He's known her for 2 + years now. He runs straight at her ... then he becomes elusive. I've noticed that she does most of the contacting by text and or cell phone ! He does go "fix" things and visits with her a couple of times a week.
So I would have to say they visit with each other probably 5-6 times a week plus text.
Well since her hubby doesn't even know who she is anymore ... Virgo Guy doesn't have to share ... I wonder how Virgo Guy sees that ... —
I know they have not had sex yet because she complains about it all the time to me. And I have been around them a lot so I know some days he stares in her eyes and talks and flirts ... and other days he won't even look her in the eye ... but he comes around just the same ...
and she is most certainly smitten ...
She did tell me he told her on 2 different occassions ... "I don't feel about you the way you feel about me ... and you are married."
Yet he still comes round ... and she still chases !
He is not my boyfriend or my ex ,,, he is my friend and she is my friend ... and I have been here with a Virgo guy before ... I was hoping he would not hurt her ... but she is so in love ... and at times I could sear he is too ... then at other times not ...
So you believe that he tells her he doesn't feel the same way that she does because he does not love her ... or just to back her off because she is still married ... —?? although her husband will never be able to come home ... he had a massive stroke and is bsically gone on all levels ... he doesn't know who he is ... or where he is ... or who she is ... he does ask for his mom sometimes ... and she goes to check up on him every day ...
So you think Virgo Guy is just being "nice" to her ... ——?
I meant to say "I could swear he is too" he does have the look in his eye and tenderness in his voice for her ... so how would he act different if he did love her ... and what do you predict will happen with them —?
And would you not to discourage her ... she is always asking me what I think ...
How do you know how this man feels, is my question?
You talk to girl, girl wants insight from you ... based purly off of nothing said on that man's part about being in love.
And then you two, third and fourth parties, in here discussing it as if it's fact........... feelings, guilt, immaturity, marriage, and who knows what else ..... all on pure speculation.
::: shakes head :::
Is it really anybody's business except this particular mans', as to whether he's in love or not? Certainly not to people in here who aren't even involved.
Gossip? This is gossiping, isn't it? Discussing how a man feels, when you don't even fucking know how this man feels.
It would be nice if you were able to know what you actually need ... alas, you're a Virgo ... you'll live the rest of your life having no awarness of what you need .... us outsiders see it everyday, you all have right in front of you, loving, waiting, perfect fit .... but, you're just unable to know what you need, so you pull away to figure out if it's right because you have no senses to clue you in to what you actually needs.
I know it hurts, but, reality has to be faced ... you, Virgo, were gossping about how a man feels, in which is all speculation from a third persons perspective.
lol, you're so small, Cybernikes, and pretty dumb, actually, if you can actually type the words out as an accusation and not have any real awareness of what the words mean.
Well, good, I'm glad to be of service to you .. and a few others, it appears. Bad, angry moods need to be let out .. otherwise, you will just have a stroke.
Bold even. It really doesn't take much to get you to this state of mind .. perhaps, you should seriously consider that.
Actually, what you should consider is that this is a continuing state of mind from weeks ago, that you are allowing to linger, or maybe an emotion ... not quite sure which.
I'm still waiting for admin to pop in here so you will crash and burn from your dilerium, that has heigtened into such dramatic hysteria that you'd delude yourself into thinking I'm an administrator.
::: has pop-corn in hand ready :::
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If a Virgo Guy was in love with a married girl ... how would he most likely behave — What would he most likely be thinking ?