So me and my virgo ex broke up months ago. Virgo ex dumped me but proposed to be friends. She said: "how about we be friends? we act like we're friends now anyways, at least being friends will not give me pressure". when her friends asked her if she can let it go, she also said "we will be friends". then I went on and asked for clarification of our relationship and she said she's clear and said we're good at being friends, but I said we don't act like friends now, then she said I still can't accept the break up and was willing to give me time. After a month she said "yes i said we will be friends but this is not like in the movies, sometimes we can't be friends right after the break up, i hoped you understand". And we didn't text after that. So do virgos say what they mean? and how to really get a virgo ex back? (I know it's hard tho, and I'm a Capricorn btw!) hope you guys can help me on this! many thanks!!
Virgo ex wants to be friends

Seriously Cap. I'm about to revoke your Cap privileges.. letting some Virgo put you in a box, just.doesn't know which one yet. She is toying with you.
We're Darth Vador, didn't you know. Lol
We're Darth Vador, didn't you know. Lol

Posted by SingASong41Is that how.virgos work with their exes too?
You can't be friends with someone you still have feelings for. Do what is best for you.
Tell her that there are no hard feelings and you wish her well, but you need to move on. Perhaps in the future.
Posted by SingASong41you mean she still has feelings for me so she's not ready for that friendship she proposed?
You can't be friends with someone you still have feelings for. Do what is best for you.
Tell her that there are no hard feelings and you wish her well, but you need to move on. Perhaps in the future.

You can actually be friends with someone you have feelings for...masochism is a thing on one hand, and on the other, you can have feelings for them and still uphold the friendship part in perspective in the front of your mind, without pining away and obsessing.

You are trying to goad this chick back into dating you with your "we don't act like friends now" comment.
She saw through that and now she is putting distance so you get the message of "this is friends for me".
She saw through that and now she is putting distance so you get the message of "this is friends for me".
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