Virgo Guy-Does he like me?

Hi everyone! I'm very new here-so bear with the "noob" :-), lol. Anyways, there's this guy-we'll call him G-that I think might like me, but I'm not entirely sure. He's 19 and I'm 18-both freshmen in college. We both went to the same schools, pretty sure I've known of him since at least 4th grade but didn't really talk much until 8th grade-nothing really important from then. Fast forward to 11th grade and we were in the same cooking class (like Home Ec) and he always had a knack of asking me the same statement "How's it going?" everyday we saw each other or were in the class. We were always put in situations like cooking together or cleaning the kitchens (end of year thing in that class) or like folding aprons (we were assigned the same laundry week together). He was always nice but it was so slow to begin, I kind of gave up on the idea of us getting together. Btw, I know this sounds very lackluster but it gets (at least somewhat, lol) better.

Ok so fast-forward to August 2013, freshman year and first day of college-super nervous. Anyways, G somehow saw me (out of the hoards of people that were scurrying around for first day of classes) and sat by me on a bench. Asked me "How's it going?" and I was like "Alright, just nervous...blah,blah,blah" and we talked about our schedules/classes. Then, one of his friends came up and asked if he was ready to go to Walmart or something (I don't know why, don't ask, lol) and he asked me if I wanted to come and I couldn't (literally 10 minutes before first class).

Fast forward to now (another, I know) and I haven't talked to him much throughout the fall semester-seriously consumed by school. Early December 2013, I messaged him wishing his family a "Merry Christmas". He returned it and I told him that if he ever wanted to hang out or go to movies/dinner that it would be cool. He said that we would and I asked when he would be free, he said he didn't know when he would be (sister's birthday, family reunion, christmas with family out of state, etc.) and said after spring semester starts back (today). I said alright and gave him my # and he gave me his.

That was a few weeks ago and I texted him last Thursday (January 2) and asked him how his family reunion, sister's birthday, Christmas/New Year's went. He said it was good and asked me about mine. We talked about family, jobs, plans for future from college, joked a bit, etc. Spent like 2 hours talking until 2 in the morning and then ended it. Nothing else. Now it's

Continued...

Now it's the 6th.

Anyways, I'm just asking anyone that from a Virgo's point of view, does this look like it's going in the right direction? If it helps, he's a Virgo (1st decan) and I'm an Aries girl (3rd decan). Thank you guys!

How cute. A baby Aries. We are always drawn to Virgos yet they are so totally opposite of us. I suggest you continue on being subtle and patient and respectful of him. Don't pressure him at all and just continue to get to know him, be a good friend and if something comes out of it you very well deserve it and are in for an amazing relationship. Good luck lil' lady.

He seems really reticent.

One scenario: he sat next to you and spoke to you on that day because he was looking for a familliar face through the crowd. You gave him your number though and he didn't make any plans..was pretty indiferent about it. You can keep in touch but for the time being, don't get your hopes too high.

Posted by Damnata
He seems really reticent.

One scenario: he sat next to you and spoke to you on that day because he was looking for a familliar face through the crowd. You gave him your number though and he didn't make any plans..was pretty indiferent about it. You can keep in touch but for the time being, don't get your hopes too high.

My thoughts exactly.

Thank you guys, this definitely helps!

But I can understand his hesitation, we haven't talked in a few months and I started talking to him out of the blue. And about him sitting next to me the first day of college, I didn't see him at all until he came up. And apparently he had talked to a friend about going somewhere earlier, so I (hopefully) don't think it was out of desperation to find someone he knew because he had already found some of his friends from high school there. I didn't give him my # until recently, so it wasn't at the beginning of the fall semester but like a week or so ago.

runnnnnnnnnnnn... lol.. virgos are wonderfulk people, but are really stuck up in their heads, not a bad thing, but tend to over analyze every situation, before it has even happened. but don't listen to me, I am just coming off the last break-up from a virgo, for the second time.

Posted by raerae2one8
runnnnnnnnnnnn... lol.. virgos are wonderfulk people, but are really stuck up in their heads, not a bad thing, but tend to over analyze every situation, before it has even happened. but don't listen to me, I am just coming off the last break-up from a virgo, for the second time.

Thanks for the advice! Sorry for your break-up 😢

You have done enough, leave the ball in his court.

@OP you are so cute I just want hug you. Good Luck in school.


At 18 do what the hell you want. Don't listen to anyone here including me. Do whatever, whenever you want and if you make a mistake...SO FREAKING WHAT. Live your life girl. Go get that Virgo man, make a fool out of yourself for love....NO REGRETS, NO REGRETS.

P.S. Don't let him in the cookie jar just yet. Try to wait to see what his real intentions are.

Posted by Cajunspirit
You have done enough, leave the ball in his court.

Thanks, I've (for the most part) done just that.

Posted by Nala13
@OP you are so cute I just want hug you. Good Luck in school.


At 18 do what the hell you want. Don't listen to anyone here including me. Do whatever, whenever you want and if you make a mistake...SO FREAKING WHAT. Live your life girl. Go get that Virgo man, make a fool out of yourself for love....NO REGRETS, NO REGRETS.

P.S. Don't let him in the cookie jar just yet. Try to wait to see what his real intentions are.

Aw, thanks Nala13! :-). I'll give you a virtual hug right back (~^.^)~~(^.^~), lol. Thank you so much for the advice, I agree with you!

Posted by justanaries95

... does this look like it's going in the right direction?

Depends on what you're angling for.

Thus far, the only direction I see you running towards is an arrangement, which I'm sure is only in place so you can create a romantic fantasy in your head.

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... there's this guy-we'll call him G-that I think might like me, but I'm not entirely sure.

... pretty sure I've known of him since at least 4th grade but didn't really talk much until 8th

Here's the classic case (which we see in here all the time) & (and I've made many threads addressing this extreme fault in the female) .... of where the boy only has to look at the girl, nothing else.

In fact, you are so not attracted to the boy, that you wouldn't even remember him if he hadn't approached you.

Posted by justanaries95

... he always had a knack of asking me the same statement "How's it going?"
... everyday we saw each other or were in the class.
... We were always put in situations like cooking together or cleaning the kitchens
... or like folding aprons
... He was always nice but it was so slow to begin
... I kind of gave up on the idea of us getting together. Btw, I know this sounds very lackluster but it gets (at least somewhat, lol) better.

... he asked me if I wanted to come and I couldn't

... I haven't talked to him much throughout the fall semester
... I messaged him wishing his family a "Merry Christmas". He returned it and I told him ...

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There's nothing there ^^^^ in your story to even remotely insinuate that you are attracted to this boy. No things like ... he's so cute, I like him so much, he does the sweetest things .. nothing !!!

the only thing you describe to us in full 2500 post is how this is being arranged, or formulated, or organized .... you two are still asking the most basic questions to each other, like, What's up.

There's no rush here on your part .... your moon must be all fucked up

You are approaching this exactly as all the stupid females do, who end up with shattered hearts because they weren't into the guy .... and you're not.

You're chasing a ghost that you've made to look like your lonely heart .... if you were into him, the words that made up your presentation would represent your FEELINGS about him.

There's no feelings in your presentation, which means .... you're not attracted to him.


So, if you're not into him ... what are you playing at?

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Posted by raerae2one8
runnnnnnnnnnnn... lol.. virgos are wonderfulk people, but are really stuck up in their heads, not a bad thing, but tend to over analyze every situation, before it has even happened. but don't listen to me, I am just coming off the last break-up from a virgo, for the second time.

Thanks for the advice! Sorry for your break-up 😢

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She (raerae) never had him .... there was no breakup, because she never had the man.

She's just like you in where she chased a ghost that she doned in her lonely heart ... so her description of Virgos is extremely biased, because her views are jaded by her self deception.

The fact is .... Virgo's are not stuck up in their head, they are cautious. Being careful and having a desire to make sure your life is in order isn't a bad thing. raerae would have you believe that it is bad, for she would use this awesome Virgo quality as a sword to stab them with.

The fact is .... she fucked herself all up, and now blames him because that's what people do, isn't it? Because people don't face the truth, they skirt around it by denying accountability.

*donned

The Lilly fool is also an Aries ..... so there you have the common denominator in your plight of wondering why your fantasy romances lack sincerity.

Posted by P-Angel

You are approaching this exactly as all the stupid females do, who end up with shattered hearts because they weren't into the guy .... and you're not.

You're chasing a ghost that you've made to look like your lonely heart .... if you were into him, the words that made up your presentation would represent your FEELINGS about him.

There's no feelings in your presentation, which means .... you're not attracted to him.


So, if you're not into him ... what are you playing at?

Well thank you for your advice, it is appreciated. And thank you kindly for lumping me into a group you deem as "stupid females". The reason I didn't go into detail in getting so mushy and saying "he's so cute", "he's so sweet" etc. is because I wanted to get straight to the facts and not sicken people with all that stuff. He is sweet, he is cute...hell-he's even downright awesome, not that I need to prove it to anyone. But, things have progressed since I posted this last. We've already set up a date to go see a movie. I can't tell whether you genuinely are trying to help me or just want to make me look like what you said, a stupid female. Like I said, again, thanks for the advice. I appreciate anything anyone can say to help. Have a good weekend!

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Posted by justanaries95

... does this look like it's going in the right direction?

Depends on what you're angling for.

Thus far, the only direction I see you running towards is an arrangement, which I'm sure is only in place so you can create a romantic fantasy in your head.

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Hey, we gotta have the fantasy some where don't we 😉