Virgo man told me to text...

While he's away for a 4 day stag party.... I feel odd bugging him haha considering we just chat and have hung out a couple times. Why on earth would he want a girl to text or call while he's up to boy shenanigans?!

Virgo men are odd creatures lol.

Posted by HearttofTopaz
Wants the scooter stix ready 4 dipping when gets back

Hahaha the most he's ever got from me is a hug

He left Thursday and we talked then. I haven't heard from him since then. I figured I'd just let him get a hold of me.

it means even if im busy , if im telling you to text then text

example, guy text me whats up?

I say oh im doing ....

guy say, ill let you go , I won't bother you

then im like: if I was busy you wouldn't get a response, since I responded then text. dont let the fact that im doing something stop you. I would tell you im busy

He wants u to chase him...

No. He needs to court you

I text him just saying hello. He called me almost immediately lol

You'd think with my Virgo moon I'd maybe know more about things but ended up meeting his little boy last night... whose freaking adorable btw. He mentioned that he usually goes for the gusto right off the bat (since all we've done is hug) but respects the fact that I'm not like that. Totally call my bullshit on this but I thought virguy's liked to move slow and have a friendship first?

Posted by scorpio1108
You'd think with my Virgo moon I'd maybe know more about things but ended up meeting his little boy last night... whose freaking adorable btw. He mentioned that he usually goes for the gusto right off the bat (since all we've done is hug) but respects the fact that I'm not like that. Totally call my bullshit on this but I thought virguy's liked to move slow and have a friendship first?

My Virgo didn't take it slow either, although we texted for almost one month before we've seen each other so there was a looot of tension and build up energy between us. He would never push me if I didn't want to do it, but all it took was give him few signs I'm up for it and he went for it and god was he good at it!! 😄 I read that Virgos just need to feel like they have connection with you and there has to be real interest, if it's there, there really is no need to wait. 🙂 I don't know if it's true, just trust your gut. 😉

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He left Thursday and we talked then. I haven't heard from him since then. I figured I'd just let him get a hold of me.

Wrong make move

If it were me I’d think

Ok so I asked her to call she never did guess I know her interest level

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I agree totally, it's flattering that he wasn't shutting her out while on boys weekend...

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Posted by scorpio1108
He left Thursday and we talked then. I haven't heard from him since then. I figured I'd just let him get a hold of me.

Wrong make move

If it were me I’d think

Ok so I asked her to call she never did guess I know her interest level

I agree totally, it's flattering that he wasn't shutting her out while on boys weekend...

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I ended up texting him and he called me right away lol told me alllll abut his guys weekend including the pregnant stripper hahaha

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He left Thursday and we talked then. I haven't heard from him since then. I figured I'd just let him get a hold of me.

Wrong make move

If it were me I’d think

Ok so I asked her to call she never did guess I know her interest level

I agree totally, it's flattering that he wasn't shutting her out while on boys weekend...

I ended up texting him and he called me right away lol told me alllll abut his guys weekend including the pregnant stripper hahaha

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LOL, what—

I can't speak for virgo men, but as a virgo woman I'm not aggressive when it comes to flirting/letting potential love interests that I'm piqued. So you should take it as a great sign that he is communicating well with you...😄

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He left Thursday and we talked then. I haven't heard from him since then. I figured I'd just let him get a hold of me.

Wrong make move

If it were me I’d think

Ok so I asked her to call she never did guess I know her interest level

I agree totally, it's flattering that he wasn't shutting her out while on boys weekend...

I ended up texting him and he called me right away lol told me alllll abut his guys weekend including the pregnant stripper hahaha

LOL, what—

I can't speak for virgo men, but as a virgo woman I'm not aggressive when it comes to flirting/letting potential love interests that I'm piqued. So you should take it as a great sign that he is communicating well with you...😄

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He's actually been super shy and awkward but calls himself out on it haha its kinda cute. Did the whole yawn and arm reach over to get me to cuddle bin... Then proceeded to fall asleep at the movie theater last night.

He likes you.

I’m Cappy sun, with Scorp moon and rising. He’s Virgo sun, with Pluto in the First. I’m also a Virgo stellium, so we have that in common, but I’d not be surprised if your guy has some prominent Pluto. And maybe you guys have some Saturn aspects. Saturn aspects hold you accountable to one another.

Anyway.

Earth signs are always considered to be slow, but we were monogamous super early. When we know, we know.

Anyway again. The parallel that has me responding to you is that, very early on, he was invited to a wedding. It was a weekend long affair and he’d RSVP’d before we were a thing, and so I didn’t go. He wanted to spend the morning with me, before he left. He let me know, numerous times, that they were gonna be in the boonies. If he didn’t respond to a message, it was the service, and not him ignoring me. He messaged me when he was on his way home, to let me know he’d love to hang out with me when he got back...

You’re being included. That’s a good thing. Don’t exploit it, but definitely take it in the spirit it was meant: he likes you. he wants to keep in touch with you. he thinks you’re worth it. If you think he’s worth it, don’t let him down.

Good luck. 😊

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Posted by hippiecrite
He likes you.

I’m Cappy sun, with Scorp moon and rising. He’s Virgo sun, with Pluto in the First. I’m also a Virgo stellium, so we have that in common, but I’d not be surprised if your guy has some prominent Pluto. And maybe you guys have some Saturn aspects. Saturn aspects hold you accountable to one another.

Anyway.

Earth signs are always considered to be slow, but we were monogamous super early. When we know, we know.

Anyway again. The parallel that has me responding to you is that, very early on, he was invited to a wedding. It was a weekend long affair and he’d RSVP’d before we were a thing, and so I didn’t go. He wanted to spend the morning with me, before he left. He let me know, numerous times, that they were gonna be in the boonies. If he didn’t respond to a message, it was the service, and not him ignoring me. He messaged me when he was on his way home, to let me know he’d love to hang out with me when he got back...

You’re being included. That’s a good thing. Don’t exploit it, but definitely take it in the spirit it was meant: he likes you. he wants to keep in touch with you. he thinks you’re worth it. If you think he’s worth it, don’t let him down.

Good luck. 😊

Hi Cheeky! Been awhile, I hope all is well.

You said: "...with Pluto in the First...I'd not be surprised if your guy has some prominent Pluto." Are you saying that prominent Pluto is devoted, likes a lot of communication, or something else? Asking for a friend. 😉

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Hey, you. 😊

Just a hunch, going off OP being a Scorp. They’re supposed to be a decent match for you guys. For me, being Scorp heavy, I’ve noticed a favorable trend with people who have Pluto in the first. Scorp moon or sun and there’s too much distrust there. We’re so much alike that all we see are the potential negatives in one another. Pluto in the First has a depth of understanding the emotional stuff and can hang with it, regardless of sun sign, but doesn’t usually have the other negative hangups. It’s an awesome balance.

With OP and her potential beau tho, I’d bet money on favorable Saturn aspects first and foremost.

Posted by hippiecrite
He likes you.

I’m Cappy sun, with Scorp moon and rising. He’s Virgo sun, with Pluto in the First. I’m also a Virgo stellium, so we have that in common, but I’d not be surprised if your guy has some prominent Pluto. And maybe you guys have some Saturn aspects. Saturn aspects hold you accountable to one another.

Anyway.

Earth signs are always considered to be slow, but we were monogamous super early. When we know, we know.

Anyway again. The parallel that has me responding to you is that, very early on, he was invited to a wedding. It was a weekend long affair and he’d RSVP’d before we were a thing, and so I didn’t go. He wanted to spend the morning with me, before he left. He let me know, numerous times, that they were gonna be in the boonies. If he didn’t respond to a message, it was the service, and not him ignoring me. He messaged me when he was on his way home, to let me know he’d love to hang out with me when he got back...

You’re being included. That’s a good thing. Don’t exploit it, but definitely take it in the spirit it was meant: he likes you. he wants to keep in touch with you. he thinks you’re worth it. If you think he’s worth it, don’t let him down.

Good luck. 😊

All to often many people look to exploit the virgo.

All to often many females come here because of self doubt to ask questions. This self doubt comes from their so called friends and posts on the internet. They believe not in their own soul nor spirit.

When a virgo does tell a woman to do something such has he has done in this case, she usually fails to do it because she questions it.

If said women was told to text or call and did not, then what usage is she when she is really needed? None!

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With OP and her potential beau tho, I’d bet money on favorable Saturn aspects first and foremost.

....so what's delicious about said saturn and a virgo? virgo has the upper hand. 😉

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Posted by hippiecrite
With OP and her potential beau tho, I’d bet money on favorable Saturn aspects first and foremost.

....so what's delicious about said saturn and a virgo? virgo has the upper hand. 😉

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That’s not really how aspects work. Any kind of “upper hand” would totally depend on who’s the Saturn person and who’s the other planet.

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Posted by hippiecrite
He likes you.

I’m Cappy sun, with Scorp moon and rising. He’s Virgo sun, with Pluto in the First. I’m also a Virgo stellium, so we have that in common, but I’d not be surprised if your guy has some prominent Pluto. And maybe you guys have some Saturn aspects. Saturn aspects hold you accountable to one another.

Anyway.

Earth signs are always considered to be slow, but we were monogamous super early. When we know, we know.

Anyway again. The parallel that has me responding to you is that, very early on, he was invited to a wedding. It was a weekend long affair and he’d RSVP’d before we were a thing, and so I didn’t go. He wanted to spend the morning with me, before he left. He let me know, numerous times, that they were gonna be in the boonies. If he didn’t respond to a message, it was the service, and not him ignoring me. He messaged me when he was on his way home, to let me know he’d love to hang out with me when he got back...

You’re being included. That’s a good thing. Don’t exploit it, but definitely take it in the spirit it was meant: he likes you. he wants to keep in touch with you. he thinks you’re worth it. If you think he’s worth it, don’t let him down.

Good luck. 😊

Hi Cheeky! Been awhile, I hope all is well.

You said: "...with Pluto in the First...I'd not be surprised if your guy has some prominent Pluto." Are you saying that prominent Pluto is devoted, likes a lot of communication, or something else? Asking for a friend. 😉

Hey, you. 😊

Just a hunch, going off OP being a Scorp. They’re supposed to be a decent match for you guys. For me, being Scorp heavy, I’ve noticed a favorable trend with people who have Pluto in the first. Scorp moon or sun and there’s too much distrust there. We’re so much alike that all we see are the potential negatives in one another. Pluto in the First has a depth of understanding the emotional stuff and can hang with it, regardless of sun sign, but doesn’t usually have the other negative hangups. It’s an awesome balance.

So you were speaking to their compatibility, not his behavior? *slaps friend*

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Ha. Yep.

She seems a little astonished that things are moving as quickly as they are and sort of doubting his sincerity. I’m trying to give her some stuff to look for in his/their charts to give her an idea of why I think he’s legit.

*slaps magma’s friend*

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Posted by hippiecrite
He likes you.

I’m Cappy sun, with Scorp moon and rising. He’s Virgo sun, with Pluto in the First. I’m also a Virgo stellium, so we have that in common, but I’d not be surprised if your guy has some prominent Pluto. And maybe you guys have some Saturn aspects. Saturn aspects hold you accountable to one another.

Anyway.

Earth signs are always considered to be slow, but we were monogamous super early. When we know, we know.

Anyway again. The parallel that has me responding to you is that, very early on, he was invited to a wedding. It was a weekend long affair and he’d RSVP’d before we were a thing, and so I didn’t go. He wanted to spend the morning with me, before he left. He let me know, numerous times, that they were gonna be in the boonies. If he didn’t respond to a message, it was the service, and not him ignoring me. He messaged me when he was on his way home, to let me know he’d love to hang out with me when he got back...

You’re being included. That’s a good thing. Don’t exploit it, but definitely take it in the spirit it was meant: he likes you. he wants to keep in touch with you. he thinks you’re worth it. If you think he’s worth it, don’t let him down.

Good luck. 😊

Hi Cheeky! Been awhile, I hope all is well.

You said: "...with Pluto in the First...I'd not be surprised if your guy has some prominent Pluto." Are you saying that prominent Pluto is devoted, likes a lot of communication, or something else? Asking for a friend. 😉

Hey, you. 😊

Just a hunch, going off OP being a Scorp. They’re supposed to be a decent match for you guys. For me, being Scorp heavy, I’ve noticed a favorable trend with people who have Pluto in the first. Scorp moon or sun and there’s too much distrust there. We’re so much alike that all we see are the potential negatives in one another. Pluto in the First has a depth of understanding the emotional stuff and can hang with it, regardless of sun sign, but doesn’t usually have the other negative hangups. It’s an awesome balance.

So you were speaking to their compatibility, not his behavior? *slaps friend*

Ha. Yep.

She seems a little astonished that things are moving as quickly as they are and sort of doubting his sincerity. I’m trying to give her some stuff to look for in his/their charts to give her an idea of why I think he’s legit.

*slaps magma’s friend*

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That's exactly it, I figured he'd want to move slow... He wanted me to "spend" the night last night and we only just shared I first kiss. I was a good little girl and went home haha

Our Saturn aspects are really good I checked them out a couple weeks ago lol

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Posted by hippiecrite
With OP and her potential beau tho, I’d bet money on favorable Saturn aspects first and foremost.

....so what's delicious about said saturn and a virgo? virgo has the upper hand. 😉

That’s not really how aspects work. Any kind of “upper hand” would totally depend on who’s the Saturn person and who’s the other planet.

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...but you know who always wins...

Virgo....He got you right? He won dear. haha those cap women....

Virgo controls and commands the weather after all. 😉 Love those cap women!

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Posted by hippiecrite
He likes you.

I’m Cappy sun, with Scorp moon and rising. He’s Virgo sun, with Pluto in the First. I’m also a Virgo stellium, so we have that in common, but I’d not be surprised if your guy has some prominent Pluto. And maybe you guys have some Saturn aspects. Saturn aspects hold you accountable to one another.

Anyway.

Earth signs are always considered to be slow, but we were monogamous super early. When we know, we know.

Anyway again. The parallel that has me responding to you is that, very early on, he was invited to a wedding. It was a weekend long affair and he’d RSVP’d before we were a thing, and so I didn’t go. He wanted to spend the morning with me, before he left. He let me know, numerous times, that they were gonna be in the boonies. If he didn’t respond to a message, it was the service, and not him ignoring me. He messaged me when he was on his way home, to let me know he’d love to hang out with me when he got back...

You’re being included. That’s a good thing. Don’t exploit it, but definitely take it in the spirit it was meant: he likes you. he wants to keep in touch with you. he thinks you’re worth it. If you think he’s worth it, don’t let him down.

Good luck. 😊

Hi Cheeky! Been awhile, I hope all is well.

You said: "...with Pluto in the First...I'd not be surprised if your guy has some prominent Pluto." Are you saying that prominent Pluto is devoted, likes a lot of communication, or something else? Asking for a friend. 😉

Hey, you. 😊

Just a hunch, going off OP being a Scorp. They’re supposed to be a decent match for you guys. For me, being Scorp heavy, I’ve noticed a favorable trend with people who have Pluto in the first. Scorp moon or sun and there’s too much distrust there. We’re so much alike that all we see are the potential negatives in one another. Pluto in the First has a depth of understanding the emotional stuff and can hang with it, regardless of sun sign, but doesn’t usually have the other negative hangups. It’s an awesome balance.

So you were speaking to their compatibility, not his behavior? *slaps friend*

Ha. Yep.

She seems a little astonished that things are moving as quickly as they are and sort of doubting his sincerity. I’m trying to give her some stuff to look for in his/their charts to give her an idea of why I think he’s legit.

*slaps magma’s friend*

That's exactly it, I figured he'd want to move slow... He wanted me to "spend" the night last night and we only just shared I first kiss. I was a good little girl and went home haha

Our Saturn aspects are really good I checked them out a couple weeks ago lol

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So what are they comprised of?

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With OP and her potential beau tho, I’d bet money on favorable Saturn aspects first and foremost.

....so what's delicious about said saturn and a virgo? virgo has the upper hand. 😉

That’s not really how aspects work. Any kind of “upper hand” would totally depend on who’s the Saturn person and who’s the other planet.

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I could go into details of how satrun dominate women try to control a virgo but it would be like writing a book. It will never work out in the womens favor.

You never want the wind of a virgo to blow from the west and that's what happens when you try to control him, it ends badly. The woman may get by doing it a few times but in the end disaster will come. The wind will blow from the west and north and destruction comes from that in great amounts.

The saturn dominate person is never patient. The ever so patient virgo wins a well planed war way ahead in advance. For every one move she (saturn) has be sure he has 70 moves ahead.

Saturn can win if she lets the wind blow and be patient. What most saturn women do not know is they have won to start with and then resort to control and have lost when they have already won his heart and soul.

The virgo never resorts to games and manipulation until the woman does first.

We want an update @scorpio1109! How's it going with the Virgo?

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We want an update @scorpio1109! How's it going with the Virgo?

Oops, freudian slip. I meant @scorpio1108. Must be the two 11/09 scorps I dated on my mind...

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Posted by hippiecrite
With OP and her potential beau tho, I’d bet money on favorable Saturn aspects first and foremost.

....so what's delicious about said saturn and a virgo? virgo has the upper hand.

That’s not really how aspects work. Any kind of “upper hand” would totally depend on who’s the Saturn person and who’s the other planet.

I could go into details of how satrun dominate women try to control a virgo but it would be like writing a book. It will never work out in the womens favor.



You never want the wind of a virgo to blow from the west and that's what happens when you try to control him, it ends badly. The woman may get by doing it a few times but in the end disaster will come. The wind will blow from the west and north and destruction comes from that in great amounts.



The saturn dominate person is never patient. The ever so patient virgo wins a well planed war way ahead in advance. For every one move she (saturn) has be sure he has 70 moves ahead.



Saturn can win if she lets the wind blow and be patient. What most saturn women do not know is they have won to start with and then resort to control and have lost when they have already won his heart and soul.



The virgo never resorts to games and manipulation until the woman does first.



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What if your Saturn and MC is in Virgo? Lol ... I attract a lot of Virgos and I feel this is why. click to expand

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His response has some plot holes in it. Good guy, and a smart one too, but his answers have been skewed since he got board burnt by a Cappie lady a while back.