Posted by capris
have you virgos cheated on someone u "love" and go back to that person like nothing happened?
Posted by capris
have you virgos cheated on someone u "love" and go back to that person like nothing happened?
Posted by zd1987
Pretty interesting how a lot of astrology websites make us come off as cold and shallow in relationships. This is a little sad and far from the truth. Idk who these people are, but as for me it frustrates the hell out of me because we can be so picky that when we do fall in love it seems like we put our everything into it.
Posted by wgamador2
I know!! and its bullshit.
Virgos can walk around for years full of love for someone who hasnt loved them for years and still manage to smile and look at the bright side. So fuck those astrologers.
We save the drama for the stage and film, so they kill us for that. They want a sappy Virgo. You better get really close to one to see that side.
I think people who have been deeply loved by a Virgo's body, mind and soul can probably confirm that they were TRULY, TRULY loved. But yeah, hurt a Virgo with Love and expect them being unemotional towards you and everything you once shared.
Posted by wgamador2
I know!! and its bullshit.
Virgos can walk around for years full of love for someone who hasnt loved them for years and still manage to smile and look at the bright side. So fuck those astrologers.
so wgamador2, are you saying a virgo can love someone, as in being in love with someone deeply, OR love someone IE: caring for them but not in love with them for years, despite not having their love reciprocated? can it be both?
virgo's being so analytical, can they love someone who they haven't had contact with for years despite being in a committed relationship with someone else?
if so, will that love eventually develop into anger/frustration/jealosy/resentment when they realize the person they loved is also in a committed relationship?
my curiousity stems from personal experience. thanks for any thoughts you might share.
Posted by capris
have you virgos cheated on someone u "love" and go back to that person like nothing happened?
Posted by zd1987
Pretty interesting how a lot of astrology websites make us come off as cold and shallow in relationships. This is a little sad and far from the truth. Idk who these people are, but as for me it frustrates the hell out of me because we can be so picky that when we do fall in love it seems like we put our everything into it.
Posted by VulcanLassPosted by capris
have you virgos cheated on someone u "love" and go back to that person like nothing happened?
It's not cheating it's called keeping your options open.click to expand
Posted by wgamador2
I know!! and its bullshit.
Virgos can walk around for years full of love for someone who hasnt loved them for years and still manage to smile and look at the bright side. So fuck those astrologers.
We save the drama for the stage and film, so they kill us for that. They want a sappy Virgo. You better get really close to one to see that side.
I think people who have been deeply loved by a Virgo's body, mind and soul can probably confirm that they were TRULY, TRULY loved. But yeah, hurt a Virgo with Love and expect them being unemotional towards you and everything you once shared.
Posted by MiaSangria
From what I've read about Virgos, we are slow to ignite but once the fire starts burning its a white heat that burns hot and steady. I know I'm that way. Slow to totally trust but once I'm in, I'm ALL in and the most loyal person you could hope for. I would break up before I would fool around - not that I am easily tempted but that is how I would roll if I wanted someone else. NO CHEATING is given and NONE is accepted. I do use my head in the beginning, to some extent, but I think thats just common sense...there ARE playas out there and there is nothing wrong with using your brain before letting loose w/ your heart.
Posted by MiaSangria
I recently had dinner w/ my bff since childhood (a cappy) and after I addressed the wait staff she said, "You come off as cold. Kinda snooty. I know you and I know you're not that way but that is how people perceive you." I think that is Virgo's to a "T". People who we love and who know us, know we are so warm and loving. We just dont 'give' it away so easily as some people and therefore, we come across as misunderstood, me thinks. I would also like to add that the waitress interrupted a deep conversation we were having and I simply responded in a no-nonsense, thank you kinda way. To me, it was a business transaction conversation. I wasnt rude and my food had already been served 😉
Posted by CLCNY30Posted by MiaSangria
From what I've read about Virgos, we are slow to ignite but once the fire starts burning its a white heat that burns hot and steady. I know I'm that way. Slow to totally trust but once I'm in, I'm ALL in and the most loyal person you could hope for. I would break up before I would fool around - not that I am easily tempted but that is how I would roll if I wanted someone else. NO CHEATING is given and NONE is accepted. I do use my head in the beginning, to some extent, but I think thats just common sense...there ARE playas out there and there is nothing wrong with using your brain before letting loose w/ your heart.
I feel like I wrote this...
This is me 100%
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Posted by zd1987
I think the wildest thing is that when we end a relationship, and yes im generalizing because I feel like it takes a lot to actually end it, it leaves the other half spinning and it makes us uncertain. I think that we leave an impact on people they never get over. Its weird, but I have to say I think we do take breakups and relationships much more to heart than others would notice. The cold exterior is just that, an exterior. I have found in my recent breakup i called it off, but was left with a million pieces to pick up, like i started all over again. the whole order out of chaos mentality we have can leave us breathless if it does not go as planned. i think virgos make the best boy/girlfriends because of our loyalty and respect for others. I just know this unemotional bull crap is far from the truth. we take everything to heart.
Posted by zd1987
I think the wildest thing is that when we end a relationship, and yes im generalizing because I feel like it takes a lot to actually end it, it leaves the other half spinning and it makes us uncertain. I think that we leave an impact on people they never get over. Its weird, but I have to say I think we do take breakups and relationships much more to heart than others would notice. The cold exterior is just that, an exterior. I have found in my recent breakup i called it off, but was left with a million pieces to pick up, like i started all over again. the whole order out of chaos mentality we have can leave us breathless if it does not go as planned. i think virgos make the best boy/girlfriends because of our loyalty and respect for others. I just know this unemotional bull crap is far from the truth. we take everything to heart.
Posted by lildol
I don't agree with the cold and shallow, although they def are not ones to wear their hearts on their sleeve! But, you do have to learn how to read them. (The broken ones are even harder to get close to.) As for what was said about loyalty, I think that they do have considerable staying power; the Virgos I know that were married/in serious relationships whom are no longer in their relationships did not separate or leave by choice, it was the other party who wanted out.
Posted by lildol
I don't agree with the cold and shallow, although they def are not ones to wear their hearts on their sleeve! But, you do have to learn how to read them. (The broken ones are even harder to get close to.) As for what was said about loyalty, I think that they do have considerable staying power; the Virgos I know that were married/in serious relationships whom are no longer in their relationships did not separate or leave by choice, it was the other party who wanted out.
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