Virgo Sun/Libra Venus

Maybe she's shy?

i'm a virgo with libra venus. and have/had something with a pisces boy. if you look back on my history, i am very open on how i feel about the situation... both good and bad. i can say it's been such an emotional trip for me and even after 7 months, i'm still not sure where i stand with him. but i think this is the case with opposite signs... not everything is clear cut.

similarly, it kind of boggles my mind how you say you honestly have no clue how she feels about you. speaking personally, if i offer to cook for a guy and buy him things, i definitely really like him; and in my eyes, i think doing those kind of things is more apparent of my feelings for you than verbally telling you. not only is it not my style , but i think showing is more meaningful and affectionate.

the thing about turning off video chat doesn't seem like a big thing.. to be honest with you, i've never been more shy with anyone than with this pisces boy... so video chatting with him would get me nervous too. also.. you mention that she's constantly initiating convos... well maybe she's just as unsure about how YOU feel about her as you are unsure about how she feels for you... maybe because you rarely initiate things and always leaving it up to her? i don't mind being the initiator.. but sometimes it'd be nice if the other person does it too.... libra balance you know.

Posted by CluelessCancer
Bloodflow that was a really sweet way you expressed yourself.

Sheez i didn't realize Pisces men were such turds, thank god i never dated one.

aw thanks... yeah he's kinda turdy sometimes 😉

Posted by ZQKES
Clarification: She said that she'd cook for me, yet each time I ask her when she's ready she says that she doesn't have the ingredients to do so. As for initiating conversation, that only happens roughly once in a week - I usually do the initiating but she's quite responsive.

To be perfectly and brutally honest: I have begun to think that she likes me, but I just want to be perfectly, 100% sure before so that I don't screw anything up as I'm quite afraid that perhaps I might just be seeing things the way I want them to be. Therefore, I'm here asking for what I hope to be unbiased opinions as I hide behind this illusion of false anonymity.

key words of yours: "quite afraid", "false anonymity", "have begun to think". sounds like the two of you are really passive.. hinting at things instead of asserting things. try asserting yourself with her. maybe you should offer to buy those ingredients if she says she doesn't have them next time. that way she won't feel like she's putting too much vulnerability too soon without you putting in some too. (cooking for a guy is a big deal for me) balance!