Venting about Virgo man weird behavior

I was seeing this Virgo man for a few weeks ... Everything was great we clicked really well until the last time we saw eachother the vibe was completely off .. He seemed very very nervous .. He was fidgety .. He was nervous he thought he heard the doorbell ring and I Had to tell him no .. So that made me feel uneasy ...I also was observing him with his phone .. He takes forever to text me back when he's home .. But I noticed that everytime he got a text he responded right away .. I also didn't like him being on his phone while I was at his house because I think it's rude we. Would be having a full blown conversation and boom goes off again ... But that's not what really bothered me .. After observing these things ...things started to get really weird for me .. He does not initiate communication so we would sometimes not even talk unless I hit me up .. But for the last 2 days he's been hitting me up at 6p.m just to tell me he's on his way back to work & I thinks it's weird of him .. Why wait the whole day to text Me when you on your way back to work .. when you know we don't text while you at work so I started thinking that maybe he's telling me these things so that I don't expect to see him or talk to him ... Which would explain why yesterday we was supposed to see eachother and he never responded back to any of my texts but then I saw he was online ... & once he saw that I knew he was online he responded back right away asking if I was up and I ignored him ... So today I just decided to tell him that I didn't wanna talk anymore.. After he texted me again at 6.pm to tell me he's "going to work" & it really hurt my feelings to do that because it's not often you meet someone that you feel like you have known already but my gut tells me something is not right .. And I still feel like I made the right choice ...

Posted by OmniVirgoFlirt

Posted by BeautyandTheBull
I was seeing this Virgo man for a few weeks ... Everything was great we clicked really well until the last time we saw eachother the vibe was completely off .. He seemed very very nervous .. He was fidgety .. He was nervous he thought he heard the doorbell ring and I Had to tell him no .. So that made me feel uneasy ...I also was observing him with his phone .. He takes forever to text me back when he's home .. But I noticed that everytime he got a text he responded right away .. I also didn't like him being on his phone while I was at his house because I think it's rude we. Would be having a full blown conversation and boom goes off again ... But that's not what really bothered me .. After observing these things ...things started to get really weird for me .. He does not initiate communication so we would sometimes not even talk unless I hit me up .. But for the last 2 days he's been hitting me up at 6p.m just to tell me he's on his way back to work & I thinks it's weird of him .. Why wait the whole day to text Me when you on your way back to work .. when you know we don't text while you at work so I started thinking that maybe he's telling me these things so that I don't expect to see him or talk to him ... Which would explain why yesterday we was supposed to see eachother and he never responded back to any of my texts but then I saw he was online ... & once he saw that I knew he was online he responded back right away asking if I was up and I ignored him ... So today I just decided to tell him that I didn't wanna talk anymore.. After he texted me again at 6.pm to tell me he's "going to work" & it really hurt my feelings to do that because it's not often you meet someone that you feel like you have known already but my gut tells me something is not right .. And I still feel like I made the right choice ...

but why did you ignore him when he sent you a message while onle?

does he text you when he gets home?

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I ignored him when he texted me because I had texted him 3 times around 8pm and he didn't text me back until 12am and the only reason why he did was because he saw that I was online so he knows that I saw him online as well .

& no text when he gets home .. I'm not so sure he really was at work though

Posted by OmniVirgoFlirt
...but he should not be constanlty on the phone while your around or a guest at his house... thats rude

& your right he shouldn't have its very rude .. If you wanna talk to whoever your texting so badly then maybe he should have invited them over instead of me ...

His personality is great ! He's outgoing and he actually taking care of his family back at home . So he never goes out anywhere so he doesn't have to spend money ... He is always home if he is not at work .. And yea his behavior had gotten too weird so I cut him off. He is def hiding something .

Sounds like he has a girlfriend/ wife.

Posted by Loladoll
Sounds like he has a girlfriend/ wife.

He just may ... I wasn't about to wait around

& figure it out .. I just knew something was off. Just glad

I didn't invest in too much time

My texting behavior is weird af, and the more things I have coming into my phone the worst it gets, I have to shuffle between texts, fb, snapchat, twitter etc. I know I don't need all of these ways to communicate with ppl but I use social media to keep in contact, network and promo... sometimes ill forget to go back and respond to something bc I have to do something in the real world. I feel bad using my phone around ppl so sometimes I ignore it.... which = another friend mad that I temporarily ignored them lol

He stood up ... you should over analyze that

He sat down ... now go analyze that

His mother called him .... you should over analyze that

He texted at 6:05, instead of 6:00 - uh oh, something's really up now ... you should run to a forum to talk about it

He sat down again .... now you really should over analyze that because it's the second time he sat down

He took 22 minutes to respond back from your text, when just yesterday he only took 21 minutes ... now it's really fucked up, you should start another thread on a different forum about it because how in the world are you going to be able to handle that?

He sat down ... oh fuck, now what are you going to do? Maybe you should pull your fucking hair out

Posted by P-Angel

He stood up ... you should over analyze that

He sat down ... now go analyze that

His mother called him .... you should over analyze that

He texted at 6:05, instead of 6:00 - uh oh, something's really up now ... you should run to a forum to talk about it

He sat down again .... now you really should over analyze that because it's the second time he sat down

He took 22 minutes to respond back from your text, when just yesterday he only took 21 minutes ... now it's really fucked up, you should start another thread on a different forum about it because how in the world are you going to be able to handle that?

He sat down ... oh fuck, now what are you going to do? Maybe you should pull your fucking hair out

Why are you so mad that I'm observant ...? Your making fun of everything I noticed but he gave me confirmation today he has a wife .. SO maybe you should try it

I was gonna say...

What sealed the deal for me was the texts that he's on his way to work.

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Posted by Earthboundfeline
My texting behavior is weird af, and the more things I have coming into my phone the worst it gets, I have to shuffle between texts, fb, snapchat, twitter etc. I know I don't need all of these ways to communicate with ppl but I use social media to keep in contact, network and promo... sometimes ill forget to go back and respond to something bc I have to do something in the real world. I feel bad using my phone around ppl so sometimes I ignore it.... which = another friend mad that I temporarily ignored them lol

so fix your behavior, don't whine about it online, de fuk

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It's getting better, this is "Naturally" btw, switching to another account

Seems like a typical Virgo behaviour, half the time Virgos ignore because they feel themselves falling for the person.