Virgo Man ?

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Mélinda
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Ive met a Virgo guy many months ago, we were getting along and enjoying each other company. At the end of our first meeting we exchange numbers and i was very happy and excited.

I did get the friendzone speech after several dates, and the worst part I didnt get the chance to say how I felt, thats when i learn he was seeing several other women. It truly breaks me, we were getting along so well and I was getting to know him and he even opened up and shared things about his past.

I back off a while now, cuz all of this hurts much, feeling like You havent met the standards of someone but other have.

The only weird part is that these women he was seeing was all about sex and drama yet he saw something more in them and not me.

I wished I had move faster and show more my interest in him. I truly felt worthless after learning that. Although Im building myself up again, its been hard...I never felt this way before. I genuiely likes and care for him, I feel on the outside and it hurts.

I know some of you will tell me to move on and i guess i could be in that direction, that said is there anyway I could get him to see i was worth it too?

I saw something in him that he didn't see in me. He is intellectual, funny, Well mannered and very kind. He has depth and even though we don't know each other that well, Im trying so hard to understand him.

I don't know what to think. Can someone please help me with this? Any Virgo Man here or anyone, I just need some insights with this. Thanks
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Posted by Mimi24
Posted by yupvirgoo
You're a Leo... why not just confess and get it over with?
Its not easy to just confess and get over it. Everyone should know that. I do intend but its very difficult.

I wanted to know If there was a way that this could switch

Switch how? That somehow he'll fall in love with you and you can live happy ever after with him?

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Not talking about happily ever after, but if there are ways that this could switch around and i know it has happened before for other people. I would like to know is there is a way thats all. Im human, like everyone who is interested in someone else you would like to have a chance.
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He's telling you they are all about sex, just like he's telling them your all about sex.

He's just not ready for somthing serious maybe, if you like him go with it, he will eventually see you as always being right there when others have come and gone. Virgo men love women who are down and are also independent, but will always make time for him. Virgos can tell the difference between unstable and stability, and prefer traditional. He will slowly see you as different and more of what he wants if you stay around.

Getting women is pretty easy for Virgo men keeping them is the another story.

So staying around is the key
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Posted by DXV1
He's telling you they are all about sex, just like he's telling them your all about sex.

He's just not ready for somthing serious maybe, if you like him go with it, he will eventually see you as always being right there when others have come and gone. Virgo men love women who are down and are also independent, but will always make time for him. Virgos can tell the difference between unstable and stability, and prefer traditional. He will slowly see you as different and more of what he wants if you stay around.

Getting women is pretty easy for Virgo men keeping them is the another story.

So staying around is the key


Thanks dear, I will focus meanwhile on me and check up on me and stick around to do some activities. Im actually starting more and more stuff on my own, so in time he might see it. Ill just go with what my mind and heart tell me cuz i genuiely likes him.

Thanks so much for that advice. 🙂
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Posted by DXV1
He's telling you they are all about sex, just like he's telling them your all about sex.

He's just not ready for somthing serious maybe, if you like him go with it, he will eventually see you as always being right there when others have come and gone. Virgo men love women who are down and are also independent, but will always make time for him. Virgos can tell the difference between unstable and stability, and prefer traditional. He will slowly see you as different and more of what he wants if you stay around.

Getting women is pretty easy for Virgo men keeping them is the another story.

So staying around is the key
PS: we didnt sleep together tho. Yet!

So i dont know About that one ?
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@mimi24

O.k that will just make him try harder, Or feel like it's never gonna happen and give up. So Then stimulating mind F**k is better achieved because we have more stamina in that field. Playing mental positions is like a well calculated physical one. I typical know when I reached that mental G spot just by conversation, and She sacrifices mind body and soul I will see it, I will appreciate it and give her security protection love and loyalty.
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Posted by ugMercuryMind
Little Big Town - Girl Crush

Classified as a Country song. Based / Sampled on a R&B Beat. from the 1960s.

It's the lyrics it self. Very creative and well thought out.

'I got a capricorn crush'

lord knows I've tried

I can't get her off my mind

....

...

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Writing inspiration can come from things such as that.

You can make a mashup writing of the texts or whatever he's sent you or things you guys talked about.
Do you think friendship with à Virgo Can turn into love? Thanks for the tips.

Or does Virgo stick to the same décision until the end. I heard they were à mutable sign.
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troy6886
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My 2 cents:

It's very possible that he may like you, but right now he is loaded with opportunity so he has little motivation to shrink his pool down to 1 person...yet. I would say the best thing for you is to attempt to get on with your life and cut this guy out completely. If he has any interest it will show up when he realizes he can't call on you whenever he wants. If he doesn't reach out to you then unfortunately this is just a one sided affair and your steps to get on with your life will be even more necessary. It happens and no matter how hard you try you're not going to get this guy to like you if he's not feelin' it. With all this said don't let this be a reflection on you. You are still someone just as significant in the world as he is. You 2 just may not be compatible. Clearly there is a side to him that you don't know because he's not responding to you so take that as a sign that maybe he's not who you think he is and maybe not getting him is a blessing.
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Posted by troy6886
My 2 cents:

It's very possible that he may like you, but right now he is loaded with opportunity so he has little motivation to shrink his pool down to 1 person...yet. I would say the best thing for you is to attempt to get on with your life and cut this guy out completely. If he has any interest it will show up when he realizes he can't call on you whenever he wants. If he doesn't reach out to you then unfortunately this is just a one sided affair and your steps to get on with your life will be even more necessary. It happens and no matter how hard you try you're not going to get this guy to like you if he's not feelin' it. With all this said don't let this be a reflection on you. You are still someone just as significant in the world as he is. You 2 just may not be compatible. Clearly there is a side to him that you don't know because he's not responding to you so take that as a sign that maybe he's not who you think he is and maybe not getting him is a blessing.
Thanks for the advice, I hope it turns out good but if not, I Guess its life. ?
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I believe that if everything is good with you then the right one will come to you..perhaps more than one. It's hard to believe that sometimes, but consider how you're feeling right now. If having this guy makes everything right with the world then, in my opinion, you have some things to work on. Needing him to make things right instantly places your fate(well being) in his control to do as he wishes. Might seem exciting at first , but I think, male or female, when you sense you have that kind of control over someone you take them for granted. Again...my 2 cents.
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Posted by troy6886
I believe that if everything is good with you then the right one will come to you..perhaps more than one. It's hard to believe that sometimes, but consider how you're feeling right now. If having this guy makes everything right with the world then, in my opinion, you have some things to work on. Needing him to make things right instantly places your fate(well being) in his control to do as he wishes. Might seem exciting at first , but I think, male or female, when you sense you have that kind of control over someone you take them for granted. Again...my 2 cents.


True. I guess i Can only Hope for the best and continue my path of happiness.

It just hurts because of the way i feel.
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Dump the Virgo man. I went with mine for three years with his ignore stuff yet how much he loved me he did nice things for me too. But when it came down to really is there a future for us he shut down the communication lines as if I wronged him for asking such a thing I love him I do. But after three weeks' of nothing and he texts come do me with no strings r u kidding me. I don't know for sure but pretty sure since he went MIA for days weeks quite often. Several women out of towners too his ex his kids momma had he said that I'd respect him for going to his kids momma. But to just sex her me all depends on if she with her current that week or not. Too much.. Run