virgo men what r ur thoughts about gemini women?

virgo men what r ur thoughts about gemini women?

In what sense?

One gemini I know/knew was really into me because we had awesome rapport. It's not a horrible combination but I felt annoyed by the pushy attitude of the gemini. They can also be very judgmental and THINK they know you without seeing the bigger picture.
Didn't work out because she had kids and I couldn't deal with that at that point in my life.

Posted by sv
One gemini I know/knew was really into me because we had awesome rapport. It's not a horrible combination but I felt annoyed by the pushy attitude of the gemini. They can also be very judgmental and THINK they know you without seeing the bigger picture.
Didn't work out because she had kids and I couldn't deal with that at that point in my life.

"They can also be very judgmental and THINK they know you without seeing the bigger picture."

Interesting, because your definition of a gemini actually describes my experience with most Virgo Men/Women. Not only did they do the normal criticizing/judging my thoughts and actions, but they never gave me the opportunity to show them my entire self. It was if they saw only what they wanted to see before they could find a fault.

Most Virgo's have been nice on the surface, but once they get going, it's as if they would rather size you up and put you into a little box rather than really get to know the "real" you. And if in turn you size them up, they got defensive.

I know a gemini woman who married a virgo man. They've been together for 35 years, which always amazes me because they seldom do activities together. When she travels to another state to visit her daughter, he rarely goes. She does her activities at home and he does his. They are both retired, so I'd think they'd want to spend more quality time with other now that their kids are gone. But it's just the opposite.

As a gem, I love to be independent at times, but also want to share my life with those I love. Exclusion from a spouse or family just seems unnatural.

I m a virgo & dated a gem for 2years. best 2years of my life. But she broke up with me ova sumting dat neva happend. I neva cheated but she chose to believe her Aries sister who was also into me. We occasionally kissed after that but we cant get ova da fact dat we broke up ova nothing. Gems are good caring pple but they want to control a virgo which virgo dnt like. The sex was great though. She kept wanting me in dat department. I enjoyed the passion

They're really outgoing and social and that for me was difficult to handle. What Ixion said was also correct, it was always that she knew what was the right thing to do and what I did wrong although she didn't analyze me that much or even really know me. As mentioned before the rapport was awesome though, she told me she didn't have it with anyone else and really neither did I. I agree that the sex was good and the physical attraction is definitely there for us virgos.

Posted by Ixion120
I had a few close gems... I can understand sv's sentiments though. Though the Gems I knew were always crazily attractive to me, and were fun to be around, when they were set in their opinions that was it, they left no room for disagreement which I found to be mildly off-putting... but I got/get along with them far more than not.

@Gem64 I think a Virgo's categorization of you is largely fluid...though we do compartmentalize to varying extents we also do strive to be as accurate as possible in how we view you... If you have the care to teach us about you, I believe as a Virgo we will usually have the care to learn.

Ixion120

had the Virgos I dealt with been more like you, it would have been so refreshing. I often found that once I did begin "teaching" them about me, it turned them off. It was if they didn't have time to deal with someone who had too many flaws. It's possible that's not what they really were thinking, but that was what they projected and what I usually perceived.

Posted by sv
They're really outgoing and social and that for me was difficult to handle. What Ixion said was also correct, it was always that she knew what was the right thing to do and what I did wrong although she didn't analyze me that much or even really know me. As mentioned before the rapport was awesome though, she told me she didn't have it with anyone else and really neither did I. I agree that the sex was good and the physical attraction is definitely there for us virgos.

SV

NOT all Gems are REALLY outgoing and social. I can be outgoing at given times when it calls for it. But it's more about starting up a conversation or instigating a project. We are controlled by Mercury and embrace communication. However, it's never been about pushing others to listen to me or get attention.

I do enjoy speaking with people who interest me as well as topics that intrigue me. However, I'm not into going out with others and being a socialite.
I value my independence and quiet time. I enjoy doing things with friends and family on occasion. But i've never been the life of the party nor would I want to be.