Virgo man vs Leo woman

Honestly, I don't think anyone on here can give you anything you might be looking for (an answer)... I only say that because you know him better than any one of us on here, so any comments or advice is pure speculation, your thoughts would probably be closer to the truth.

IMHO, some time apart would do you both good. Just so he can have time to sort out his shit and you figure out yours. Honestly, wanting more break when you already have the distance, as you said, does not sound good.

Thank you btw. I think out of all the women that come on here for advice you have been by far one of the most logical and realistic one, a good strength needed in the woman community.

I really do hope everything works out for you!

Posted by leogirl84
For all your virgo men out there, I need your advice!

Been dating my virgo for over 5 years, life hasn't been kind to us we had to do the LDR very early on in our relationship, we always keep in touch as much as possible. ( we talk daily and try to see each other often at least once a month ) it's not ideal but right now that's all we've got. I was planning to do the big move but I suddenly feel like he's distant/cold and I don't think I can move all the way for him if I feel he's not into it 100% .

I asked him what he needs and he says he needs a break.
Funny because we're pretty far from each other so I'm trying not to feel insulted and I gave him what he wanted, I asked if we're still together and he says yes, he just needs time and that talking daily has been put a strain on his already very demanding schedule. He has a shitty job right now and it keeps him busy/stressed. So I did just that.

The problem is that I know my virgo, I know something more is bothering him but I just can't get him to spit it out. We've been fighting a lot lately ( prior the break ) and I know it's taking a toll on our relationship. 5 years is a long time and I love this man but I won't stay if I feel the love is returned.

Ideas, opinions? Thanks!

So in five years you've only been together/seen each other 60 days total (give or take) (once a month). You wonder why you're fighting? Why only once a month? It's not going to work or get any better unless you see each other two - three times a month. (different times..not a weekend) Why would a woman jump to move to a man when he hasn't even suggested it? Let alone, you really don't know each other unless you are under the same roof or same town together. You might want to rethink your life path here.

I am in a very similar position. Only that we've only been apart 2 weeks, and he's already behaving odd. Not in a 'I want to end things' way, but I definitely know something is up! He just won't spit it out, and gets insulted and defensive if I push the topic. He thinks I'm being overly sensitive, but I'm pretty perceptive, and I know him. Its sooo frustrating!