Virgo Man

I just had a question about the Virgo guy I am dating. He is always affectionate and caring when we are together and we have a great time. He makes statements about future planning and says he wants to continue to see me. We are still in the very early stages so I have not even thought of bringing up the "relationship" question and I myself and still evaluating.

But he does work a lot and also lives in another city at times. There will be days when he doesn't contact me. That doesn't bother me because I have my own stuff to do. But there have been a few occasions when he will tentatively make plans and then break them because things will come up, but he doesn't give me adequate notice, its as if he was so singularly focused on what he was doing that he forgot. It just seems as if he is in his own world at times and not great at communicating until I reach out. But then he is very engaging and talkative. I am wondering if behavior is unique to the Virgo man and then how I can gauge his interest (especially for a Cancer like me who is very open about attention and communication). He also happens to be a Sag moon so I know that he forgets everything and he a "go with the flow" kind of guy.

Thanks

Posted by fostersb
I just had a question about the Virgo guy I am dating. He is always affectionate and caring when we are together and we have a great time. He makes statements about future planning and says he wants to continue to see me. We are still in the very early stages so I have not even thought of bringing up the "relationship" question and I myself and still evaluating.

But he does work a lot and also lives in another city at times. There will be days when he doesn't contact me. That doesn't bother me because I have my own stuff to do. But there have been a few occasions when he will tentatively make plans and then break them because things will come up, but he doesn't give me adequate notice, its as if he was so singularly focused on what he was doing that he forgot. It just seems as if he is in his own world at times and not great at communicating until I reach out. But then he is very engaging and talkative. I am wondering if behavior is unique to the Virgo man and then how I can gauge his interest (especially for a Cancer like me who is very open about attention and communication). He also happens to be a Sag moon so I know that he forgets everything and he a "go with the flow" kind of guy.

Thanks

Typically if a Virgo is like this in the beginning he's not really interested, it mean someone has his interest and yes I'd try to find out if he has a wife. Virgos act like this only once they feel they have you not at the beginning and it takes a long time to get them there. I wouldn't even bother finding out. Just run.

This is a tough one. But the one thing that stands out is that he lives in another city and we do get caught up in our work and that doesnt help your cause. Its so muvh easier at least for me to be in the same vicinity so i can see you smile at me in person and feel your energy combine with mine in real time baby. I know one thing, he doesnt seem to be worried about you being snatched up by someone else, as you already mentioned, because i have always said, if im not on the phone with her, someone else is and even then, its cool as long as i become the last person she wants to takk to when she is in her bed cozy and i can make her feel like im there with her sharing her cozy spot. But what the fuck do i know. lol.

Thanks for the concern, but I know that he is not married because I have met his friends and family and have already visited him in both cities. We are both relatively young, but I have been cheated on before so I did all my homework on this guy and there is no secret family. He is also definitely not seeing anyone else as I have full access to his phone, email and he doesn't hide anything from me.

I understand the issue about the non-interest. The thing is that I think that a relationship is not a priority and when we met he was not looking to meet someone, it just happened. I was actively looking and so I think that makes a difference. To him, relationships take second place to his work. Plus he runs his own business, which he is currently building and that creates a lot of stress and takes up most of his energy. I am just wondering how much time I should give to see if he wants to try and create a relationship or doesn't even want to try and give it the energy and time. Since it has only been a month I know that it is not enough time, but I also don't want to waste months on someone who will never get serious.