Virgo Guys more Unemotional?

Yeah very true, I'm just not used to someone being completely unemotional AND thinking it's normal. It's like he's not doing it to spite me, but it feels like he is. It's pretty hard to fathom that, he's just like that...

I have plenty of self respect, he's just a great catch, and I'd be willing to give him time if he's slow moving. He's not a flirt, and he's not interested in many girls, his only flaws are his heartlessness. Most guys are quick with me, and usually they're sexually interested, which is a huge turn off.

I've truly have never met a guy that I like this much, and I'm really hard on myself and others.

I'm not asking people to tell me what I want to hear, I know he's cold, I'm just wondering if it's normal for Virgos.

If this is normal Virgo behaviour I'd be willing to maybe pull through and not be so sensitive. I've read all about their flaws, and the big one seems to be a cold, unemotional attitude even in relationships. I am aware of my flaws, I tend to be over-dramatic and over-emotional. Sometimes I think he's being cold, and hurtful, and he's just being 'normal'. I'm sure he would describe what i view as normal 'feelings' to be illogical, and 'crazy'.

Posted by SensitiveBlues
I had tears in my eyes once with the Virgo and some came down and he just stared at me in a very cold manner

i think i was giving him a bj.

LOL

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You've made your interest in him clear. If he hasn't asked you out on a date by now maybe he's just not that into you. 7months is a long time.

Something else if going on here.

Are you two sleeping together?

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I had tears in my eyes once with the Virgo and some came down and he just stared at me in a very cold manner

i think i was giving him a bj.

LOL

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its memories like this that makes me miss him


im such a masochist

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Lol! Did he ever do the head twitching? You know..the one where robots start to malfunction and shut down, their head just start going all over the place. I remember that. Lol

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I had tears in my eyes once with the Virgo and some came down and he just stared at me in a very cold manner

i think i was giving him a bj.

LOL

😆

its memories like this that makes me miss him


im such a masochist

Lol! Did he ever do the head twitching? You know..the one where robots start to malfunction and shut down, their head just start going all over the place. I remember that. Lol

He just blankly stared at me. I think with disgust. Idk, but it was horrible yet great at the same time.

how can someone be that COLD

it's freaking unbelievable.

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I dont know, the virgo I was with was not at all. He was very open amd emotional with me. I do know Virgos like that though.

Posted by SensitiveBlues
he kept mentioning 50 shades of gray maybe he thought he was Christian Grey or something. idk, he's fuked up.

😆... I cant...

Posted by LadyNeptune
You've made your interest in him clear. If he hasn't asked you out on a date by now maybe he's just not that into you. 7months is a long time.

Something else if going on here.

Are you two sleeping together?

I haven't been talking to him for 7 months, that just when I had first seen him. We started talking maybe, 4 months ago?
He's pretty shy. He says he likes to take things slow. We're not sleeping together, neither of us have casual sex. He's also turned off by oversexual females. If anything we're friends, we get along well, and when we're together I can tell he likes me, I just don't understand why he doesn't act upon his feelings. It's like how he feels doesn't matter at all.

He also doesn't text, he doesn't use facebook, doesn't watch TV, doesn't pursue females, I've never seen him talk about or even look at a girl, which is why I value him so much.
He definitely likes girls.

Posted by Goldigold
I guess it's all relative, what are your needs? Men really aren't that emotional in general at least not like us ladies..

I seem to attract Virgos a lot! They were all pretty good guys, Very well put together....dress nice, smell nice, fun...a little on the effeminate side. But for me they were emotional. But I'm not really emotional I guess...unless I'm PMSing lol.

They are extremely shy tho....a lot of times need that liquid courage. I noticed Virgo men tend to drink A lot!

Yeah this guy is like completely different from 'most guys' though.
He doesn't really drink, or smoke weed. He's always in control of himself, and when I'm not talking to him he's pretty quiet, shy, doing his own thing. He can get a little loud when he's talking to his guy friends, but other than that he's a loner/genius type. Very logical, notices everything, very perceptive.

I could accept that he isn't into me I guess, but there's definitely something there. He acts like a little boy with a crush around me, and everyone else sees it too. He's extremely mature and kept to himself for the most part, so it's out of character that he's always teasing me, poking me, or throwing paper at me like a teenager. He's 24.

Do you guys cuddle and kiss?

It's weird to me that 4 months have passed and he hasn't made a move considering all the encouraging and even initiating you've done.

Are you sure he's straight?

He has told you he doesn't want you touching him.

Posted by FireflyO
"She doesn't know how to stop touching people that don't want to be touched"

Seems like he may just want to be friends.

Posted by CrosstownTraffic
he no different...than any one else..

you come to a bar with another guy you knew he went to...now thats where you went wrong and why he chatted up the other female...you never liked wanted him or liked him and if you did you would have never done so.

Um, no. I went to the Casino with my two friends that are dating EACHOTHER. We we're all going to the bar, TOGETHER, but she fell asleep in the car; His girlfriend. They're actually both into me, which is weird, but I'm not down for playing games, I'm not that childish anymore. Not to mention I had at least 4 other friends that frequent this bar, and they were all there too. I didn't go because of him, I went to play music. The guy I brought wanted to play music as well.

Thus why, when I was at the bar, (we were all planning on going anyway, to play music, we're all musicians) I didn't really talk to the Scorpio guy I came with, he, and other men kept trying to talk to me, but I was disinterested. (Didn't look them in the eye, didn't smile.). It wasn't to get Virgo jealous, if anything I'd think that'd make things worse. Did he get jealous? Probably, but we're friends before anything else. I was very jealous too, but I know he doesn't have any real interest in this girl he was talking to. It still hurt my feelings, I think he felt the same way.

I do like him a lot, I've never asked for guy advice online, so he's definitely special. I'm amazing at reading people being a scorpio, and I can tell he's into me when we're in person, hust not over technology.. which is why it hurts so much. If a guy is clearly not into me, I easily move on. I just don't know why he's so hot & cold.

Posted by LadyNeptune
Do you guys cuddle and kiss?

It's weird to me that 4 months have passed and he hasn't made a move considering all the encouraging and even initiating you've done.

Are you sure he's straight?

He has told you he doesn't want you touching him.

Posted by FireflyO
"She doesn't know how to stop touching people that don't want to be touched"

Seems like he may just want to be friends.

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Well he touches me too, and he's always teasing me. He's 100% straight, pretty sure he got his heart broken his last relationship, and he's not into anything physical or not-serious.

We haven't kissed or cuddled. This is why this isn't a normal situation. It's very innocent, we just hang out when we're around each other, 90% of our encounters are in person. At the Bars and Cafes I'm the only girl he gives attention to. He generally doesn't seem interested in most people, but he definitely gives me all his attention when I'm around and we're on good terms.

He's not into casual anything, and neither am I, so it's not a typical sexxually fueled encounter. It's more like puppy love. We just blush and bother each other, and make each other laugh. I know he enjoys being around me because he's always blushing and smiling, and he's never doing that with anyone else. He's always trying to get my attention, and he'll go out of his way to interact with me. He stares at me, and we just look in each others eyes for long periods of time when we're talking. I also see him a lot at these bars and cafes, and he's definitely the shy type. He never really talks to anyone, everyone talks to him.

I consider him a friend I just like him a lot.

But i don't see many virgos commenting anyways. I'm not trying to figure out if he's into me or not, I'm trying to figure out if it's normal for a virgo to be cold and cutting. I know he likes me a lot as a person, we also flirt a lot in person. He only gets cold and emotionless when we're not in person together.

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I had tears in my eyes once with the Virgo and some came down and he just stared at me in a very cold manner

i think i was giving him a bj.

LOL

😆

its memories like this that makes me miss him


im such a masochist

Lol! Did he ever do the head twitching? You know..the one where robots start to malfunction and shut down, their head just start going all over the place. I remember that. Lol

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!!!! I didn't know this was a "thing." I love making my husb twitch. I think it's so hot. I gave him the nickname Fishy for it. Ironic with V being opposite Pisces (and I didn't understand much about astro at the time.) His Venus and Sun are 12th house, so fishy-ish.

Posted by FireflyO

1. and he's not interested in many girls

2. his only flaws are his heartlessness.

3. Most guys are quick with me, and usually they're sexually interested, which is a huge turn off.

I've truly have never met a guy that I like this much

1. you don't know that

2. you don't know that

3. you claim to like him very much, just after comparing him to others. So, instead of liking him for who he is ... you only like him for he is not. How rude.

Posted by FireflyO

1. and he definitely picked up that I was into him.

2. because he didn't seem to be showing any clear signs of interest in me

3. so it was not very much like him.

4. telling him; I feel like he's being mean to me sometimes

1. you don't know that

2. you don't seem to know anything about him, so you can't be taken seriously when describing your intuition

3. you don't know that

4. considering he wasn't being mean, you only said that to try and make him feel guilty.



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and he's a serious guy who doesn't normally act this way.



You don't know that

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1. he suddenly said something mean about me like "She doesn't know how to stop touching people that don't want to be touched".

2. he never does that during a performance

3. I ask him "Do you really hate me that much? I thought we we're friends."

4. he could be so rude and cold, and not even care at all

5. I came to the bar with a Scorpio guy who's into me, but he has a girlfriend ....when we make eye contact he seems a little bit pleased I've said something to him.

1. so stop touching him when he doesn't want you to. obviously, you cannot handle the truth, and so think it's being mean

2. you don't know that

3. considering he never said he hated you ... your question was only in place to lay a guilt trip on him

4. you don't know that he doesn't care at all.

5. you made sure to prance around in front of him in the bar with another man with intentions of making him jealous. there is no other reason for you to do that. especially just after saying the other guy is into you. Secondly, you have no business hanging out with a taken man, who is into you .. unless you're a cunt bitch who has no morals.




Everything you've written in here is a description of an attention game you're playing.

I would suggest to you: be real, or stfu ... but, you're a Scorpio

Scorpios only play. They wouldn't know what being real was if it came up and sat on their face.

Posted by DonnaElvira77

If the spark is not there it's not true love.

Even if a spark is there, it doesn't mean it's "love"



jesuschrist people ... get a fucking grip, and come to reality

Posted by SensitiveBlues
To the OP ever thought about starting a blog! You definitely write alot! I mean you could have finished a thesis with all those words!

Anyways look if you're going to wait on him to make a move he'll never

You'll have to take control of situation of he's not gay!

Oh dear heavens CC. Kindly refrain from encouraging someone who simply says a lot to take it to the next level and start a blog..! Gahh!! There are too many awful terrible blogs out there in cyber world. They lure us in with a promising title or appealing pin and then you read a bit of poorly written garbage and you've just wasted precious moments of life that you will never, ever reclaim.

I don't really care if you thought I wrote a lot. It's about a friend I care about and it was troubling me. But good for you trying to patronize me.

Next, I wasn't trying to make him jealous. I'm asking for opinions but few of you seem like experts, you're just angry. I have two friends, they're a couple, we all hang out as 3 people sometimes. Don't see how that makes me a Harlot... But okay. I already stated she fell asleep in the car, so she didn't come inside... not really going to waste energy going over that one detail over and over.

Regardless of anything, we are friends before anything, so I don't know where all the negativity is coming from. Not interested in casual sex, neither is he...

I actually know him pretty well I see him 2-3 times a week, and have been doing so for a few months. He tells me things in person, neither of us really use social media.

I know him pretty well, he's a great guy, he's just always trying to act like he's not sensitive at all. He's a Pisces Moon, so I know he's emotional.

As for my observation skills. I'm pretty dead on. I notice most things, as well as vibrations, and micro-aggressions. I know he doesn't flirt with other females, he's not a flirt. We're friends, I know him. He's told me he distastes promiscuity, and casual sex. He's told me a lot of things which help me understand his personality.

Anyway, what I've gathered on my own and not from this thread at all, is that, he's not looking for a relationship right now. We're both pretty celibate, and we both don't bother continuing meaningless conversations or friendships.

I like him a lot, I'm just going to be a good friend for him even though he's an A!hole. I know we have a spark, but I'm not gonna bother putting in anymore effort. I'm going to see him tomorrow, and just act like Everything is normal.

I'm a pretty great person, I know that, I'm upset because my feelings are hurt but I'm not desperate and I'm not sleeping with him... Just looking for something genuine. Also not down for all the rudeness, I don't really see the point. I'm not crazy, or delusion. I just have a big crush on a good friend.

My brother is a Virgo sun with Capricorn moon
He is pretty much not emotional sometimes cruel …but overall he's a nice guy

Posted by FireflyO
I don't really care if you thought I wrote a lot. It's about a friend I care about and it was troubling me. But good for you trying to patronize me.

Next, I wasn't trying to make him jealous. I'm asking for opinions but few of you seem like experts, you're just angry. I have two friends, they're a couple, we all hang out as 3 people sometimes. Don't see how that makes me a Harlot... But okay. I already stated she fell asleep in the car, so she didn't come inside... not really going to waste energy going over that one detail over and over.

Regardless of anything, we are friends before anything, so I don't know where all the negativity is coming from. Not interested in casual sex, neither is he...

I actually know him pretty well I see him 2-3 times a week, and have been doing so for a few months. He tells me things in person, neither of us really use social media.

I know him pretty well, he's a great guy, he's just always trying to act like he's not sensitive at all. He's a Pisces Moon, so I know he's emotional.

As for my observation skills. I'm pretty dead on. I notice most things, as well as vibrations, and micro-aggressions. I know he doesn't flirt with other females, he's not a flirt. We're friends, I know him. He's told me he distastes promiscuity, and casual sex. He's told me a lot of things which help me understand his personality.

Anyway, what I've gathered on my own and not from this thread at all, is that, he's not looking for a relationship right now. We're both pretty celibate, and we both don't bother continuing meaningless conversations or friendships.

I like him a lot, I'm just going to be a good friend for him even though he's an A!hole. I know we have a spark, but I'm not gonna bother putting in anymore effort. I'm going to see him tomorrow, and just act like Everything is normal.

I'm a pretty great person, I know that, I'm upset because my feelings are hurt but I'm not desperate and I'm not sleeping with him... Just looking for something genuine. Also not down for all the rudeness, I don't really see the point. I'm not crazy, or delusion. I just have a big crush on a good friend.

Honey, I'm a virgo too. We may be cold on the outside but inside we're full of emotions. Its a security issue we're scated of being hurt. My advice would be to be patient and to be yourself as well as classy ( not saying that you're not). We virgos need time. Once we fall, we fall hard and deep. Being ostient is hard but believe me you get good results, that's if you love this guy. The more patient you're with us the more we love you for understanding us and its worth it in the end.it means alot to us when you're patient with us.

Posted by virgo9188
Honey, I'm a virgo too. We may be cold on the outside but inside we're full of emotions. Its a security issue we're scated of being hurt. My advice would be to be patient and to be yourself as well as classy ( not saying that you're not). We virgos need time. Once we fall, we fall hard and deep. Being ostient is hard but believe me you get good results, that's if you love this guy. The more patient you're with us the more we love you for understanding us and its worth it in the end.it means alot to us when you're patient with us.

Thanks for the advice, yeah I really do love him, he's my friend, and I know he's worth the patience. I'm just going to keep being there for him and hopefully he sees my good intentions.

I can tell he is emotional in his eyes when be looks at me, but then he tries to act like he's not feeling anything even though his body language is speaking for him.

I really love Virgos, he's just very slow moving which is understandable, just something I'm gonna have to accommodate.

Posted by DonnaElvira77
That doesn't mean you are not attractive there is nothing between you. He is just a little indifferent to you.

You can't make a guy like you if you are not his type. If the spark is not there it's not true love.

I can tell he's into me when we're together. It's only when I text or message him that he's really 'cold'.

Objectively I can see why you'd think that but he's a shy guy, not super social, giant loner, so the small things like him giving me all his Attention, and finding reasons to talk to me mean a lot. He literally doesn't go out of his way to talk to anyone.

I appreciate the advice though. I'm trying to figure out if he's normal for a Virgo, I know hes attracted to me, all our friends immediately notice how we act around each other, he just refuses to take his feelings into account when making decisions.

Posted by VirgoR
Firefly,

Based on what you've described, and if you've done so accurately, it appears to be a friendship and nothing more. A valued friendship is far better than an acquaintance, no?

He seems immature, if you are accurately describing his adolescent behavior regarding throwing paper, poking you, etc....

Does he live with his parents? Or is he dependent on his parents for financial support in some fashion?

Adults in their mid 20's, late 20's and early 30's who freeload off their parents have the propensity to behave that way. Their lack of self-sufficiency along with dependency on their parents financial support reflects in their immaturity, and it's always obvious. They ride the coattails of their parents by living in their homes, basements, garage apartments, rental properties, etc.

This site has several of those. Take a gander at the Miscellaneous board, it's infested with them.
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smh

Yeah I'd never show him this forum obviously haha! He hates astrology with a passion.

He lives with roommates. But he doesn't have a job right now, and he mentioned one of his step parents were 'rich as F###'.

I'm pretty sure he's some how supported. He's been without a job for a little while and I've wondered but never dared to ask how he pays rent.

I know its a friendship. I value it a lot. I can't change how I feel and would rather have him as a friend than nothing at all. I'm slowly realizing its selfish of me to want more. It's just so hard not to like him when he's always trying to get my attention, and focusing on me everytime I try to let my feelings dicipate.

It's as if he loves what we have and doesn't vwant the innocence of it to change. Or he's scared or something. He just is really weird when I acknowledge his behavior.

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That doesn't mean you are not attractive there is nothing between you. He is just a little indifferent to you.

You can't make a guy like you if you are not his type. If the spark is not there it's not true love.

I can tell he's into me when we're together. It's only when I text or message him that he's really 'cold'.

Objectively I can see why you'd think that but he's a shy guy, not super social, giant loner, so the small things like him giving me all his Attention, and finding reasons to talk to me mean a lot. He literally doesn't go out of his way to talk to anyone.

I appreciate the advice though. I'm trying to figure out if he's normal for a Virgo, I know hes attracted to me, all our friends immediately notice how we act around each other, he just refuses to take his feelings into account when making decisions.

No when virgos want something they are very clear. His feelings are not that strong. He may be attracted ...who knows that is just sexual. A guy is not going to fall in love with you because he is attracted to you. Sexual attraction does not give affection. Nor does it equal time or commitment.

Don't confuse sexual attraction with love. In women it tends to come together but it does not for men. Or not always .

A guy is not going to be affectionate or loving or fall in love because he is attracted. Unfortunately that happens a lot.

He does not have feelings for you. He would be telling you ' I have feelings for you ' if he did.

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Not sexual attraction. Chemistry through conversation. He's not really sexually fueled, neither am i. It's more of a connection.

I also don't think he's the type to come out and say 'i like you' unless he wanted to start a relationship.

I'm not in denial, but we're friends. He's not just a random guy. Our friendship is built off genuine non-aesthetic values. He's also really shy, and takes things really slow. I said I know he's into me because, I'm not asking if he is. I know there's something here, and its beautiful because its not sexual at all, its really innocent, what the foundation of any great relationship should be.

I'm confused because I look into his eyes and when we're talking we're like two little kids in puppy love, definitely something mutual, or he'd leave me alone instead of always bothering me when normally he sits by himself all seriously. He only acts like a 12 year old with a crush around me.


He's very reserved. He stays out of the spotlight. We have a friendship, is that all it is? Yeah, but that doesn't mean that's all he feels

The question was: is this normal for Virgos ?

because if yes, I'd be patient with him, and if not I'd have to move on. I'm just trying to see if he just needs more time because unlike water signs, he doesn't go off blind emotion.

Posted by FireflyO

He literally doesn't go out of his way to talk to anyone

You don't know that.

Posted by FireflyO

he just refuses to take his feelings into account when making decisions

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You don't know that

You talk out of your ass a lot.


The truth is .. you've known this guy, what? 4 months !!


You've made all kinds of irrational conclusions, based solely on YOUR feelings.

You have no clue what/how he considers his feelings ... but, here you are saying that he "refuses" to consider his feelings.


In fact, you so don't know him that you have to come to a forum to ask strangers about his character .... yet, here you are making claims about him.

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You have no clue what/how he considers his feelings ... but, here you are saying that he "refuses" to consider his feelings.

For those in the viewing audience who are comprehension impaired ...... what the above means is that because he isn't running to her Highness, and because he isn't into her the way she wants him to be ...... then she makes false claims of him.


Since he isn't running to her, then she tells us that he isn't considering how he feels when making decisions ... in this case, the decision she refers to is wanting her.


So, since he doesn't want her, and will take a pass on her .. she cannot handle the rejection, so she fabricates a story to tell us and says that he refuses to consider his feelings.


Typical Princess with entitlement issues.

Posted by FireflyO
The question was: is this normal for Virgos ?

because if yes, I'd be patient with him, and if not I'd have to move on. I'm just trying to see if he just needs more time because unlike water signs, he doesn't go off blind emotion.

Why would you need to move on? You've stated here repeatedly that you are only interested in a friendship with him.

What's there to be patient with? Which is it Op?

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You have no clue what/how he considers his feelings ... but, here you are saying that he "refuses" to consider his feelings.

For those in the viewing audience who are comprehension impaired ...... what th above means is that because he isn't running to her Highness, and because he isn't into her the way she wants him to be ...... then she makes false claims of him.


Since he isn't running to her, then she tells us that he isn't considering how he feels when making decisions ... in this case, the decision she refers to is wanting her.


So, since he doesn't want her, and will take a pass on her .. she cannot handle the rejection, so she fabricates a story to tell us and says that he refuses to consider his feelings.


Typical Princess with entitlement issues.

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Mm. Nope you're off. You're the one who seems entitled. I've known him for 4 months. You've know him... Oh wait you don't know him at all... So all your 'facts' are based upon my story. And you think my story is false. So everything you say is irrelevant.


Don't know why you're taking this so personally. I thnk you're completely off, I can read and see other peoples perceptions but yours is angry and biased. You're obviously just mad. Guess what? I don't care. I don't know you... I know him, the post isn't because I don't know him, its because I want to see if he's being cold and unemotional and its Normal. That means, he's acting one way one day, the the next he's acting another.


Highly into astrology. And if a guy wanted to know if I liked him and he searched or asked about 'stereotypical' Scorpios his answer would then be very clear. This Virgo has A LOT of Virgo in his chart and as much as I get along with Virgos. (A lot of Virgo friends,) they confuse me in general. He is definitely different than most of the Virgos I know, but one of my other Virgo friends would constantly tell me how he was into a guy (he's gay) and everytime the guy would try to label or solidify things, he would get all 'cold' and tell the guy, he wasn't interested in any of that. He didn't even realize it was cold, and after I talked to him I told him maybe he's afraid of committing. Anyways now that guy dates this guy he was into after many months, so I'm wondering if this is a common thing .



By the way, this is a thread and a lot of different people will respond. Your opinion is meaningless to me simply by your rudeness and ridiculousness. Who are you? Just a random stranger online that's angry, trying to act liel you're the only one that knows everything about the situation and the guy. It's actually funny. You're telling me I 'don't know' things, that I've talked to him abou

About. Maybe you should have a more professionalnal tone when you type. Rather than being a dogmatic mouse..

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Posted by FireflyO
The question was: is this normal for Virgos ?

because if yes, I'd be patient with him, and if not I'd have to move on. I'm just trying to see if he just needs more time because unlike water signs, he doesn't go off blind emotion.

Why would you need to move on? You've stated here repeatedly that you are only interested in a friendship with him.

What's there to be patient with? Which is it Op?

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Interested in being his friend regardless. He's a great person. If he's not into me. I'm not going to just leave him alone. But I am kind of in love with this guy, so its hurting. I'm wondering if I should move on as in, be open to other guys, and just treat him platonically

I've been ignoring all guys that talk to me because I like him, and no one can really compare. He's so amazing, he enjoys my presence but not always my persistence for more.


So, wondering do I be patient, keep the mutual flirting, and be patient because he has a wall up and its slowly breaking down. Which I think I just might do.

Or move on because I don't deserve to feel upset, and if il never change I'm wasting time. Still be friends, but stop flirting, stop giving him extra attention...

I'm a Scorpio so its all or nothing for me, so I can't be inauthentic. I pretty much ignore anyone I'm not interested in. He probably realizes how different I am with him. But he doesnt realize to what extent. I don't care for meaningless friendships really. And if we stayed friends I'd be nice to him and still talk to him, but everything would be different in how I look and talk to him. I treat him special, and he definitely likes it...

those textbook virgo men (the ones with significant water / fire are not part this group) are like women. they need women to lead and baby their moodiness. it can really confuse and mess up a feminine woman. their moodiness comes from not knowing exactly how themselves feel and want except perfection. unfortunately perfection does not exist in this world. when a feminine woman forces to take the lead, it is unnatural for her so she can become moody and obsessive which in turn push the virgo into his shield even more. vicious cycle. lose lose.

if he made you feel like this ^^^, let him go for your sanity.

if a man does not make you feel like a woman, he is not man enough for you. simple.

Posted by PEITHO
How can people here tell you whether or not the guy likes you if they don't even know him? You know him not people on this forum if you think he likes you then go with what you think. Not what strangers on a forum tells you of course it's ok to listen to some advice given.

Yeah I know, I realized that pretty quickly which is why I sound defensive when someone says they know he's not into me, "because if he were he'd....."

I was just wondering if this sounds like a 'Vrigo' and I'm getting that it does, and he maybe needs time.

Posted by iCloud9
those textbook virgo men (the ones with significant water / fire are not part this group) are like women. they need women to lead and baby their moodiness. it can really confuse and mess up a feminine woman. their moodiness comes from not knowing exactly how themselves feel and want except perfection. unfortunately perfection does not exist in this world. when a feminine woman forces to take the lead, it is unnatural for her so she can become moody and obsessive which in turn push the virgo into his shield even more. vicious cycle. lose lose.

if he made you feel like this ^^^, let him go for your sanity.

I probably should, but I truly think he's worth the patience, and if he's just moody, and doesn't understand his feelings, I can give him time. He's a really good guy, I definitely have been pushing him into his shield. I'm not used to leading, I think I'll just take it slow, and roll my eyes at his moodiness... Thanks for the advice! Really appreciate your tone and opinion.

Posted by FireflyO

I was just wondering if this sounds like a 'Vrigo' and I'm getting that it does, and he maybe needs time.

Nope, it's not like a Virgo, at all.

But, that doesn't matter ... because you will only accept what you want to hear.



suffer as you wish, oh, and you will .... because fools always do

He like you, at first reading your post I thought it was because you were playing games because in some cases you are . But You said he does not have job and he is not going to make move when he is laid off. Earth sign men confidence come from our ability to make money. And seeing how we Virgo look at every thing we do long term. He knows this will be a problem and would not want to start something until he has a job. whats his mars sign.

hEY I just want to give you some advice with your Virgo man. I'm a Pisces and my husband is a Virgo we have a daughter together and she is a cancer lol we have been married for five years and knew each other for 8 years we met each other on Myspace. the connection between us was crazy. it was like two magnets actually I believe we are soul mates . we are the ying and the yang of the zodiac. now I'm goin to help u with ur Virgo man if u cry in front of hm . this will upset him it will upset him because Virgo men do not feeling emotional. especially if they ar e the ones that did something to make u cry crying in front them makes it worst way worst. if u want to get ur virgo man ignore him never txt him first. always let him txt you and when he does never ever reply with drama always seem happy always seem productive. if you want this virgo man you have to make him laugh but don't be tooo emotional ever !I learned the hard way . a virgo man will not ever truly understand us the way we want them too when it comes down to our emotions but . if u want a response always talk to him when u are calm never angry or emotional . calmness is what they they like

yes I did we had a full on fight I kicked him out and everything but a couple days later we were back together but u have to give them that time to miss ur presence that's why I say don't contact them first abd when u do don't bring uo the issue just kinda of let the emotions die down so you can have a civilized conversation and your virgo can actually act like he gives a damn lol

I will say you were being a little too sensitive that's why he acted cold after your performancr. I am a scorpio and we tend to make up "problems" in our head. When he teases you he likes you but you made it serious and that is what pissed him up. You can say you wasn't making him jealous but you knew fully well you walking in there with a guy period would come off as playing games reguardless of your actions. The problem you seem to have is MISS COMMUNICATION. You guys are both a little childish and need to learn how to communicate and that is something you are going to have to teach him so you need to learn how to communicate without assuming he is being "mean" to you. Manipulation will not work even being in denial that you don't do it.