Virgo girl opinion please☺

hi Virgals...its been a while I'm away. Sorry for my harsh post recently. Here is the only place where I feel 'heard' by you Virgals out there since the Virgal I have here with me, didnt accept me for who I am, whats in my mind & my heart I expressed them to her...she didnt accept them too, she pays me with silent treatment after that. Its been two years we've been together, and thats the duration of time I'm carrying my burdens and frustrations...because of not feeling loved and accepted in return. Its easy for some people to say "just dumped her"...I've got millions of reasons to dump her, but still have one strong reason to stay☺




My virgal admit that I'm her best friend and her lover too, maybe its from what she feels...but not me. Yes I'm agreed with that statement too, but deep inside...I didnt feel that bestfriend connection like you know, of how we can comfortably sharing what really burden us in our mind & heart, at the times we need them the most they'll always be there, and even treat our family like theirs too...I didnt fell them at all when I'm with her. As a lover, I didnt feel the affection and the desires from her. She always ask me out to hangouts and dates...but I see all her invitations are just the same thing, we sit together just talk randomly and watching her smoking, thats it. She seems to worry when there was just 'us' like she wanna invite her bunch of friends to come over. Unlike other lovely couples who hold, hugs, kiss, love each other is just like the last time they seeing each other. I feel like the more I was 'available' to hangout with her, the more she didnt 'show' me that she missed me. So I stop seeing her, having my 'better be alone' time, and questioning my own self-worth. She did texts me that she misses to see me upfront, I just ignore...I'm no longer a dumb person who always say 'yes' to all of her invitation even when she's start to sulk. I just want her to think about what I was there for when I was around her☺

Kalin: typical? Other virgo girls are also like that too?

Zoe, that is very typical behavior for a Virgo, both genders.

Every person has a mechanism they developed for themselves as a safety net to keep their sanity. With Virgos, their safety net is setting aside dealing with their feelings to just let them pass, and they do. Situations do work themselves out, the dust does settle.

Unfortunately, there is a horrible side-effect .... and that is, if you're not dealing with how something feels, then your consequences you've gone through because of it are useless to you.


And here you are. Realizing that to be with a Virgo means you have to be completely emotionally self sufficient. You have to measure what is more important to you, because you're not going to change a person's core values.

So, there's no point in trying to play, or work/maneuver something to change him/her ... you either accept this is a very ingrained part of them, or you don't. You stay or leave.


There's no other path with a Virgo.

Posted by zoe gonzales

.... the Virgal I have here with me, didnt accept me for who I am, whats in my mind & my heart I expressed them to her...she didnt accept them too, she pays me with silent treatment after that. Its been two years we've been together, and thats the duration of time I'm carrying my burdens and frustrations...because of not feeling loved and accepted in return.

If a person is with you, then it's because they want to be ... and it is in those realities where you'll find your solace.

You won't find them in expectations.

A person who a person is, and to love them means to love them and not attempt to mold them into an image of who you want them to be.


Master that Art, and you're home free.

Starwars: Nope...I havent discuss about this face to face with her since we're always meeting up around noisy, public places and when in the car, I wish I just turn off the music and say about this to her...but my tongue feels numb. I didnt know whats the best specific words to clearly describe what actually bothers me coz the last time I did that...shes mad, misunderstood it and didnt speak to me for weeks. And my sign is leo 😢:

P-angel: Yeah, that was I always keep in my mind...tryin not to take their cold words and actions personally and emotionally. But then, I feel I was fake for doing so...unless if I dont have feelings for her 🙂