Virgo guy

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Posted by Xyxie
So I’ve met this Virgo guy, we talked for a month before he came from UK. He is studying there, when he come back from UK we met each others. He didn’t sleep at all after he landed, and straight meet me up, and he confessed to me ln the first date, but he told me to wait for him finish his Masters Course in UK.

So i agreed to that, eventhough Im not sure he will be loyal or not in this one year.

So, we spent our one month in our country, everything goes really well. We met each others parents and he even went on a trip with me and my parents.

He is really attentive and sweet and kind. I really love him. I hope we can work this out, It’s my first time dealing with virgo guy.

One month has passed, he went back to UK for his studies.

At first everything still good and sweet as usual. We called each others always and video calls often and text too.

Then like after 2-3 months, things started change, he becoming abit diff, like he told me he has busy schedule and he is tired always.

He said he got many projects, presentations to do, and he work in a restaurant. The working hours is really pack too, like 11am-11.30pm. He sent me photos too to show that he is at work place.

I asked him why he doesnt text me much or call me now? Even just 5mins call would be fine for me. He said he is tired, he barely have “me time” due to his busy schedule, so he told me he hope i can understand his position.

I tried to be cheerful and always encourage him, show him cares, tell him i love him.

But Im really confused, does he still likes me? Why he can stand so long not hearing my voice and just text. Even i confronted what i felt, he told me it’s fine, as long as we still texting everyday. Its good. -.-

Im wondering if he fall out of love from me or he just really tired and busy and need some times.

We barely fight, we always used discussion and heart to heart talk to solve our problems.

Should I wait him? Until he finish hus studies or what should i do?

He told me if he get a chance back from UK, he will come see me and bring me to UK stay with him 1-2 months tho. But that was like before he back to UK, will virgos keep their promise?

With the right virgo, neither slumber nor sleep will over take him.

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Posted by Toti
He wont keep his promise. He started to pull back. All you can do is wait to see if he is going to come around.However be prepared for the worst. Good luck! Virgos are skilful sweet talkers, they could sell snow to Eskimos. Keep cool and don't text him a lot. That's never attractive, one being a virgo or not.

Posted by tiziani
There's nothing to be deduced from what you wrote, IMO.

Just distance is a headache.

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Posted by Xyxie

Posted by Toti
He wont keep his promise. He started to pull back. All you can do is wait to see if he is going to come around.However be prepared for the worst. Good luck! Virgos are skilful sweet talkers, they could sell snow to Eskimos. Keep cool and don't text him a lot. That's never attractive, one being a virgo or not.

Thanks for your reply!

Ya, I will just wait until the day come and see if he keep his promise.

Since he keep telling me that he will make me official once he finish his studies.

We everyday messaged each others, but I dont text him much tho, I always let him come to me, and give him time to do his own stuffs or work.

Our messages gap time is like 3-5 hours per msg, I don't know if thats fine lol.

Ya, I always prepared the worst, Thanks!!

Had a similar situation myself with a virgo. He promised me future together, talking always about where we would travel together,etc. All the sweet words every girl likes to hear. After that he pulled out, started talking to me less, disappeared for two months and then told me he is going to marry someone else. No matter the time difference, when a man is really serious, he will make time. Hope it turns out well for you.

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Posted by tiziani
There's nothing to be deduced from what you wrote, IMO.

Just distance is a headache.

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Ya, the distance is suck. Our timezone gap is 8 hours.

So when my place is morning, it's his sleeping time already.

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Posted by tiziani
There's nothing to be deduced from what you wrote, IMO.

Just distance is a headache.

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Ya, the distance is suck. Our timezone gap is 8 hours.

So when my place is morning, it's his sleeping time already.

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Posted by magma2
"...will virgos keep their promise?"

He may have genuinely meant it when he said it, but Virgo or not, realistically there are no guarantees in relationships, and that applies to anyone, both those who make promises and those who receive them. Married people who supposedly have developed their relationship to it's highest potential promise "'til death do us part", but look at the divorce rate.

"...his emotion and his action are like different. Is it because Virgos are good in hiding their emotions?"

Actions speak louder than words and pretty much everything else. His output should match your input, so if you find yourself consistently taking up the slack for him, you're overdoing it or he's not that interested, usually both, because they go hand in hand.

"...when a man is really serious, he will make time."

Truer words were never spoken.

Long distance is like walking up a steep grade, a few can do it for quite a while, most can't/won't. Guard your heart and good luck.