then wonder why u stopped
How would it have made you feel?
If you suddenly stopped saying it ( especially if u said it a lot) I would think u were
1.losing interest
2. No longer felt that way
Just know I will over think it to no end and might come up with a negative reason
But rarely will I realize you stopped Becuz I wasn’t saying it.
I don’t want him to feel bad. I also don’t want to manipulate a reaction so me being genuine would be to keep saying it when I feel it and hope he’ll say it back someday but it’s a bit discouraging after awhile ya know?
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I totally understand. We can be really hard to handle emotionally and hurting to the ego. We genuinely don’t mean to be. Really it’s a protection thing for ourselves.
Good luck
Cyber hug 🤗
She's gotta say it first
I take a long time waiting for the perfect moment. Hate it when they rush me, but sometimes the moment never comes.
So you’ve been in a relationship and never said it? ☹️
When I first met him he’s said stuff like “I love you too Crystal” and when I was gonna leave him alone in the beginning he’s said “when you like someone you wait for them” I said sounds like love and he said I’ve never text it only in person. Then he’s said it in hand gestures. This is allll before I said it flat out. Then when I finally said it he says nothing. So idk 🤷🏾♀️
I have the same chart as your dude except venus. He loves you. He just wants to hit you with something really sweet one day.
But my birthday just past and we went on a date 😂😂😂😂😂😂 guess I’ll keep waiting idk. Should I keep saying it? Does it make him feel weird or anything? What’s your advice?
Maybe chill on it a little idk. He's probably nervous af. He just needs to get more comfortable around you. Be reassuring.
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Explain the reassuring part please lol
Are u officially together?
If not then I’ve went 4yrs without saying it...tho I felt it 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
If official and still not saying it, be concerned!!!! I won’t just say it if I don’t feel it
Not official just yet. 4 gotdam years? I don’t think I can do all that lmao idk if that’s in me that kind of patience 😂. Nah but what was your reason?
😂 i know it’s crazy huh?
I was dieing inside to say it...but☝🏽 We never made it official so wasn’t gonna happen even tho he told me.
He’s my twin flame though so like we’ll never not be. Like I’m gonna marry this man and he knows this lmao
Yea I’m with him now officially but when we weren’t official I just couldn’t say it...
The fact that it wasn’t official made it impossible for me not to overthink it....so I just kept it to myself
Btw I’m libra merc, cancer Venus, Aries mars
What’s your moon?
Cancer
Okay just like him. Soooo basically he ain’t gonna say it til it’s official? Should I stop saying it? Lol
Ummm idk
He will notice if u do but might not say so....then wonder why u stopped
How would it have made you feel?
If you suddenly stopped saying it ( especially if u said it a lot) I would think u were
1.losing interest
2. No longer felt that way
Just know I will over think it to no end and might come up with a negative reason
But rarely will I realize you stopped Becuz I wasn’t saying it.
I don’t want him to feel bad. I also don’t want to manipulate a reaction so me being genuine would be to keep saying it when I feel it and hope he’ll say it back someday but it’s a bit discouraging after awhile ya know?
I totally understand. We can be really hard to handle emotionally and hurting to the ego. We genuinely don’t mean to be. Really it’s a protection thing for ourselves.
Good luck
Cyber hug 🤗
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Thank you!
SO virguy has libra mars - I said it first but he always says it straight back now
Probs took about 6mths of official relation
And I KNO he only says it back cos he can read my sincerity otherwise it’d be good luck with dat
He would never say it unless he meant it.
Talk is cheap to a Virgo
This man KNOWS I love his dumbass lmao. So maybe it’s like you and the other lady said, we need to be official I suppose.
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How long has it been for you two
I’m curious because ime they lock you down or make it official pretty quickly
What’s he waitin on are you long distance or or studying or something
She's gotta say it first
Why? Is it a security thing?
SO virguy has libra mars - I said it first but he always says it straight back now
Probs took about 6mths of official relation
And I KNO he only says it back cos he can read my sincerity otherwise it’d be good luck with dat
He would never say it unless he meant it.
Talk is cheap to a Virgo
This man KNOWS I love his dumbass lmao. So maybe it’s like you and the other lady said, we need to be official I suppose.
How long has it been for you two
I’m curious because ime they lock you down or make it official pretty quickly
What’s he waitin on are you long distance or or studying or something
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Long distance 😩
SO virguy has libra mars - I said it first but he always says it straight back now
Probs took about 6mths of official relation
And I KNO he only says it back cos he can read my sincerity otherwise it’d be good luck with dat
He would never say it unless he meant it.
Talk is cheap to a Virgo
This man KNOWS I love his dumbass lmao. So maybe it’s like you and the other lady said, we need to be official I suppose.
How long has it been for you two
I’m curious because ime they lock you down or make it official pretty quickly
What’s he waitin on are you long distance or or studying or something
Long distance 😩
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Ah
Well theeeerrrrr you go then
Make some concrete plans to move closer for whatever reason- career study family whatever and just watch him change up the pace
You won’t recognise the guy trust me
She's gotta say it first
Why? Is it a security thing?
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Somewhere down the road you'll get a Virgo that had a bad experience saying it first.
So they will wait till you say it.
She's gotta say it first
Why? Is it a security thing?
Somewhere down the road you'll get a Virgo that had a bad experience saying it first.
So they will wait till you say it.
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I’ve said it a thousand times already like damn lmao
SO virguy has libra mars - I said it first but he always says it straight back now
Probs took about 6mths of official relation
And I KNO he only says it back cos he can read my sincerity otherwise it’d be good luck with dat
He would never say it unless he meant it.
Talk is cheap to a Virgo
This man KNOWS I love his dumbass lmao. So maybe it’s like you and the other lady said, we need to be official I suppose.
How long has it been for you two
I’m curious because ime they lock you down or make it official pretty quickly
What’s he waitin on are you long distance or or studying or something
Long distance 😩
Ah
Well theeeerrrrr you go then
Make some concrete plans to move closer for whatever reason- career study family whatever and just watch him change up the pace
You won’t recognise the guy trust me
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I can’t yet my career just started 😢😩☹️
She's gotta say it first
Why? Is it a security thing?
Somewhere down the road you'll get a Virgo that had a bad experience saying it first.
So they will wait till you say it.
I’ve said it a thousand times already like damn lmao
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Lol well words aren't as important as actions virgo logic
She's gotta say it first
Why? Is it a security thing?
Somewhere down the road you'll get a Virgo that had a bad experience saying it first.
So they will wait till you say it.
I’ve said it a thousand times already like damn lmao
Lol well words aren't as important as actions virgo logic
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Sounds like him, where I’m more like I need words. I wanna hear it lol. Communication is my thing.
SO virguy has libra mars - I said it first but he always says it straight back now
Probs took about 6mths of official relation
And I KNO he only says it back cos he can read my sincerity otherwise it’d be good luck with dat
He would never say it unless he meant it.
Talk is cheap to a Virgo
This man KNOWS I love his dumbass lmao. So maybe it’s like you and the other lady said, we need to be official I suppose.
How long has it been for you two
I’m curious because ime they lock you down or make it official pretty quickly
What’s he waitin on are you long distance or or studying or something
Long distance 😩
Ah
Well theeeerrrrr you go then
Make some concrete plans to move closer for whatever reason- career study family whatever and just watch him change up the pace
You won’t recognise the guy trust me
I can’t yet my career just started 😢😩☹️
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Then let the Virgo go and focus on your career.
Otherwise you both jus playin for time and he’s never gonna just say it for the sake of it...
SO virguy has libra mars - I said it first but he always says it straight back now
Probs took about 6mths of official relation
And I KNO he only says it back cos he can read my sincerity otherwise it’d be good luck with dat
He would never say it unless he meant it.
Talk is cheap to a Virgo
This man KNOWS I love his dumbass lmao. So maybe it’s like you and the other lady said, we need to be official I suppose.
How long has it been for you two
I’m curious because ime they lock you down or make it official pretty quickly
What’s he waitin on are you long distance or or studying or something
Long distance 😩
Ah
Well theeeerrrrr you go then
Make some concrete plans to move closer for whatever reason- career study family whatever and just watch him change up the pace
You won’t recognise the guy trust me
I can’t yet my career just started 😢😩☹️
Then let the Virgo go and focus on your career.
Otherwise you both jus playin for time and he’s never gonna just say it for the sake of it...
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I tried to move down there but the pay was shit. It’s not that I don’t want to move, I would if I could. He’s also focused on building his brand too. I mean there’s really not much I can do. I fly down to see him every chance I get. We talk all the time, I know his secrets. He’s my twin flame, if you know about that. He’s basically my soulmate. I don’t want anyone else. He knows that so meh idk. Guess it doesn’t matter if I’m here and he’s there. Sucks but not much I can do 🤷🏾♀️
SO virguy has libra mars - I said it first but he always says it straight back now
Probs took about 6mths of official relation
And I KNO he only says it back cos he can read my sincerity otherwise it’d be good luck with dat
He would never say it unless he meant it.
Talk is cheap to a Virgo
This man KNOWS I love his dumbass lmao. So maybe it’s like you and the other lady said, we need to be official I suppose.
How long has it been for you two
I’m curious because ime they lock you down or make it official pretty quickly
What’s he waitin on are you long distance or or studying or something
Long distance 😩
Ah
Well theeeerrrrr you go then
Make some concrete plans to move closer for whatever reason- career study family whatever and just watch him change up the pace
You won’t recognise the guy trust me
I can’t yet my career just started 😢😩☹️
Then let the Virgo go and focus on your career.
Otherwise you both jus playin for time and he’s never gonna just say it for the sake of it...
I tried to move down there but the pay was shit. It’s not that I don’t want to move, I would if I could. He’s also focused on building his brand too. I mean there’s really not much I can do. I fly down to see him every chance I get. We talk all the time, I know his secrets. He’s my twin flame, if you know about that. He’s basically my soulmate. I don’t want anyone else. He knows that so meh idk. Guess it doesn’t matter if I’m here and he’s there. Sucks but not much I can do 🤷🏾♀️
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If you can be so pragmatic about the overal situation then I don’t see why hearing three words mean so much to you... you’re not shy about owning how you feel and you say them and that’s important and all you can do really.
Apply that patience and what will be will be attitude to the relationship and trust him, I’m sure it’ll work out just fine 💋
SO virguy has libra mars - I said it first but he always says it straight back now
Probs took about 6mths of official relation
And I KNO he only says it back cos he can read my sincerity otherwise it’d be good luck with dat
He would never say it unless he meant it.
Talk is cheap to a Virgo
This man KNOWS I love his dumbass lmao. So maybe it’s like you and the other lady said, we need to be official I suppose.
How long has it been for you two
I’m curious because ime they lock you down or make it official pretty quickly
What’s he waitin on are you long distance or or studying or something
Long distance 😩
Ah
Well theeeerrrrr you go then
Make some concrete plans to move closer for whatever reason- career study family whatever and just watch him change up the pace
You won’t recognise the guy trust me
I can’t yet my career just started 😢😩☹️
Then let the Virgo go and focus on your career.
Otherwise you both jus playin for time and he’s never gonna just say it for the sake of it...
I tried to move down there but the pay was shit. It’s not that I don’t want to move, I would if I could. He’s also focused on building his brand too. I mean there’s really not much I can do. I fly down to see him every chance I get. We talk all the time, I know his secrets. He’s my twin flame, if you know about that. He’s basically my soulmate. I don’t want anyone else. He knows that so meh idk. Guess it doesn’t matter if I’m here and he’s there. Sucks but not much I can do 🤷🏾♀️
If you can be so pragmatic about the overal situation then I don’t see why hearing three words mean so much to you... you’re not shy about owning how you feel and you say them and that’s important and all you can do really.
Apply that patience and what will be will be attitude to the relationship and trust him, I’m sure it’ll work out just fine 💋
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You’re absolutely right and I should stop crying about it 😂😂😂. Thank you so much for helping to see the big picture again 🙏🏿
Seconds from when I realize it to when I verbalize it.
Umm he finally said it but it took for a conflict to happen and we’re not talking because he runs from conflict sooo yup 🤷🏾♀️
It takes me long time to finally admit my feelings. *end of the story*
He finally said it verbally and very casually after another kurfuffle on 2/25. Just an update lol
How long is a piece of string?
Twice the distance from the middle to the end
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The mathematician in me just fell in love with that response
He finally said it verbally and very casually after another kurfuffle on 2/25. Just an update lol
Awww
You scooped that
i dont know about libra mars, i'll always wonder, are they into me or did i coax them into being with me
can't trust libra placements
That's so true about libra mars...
She's gotta say it first
Why? Is it a security thing?
Somewhere down the road you'll get a Virgo that had a bad experience saying it first.
So they will wait till you say it.
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This.
He finally said it verbally and very casually after another kurfuffle on 2/25. Just an update lol
Lmaoooo I been knew his ass loved me ol scared ass lmao
Awww
You scooped that
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I posted this in the wrong forum at first 😂🤷🏾♀️
I’m at work doing nothing so I figured I’d ask. Please be nice I’m a Scorpio who has come in peace 😂😂😂😂. No but seriously I’m still seeing the virgo/cancer from months ago and I know he loves me but he doesn’t say it we’re on month 7 of this year. I’ve been saying it but he hasn’t and I’m not like mad or no butter I’ll keep saying it when I’m inspired but I’m curious 🤷🏾♀️
Oh and he’s eluded to it a few times before but then when I directly said it he didn’t say it back.
He has libra merc, venus, mars
Ask me of any info you need lol.