Virgo help. Should I ignore her too?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by peterp543 on Wednesday, July 29, 2015 and has 3 replies.

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@peterp543
11 YearsAries

Long story short. I fell in love with a close virgo friend she liked me back but isn't ready to be in a serious relationship again because she twas in 6 year emotionally straining one. We stayed talking but it got to the point where the situation was making miserable and she said that we should go our separate ways. Two weeks ago I told asked her if we can just date and see how it goes from there. She said they she will always have some sort of feelings for me but they're not what they used to because she shifted her mindset to cope with the situation and she said that I'm definitely worthy of being someone she would date and if there was a type of guy she would date it would be me which is why she did to begin with. But that at this very moment she needs to be alone. I told her that when ever she feels ready she can tell me. My arms will always be open for her. She replied a week later saying she appreciates what I said and that she'll always keep me in mind. I asked her how she has been and she never replied. I want our friendship to go back to normal but she makes it hard by ignoring me. Should I ignore her too? What makes this situation worse is that I'm moving in 3 weeks 3 hours away from where I currently live. She said herself that she'll do whatever it takes to get us to a good place but it doesn't seem like she's even trying. At this point I don't even know if she even wants to see me before I leave. So what should I do? Thanks

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@Weeds
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Why dont you respect her and leave her be?
when and if she comes around keep your word about having your arms opened.... dont be a two faced prick

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@AriesGirl74
12 Years500+ Posts

Reading this objectively, it sounds like she is kind of fobbing you off and doesn't want to be rude. She is letting u down gently.

I don't think this is going anywhere tbh and you should use your relocation to "move on".