paxtheoria31
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Is it any wonder why so many virgo men are loners or unhappy with their lives.
Reading a man justify having a lonely existence is just sad.
Reading a man justify having a lonely existence is just sad.
Posted by gemini64
Is it any wonder why so many virgo men are loners or unhappy with their lives.
Reading a man justify having a lonely existence is just sad.
AGREED!
And because paxtheoria31 is a Virgo male he MUST know exactly what's going on on this guy's mind regarding the relationship....
Tipical Virgo know it all behavior *rolls eyes*
Tipical Virgo know it all behavior *rolls eyes*
So ya ok, I wasn't going to reply but no.
Just because a virgo man is by himself in a particular moment of his life doesn't mean it has to be an unhappy time. Being by myself surely gets things done more efficiently while a lot less complication can occur in that time. This results in an easy-going environment where everything can be kept in check and under control and tremendous progress can be made. Obviously this cannot be in every aspect of life so I know when one must be of company to others.
And also, no I don't know exactly what's going on in anyones else's head, but through analytical observation and reasoning, the matter at hand can be seen clearly. Now, I happen to have that skill set through learning and I suppose astrology, so it is easy for me to see through all the chaos and misleads that other fail to recognize as distractions.
I suppose some people are just not built to see the big picture. But that is fine, I'm sure billions of other people wouldn't know any better as well.
Just because a virgo man is by himself in a particular moment of his life doesn't mean it has to be an unhappy time. Being by myself surely gets things done more efficiently while a lot less complication can occur in that time. This results in an easy-going environment where everything can be kept in check and under control and tremendous progress can be made. Obviously this cannot be in every aspect of life so I know when one must be of company to others.
And also, no I don't know exactly what's going on in anyones else's head, but through analytical observation and reasoning, the matter at hand can be seen clearly. Now, I happen to have that skill set through learning and I suppose astrology, so it is easy for me to see through all the chaos and misleads that other fail to recognize as distractions.
I suppose some people are just not built to see the big picture. But that is fine, I'm sure billions of other people wouldn't know any better as well.
Posted by aqulibiniPosted by CoCoaPosted by aqulibini
Cocoa if your question has been answered do not bother to reply anymore to this thread as it will encourage negative energies brought by a couple of person(s) lacking social and communication skills as well as empathy. I don't understand why such people comment when they have no intention of helping..no i think i understand. Anyways..
But if you think its not answered then i'd say you seriously need to stop bothering yourself so much about this because its really not worth it. Its a natural human reaction to the loss of a very important loved one..don't make the mistake of seeing it as a virgo thing...yes if he had said that during a time when there was no big event happening in his life it was justified for you to be confused..but i really don't see y u r over reacting at his text when it clearly is in a tragic context and it doesn't hint at leaving you forever.
Idk you might have had some such traumatic experience in past which maybe causing fear of abandonment and situation is triggering that fear..but this seems to me a very natural behavior. And instead of focusing on this its necessary to focus on what he is going through at present and your support for him. thats whats important.
I wish I had read this before my response to P-Angel...lol, thank you so much for the kind words and for being a mature adult that understands what it means to be human. I honestly don't think I did anything to cause his distance and coldness, as you stated he has suffered a get loss and has chosen to go it alone for now. I have gotten some good answers from people such as yourself, thank you so much. I am going to end it here as you are correct about the negativity and lack of empathy shown by a few of the posters. I was really intrigued but the post I had read before I joined the site but now I see some just come here the get their ish off..
Don't take it personally..his msg is a reaction to his mother's death..not regarding you in any way..just follow what he texted you..have patience and keep strong..wait for him to come back...meanwhile distract yourself and don't obsess over him...remember what was your aim before him..he is not the end.click to expand
Thank you sweet
Posted by sunnyvirgo83
I have read a bunch of butter on this site. P-Angel you are nothing but a mother tree-trunker. I really think your are the rudest b*** I have ever ecounterd in my life. How dare you say that negative stuff when death is involved. How self centered are you to make this whole thread about you. And if you and CluelessCancer have some beef do NOT put it on a thread when death is involved. You are a terrible person....I am so discusted in this thread and the member's here bashing each other. What the hell you guys don't care about the people here all you care is about bashing people and abusing people. P-Angel all what you did was cyber bullied this poor woman when her desperate time of need. This site is about helping people. I see about % 25 fighting and bickering because you must be right and I see the other half is actually trying to help.
Take my advice from a real virgo. When I am hurting or anything, I withdraw. I don't want to be around people...or sometimes I want to be surrounded by people depending on what it is. Just do something nice for him. Send him a friendly text saying "thinking of you" "praying for you" whatever the case maybe. Just don't over do the smothering thing. Call him and check up on him...Virgo's like that if their friends are making sure they are okay. It'll be a good idea. Don't talk about dating or omg I miss you, just be concerned for the death's sake. Be there for him!!!!
As for the rest of you, for shame....what a bunch of jerk-offs...and for the good ones who have tried to help, kudos.
Thank you so much for your advice and kind words...I have sent texts from time to time and get very generic responses...he posted something on Facebook today that makes me think he feels my actions have not been enough... Here goes
"Love is the by-product of Loyalty and Commitment!!! Love is so relative and that is why the majority of people never understand or experience it. See Loyalty and Commitment are a "what you do speaks so loudly can't hear a word your saying" kind of human emotion(s) and it takes a lot of thought and reflection for a while to become loyal and committed. Also, Loyalty requires 'maturity' and 'integrity' plus Commitment requires 'patience' and 'understanding'. Values you have to work on to develop and possess!!! So if we look for a person to be loyal and committed then a natural by-product of the morals f
from those requirements will help you to experience "REAL LOVE" in a very non relative way. In my opinion...
---Hopeless Romantic,
---Hopeless Romantic,
Hopeless romantic it is 😢
Just why can't more people understand it, its sooo simple.
And yes, keep posting what he says cause it helps us better in understanding the situation.
Obviously from that quote, your action HAVE been enough, its just the wrong god damn action woman.
ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORD, all these texts are just silly words.
Discover yourself first, then make a REAL EFFORT if you want this.
Just why can't more people understand it, its sooo simple.
And yes, keep posting what he says cause it helps us better in understanding the situation.
Obviously from that quote, your action HAVE been enough, its just the wrong god damn action woman.
ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORD, all these texts are just silly words.
Discover yourself first, then make a REAL EFFORT if you want this.
I know myself very well.....the last face to face encounter with this man made me feel as though I was a stranger or alien from another country, he was cold and very distant. Told me that he was OKAY BY HIMSELF RIGHT NOW...and that he is TOO OLD TO BE LIVING IN THE FAST LANE. I asked to take him out and be with him on his birthday...he said I don't know what I am doing, I may spend it with my brothers(his close friends) or his father. I asked him to let me know and he never called me and when I did reach out to wish him a happy birthday he said thanks. When someone gives you your belongings back and says they want to be all new....why chase them? I reached out a few times via text and all I get is very dry responses...I say I am praying for you and I get back thanks...VIRGOS ARE A WALKING, TALKING CONTRADICTION....I CAN'T READ MINDS and since we were fairly new to each other I was at a loss for what his true character/behavior actually is...I felt I would be subjected to more rejection and coldness if I kept pursuing him as I did before...I WAS OPEN and he KNEW IT! He sees a picture of me and a celebrity friend of mine on Facebook and then post this....he throw me back in the water, I have not heard from him in a month other than a dry AZZ text. Come on this has got to be some game......REALLY!!!!
You really just don't understand. There is a difference in chasing (pursuing) a virgo man and what he wants from you, which is to give a real damn effort into it.
A relationship with a virgo is not your best bet if you are a type of person who are reluctant in life/decisions. You ASKED if you can see him on his birthday, you ASKED how his day was, you keep talking but these don't mean anything. He might as well program a computer to talk to. You need to put an effort into it - which translates to actions. Don't play it safe and keep talking breezy.
That quote above was directed to you, but was not intended to be for you and him in that same sentence. It was intended for you to wake up and understand that you need to put more EFFORT in the stuff that you do. This is the "Value(s) you have to work on to develop and possess!!!". You failed the test and its time to move on, he is giving you some tips (lessons) that he observed in you and you might as well admit it and use it for your next endeavors.
A relationship with a virgo is not your best bet if you are a type of person who are reluctant in life/decisions. You ASKED if you can see him on his birthday, you ASKED how his day was, you keep talking but these don't mean anything. He might as well program a computer to talk to. You need to put an effort into it - which translates to actions. Don't play it safe and keep talking breezy.
That quote above was directed to you, but was not intended to be for you and him in that same sentence. It was intended for you to wake up and understand that you need to put more EFFORT in the stuff that you do. This is the "Value(s) you have to work on to develop and possess!!!". You failed the test and its time to move on, he is giving you some tips (lessons) that he observed in you and you might as well admit it and use it for your next endeavors.
Posted by paxtheoria31
You really just don't understand. There is a difference in chasing (pursuing) a virgo man and what he wants from you, which is to give a real damn effort into it.
A relationship with a virgo is not your best bet if you are a type of person who are reluctant in life/decisions. You ASKED if you can see him on his birthday, you ASKED how his day was, you keep talking but these don't mean anything. He might as well program a computer to talk to. You need to put an effort into it - which translates to actions. Don't play it safe and keep talking breezy.
That quote above was directed to you, but was not intended to be for you and him in that same sentence. It was intended for you to wake up and understand that you need to put more EFFORT in the stuff that you do. This is the "Value(s) you have to work on to develop and possess!!!". You failed the test and its time to move on, he is giving you some tips (lessons) that he observed in you and you might as well admit it and use it for your next endeavors.
EFFORT SOUNDS LIKE CHASE ME....LETS PLAY PUSH PULL.....GAMES!!!! I am too GROWN for this. I treated this man like a tree trunking KING! IF THAT WAS NOT GOOD ENOUGH...,Mr. NEXT will LOVE IT!!!!
"This is the "Value(s) you have to work on to develop and possess!!!". You failed the test and its time to move on, he is giving you some tips (lessons) that he observed in you and you might as well admit it and use it for your next endeavors. "
Are you kidding me—? He is 52, a grown man with children, he can deal with the death of his mother any way he wants and you have to respect that but he returned your stuff and hasn't made any effort on maintaining the communication in spite of you trying, is time to move on with your wonderful life, if he comes back then uou'll decide what to do.
"The values you need to work on to develop and posses"... pfffffftt believe me they are NOT worth the effort....
Are you kidding me—? He is 52, a grown man with children, he can deal with the death of his mother any way he wants and you have to respect that but he returned your stuff and hasn't made any effort on maintaining the communication in spite of you trying, is time to move on with your wonderful life, if he comes back then uou'll decide what to do.
"The values you need to work on to develop and posses"... pfffffftt believe me they are NOT worth the effort....
Posted by CoCoa
Told me that he was OKAY BY HIMSELF RIGHT NOW...and that he is TOO OLD TO BE LIVING IN THE FAST LANE.
... he said I don't know what I am doing, I may spend it with my brothers(his close friends) or his father.
I asked him to let me know and he never called me and when I did reach out to wish him a happy birthday he said thanks.
.... and all I get is very dry responses
.... I say I am praying for you
That is the second time you said in here that you told him you are praying for him ...
He tells you he's stepping back a bit, he distances himself, he makes sure you understand that he's not ready to go forward with you .. and your response to him is to tell him you are praying for him ... how arrogant.
I pick up on it in here ... I can imagine how much he picks up on in RL. Like I said earlier, as you do is expect him to come and fix your feelings for you, because you're too weak, apparently.
I mean, who tells a guy she's praying for him, when he decides his life without her? .... as if you are all that.
wake up call, if you were all that ... then you wouldn't be in here trying to cling on to a man who doesn't want you ... only the pathetic does that, and trust me, a person who is pathetic isn't all that.
yet, you tell him you are praying for him, everytime he tries to tell you he needs to be away from you.
that's writing on the wall .... however, it is realized that there are only a few in dxp wise enough to actually get that, and you definitely aren't one of them.
I have been on other message boards where cyber bullying and personal attacks where a regular thing but P-Angel must get off on being EVIL....I care for this guy deeply, I am not stuck on anyway and am moving on with my life...his post on Facebook yesterday seemed to be some subliminal BS...he is a poor communicator and you deem me as the DEVIL....I understand he is grieving but it seem like he wants me to hurt because he is hurting. When his mother died my mother had just had major back surgery and I was a caretaker as well, I was trying to ensure they were both well cared for I had even taken time off work to be with her during the day...my sister was there at night. And be there for him at night....so what I became flustered one day, I am human too. From that day he turned on me and was never the same....great guy right.....RIGHT— Everyone knew I was into him...it was like a switch was clicked and he turned OFF...
Posted by sunnyvirgo83
She is drama don't listen to her....the good ones are lostinMyMind, KingVirgo, PotHeadVirgo, Mr.Defense, CluelessCancer, Gemini61— If I have not mentioned any other those are at the top of my head.
Thanks! Good to know.
I sent him a very nice text today and got a response. It seems he is in good spirits and that makes me happy. I know he is grieving deeply and that me or thoughts of a relationship are the furthest things from his mind. I honestly just want him to be okay and I know he has been spending much of his time alone other than throwing himself into work. I hope to see him again one day soon.
Posted by Dafna79
"This is the "Value(s) you have to work on to develop and possess!!!". You failed the test and its time to move on, he is giving you some tips (lessons) that he observed in you and you might as well admit it and use it for your next endeavors. "
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Seriously CoCoa, you might love this guy, and I can appreciate that. We've all been there, done that. But the guy isn't worth your time. He doesn't respect your time, effort and heartfelt actions. I get where you are coming from. He doesn't. He's a virgo. Trust me when I say, MOST male virgo's don't get where you and I are coming from. It's how they're wired. And there is NOTHING in this world that will change that fact. For another virgo guy on this board to say things are going downhill for you because "you failed his test".....WTF? Last time I checked, relationships were not SAT scores. Relationships are give and take, and about kindness, sincerity, communication, affection and loving actions. It's not a STUPID test.
THIS is why he will never reciprocate how you and I would because he doesn't view you on the same level....a mature, affectionate, intelligent and thoughtful woman. He views you as something to "observe and dissect" until he can deem you worthy of his valued time or not. It's sad, but it's pretty much how they think. You and I are emotional beings. He OTOH, will compartmentalize everything to the point of knowing when to say what, when to act on something, and how to view everything around him. He will do this on HIS time, not yours.
I've had a number of male virgo's in my life. I can tell you point blank, they are perfectionists to the core and VERY discriminating. You do ONE thing wrong, or in their eyes, is wrong, and you're off the list. You can not please these guys. They will try to change you. I know, I was on the receiving end of this crap several times. These guys can be extremely arrogant. They don't consider themselves arrogant. It's all about making you PERFECT in their eyes. The sad thing is you and I don't expect them to be perfect. And so, these guys often lose out on a chance to have a very loving and fulfilling relationship.
You have a ton going for you. Get closure with this guy. Don't settle for someone who looks at you as a "test" and not a beautiful, intelligent, loving woman.
gemini64,
I appreciate your kind words and human outlook on this. I have gotten closure and am moving on with life. I know there was nothing I did that should have cause such an abrupt about face in our relationship. I know I am a very good and WORTHY woman to have a man that will appreciate my kindness, intelligence and affection. Looking back he was always very guarded, he could never be the man I would want long-term unless he opened up which we know is hard for a Virgo to do. Moving on is the best thing I can do so that the man I am truly meant to be with will find me. I will always care for him and am Blessed the God chose me to help him through the passing of his mother. My reason and purpose in his life is over and I did my job very well. I won't settle EVER!
I appreciate your kind words and human outlook on this. I have gotten closure and am moving on with life. I know there was nothing I did that should have cause such an abrupt about face in our relationship. I know I am a very good and WORTHY woman to have a man that will appreciate my kindness, intelligence and affection. Looking back he was always very guarded, he could never be the man I would want long-term unless he opened up which we know is hard for a Virgo to do. Moving on is the best thing I can do so that the man I am truly meant to be with will find me. I will always care for him and am Blessed the God chose me to help him through the passing of his mother. My reason and purpose in his life is over and I did my job very well. I won't settle EVER!
Here is my chart..
Me:
Rising Sign is in 07 Degrees Pisces
Sun is in 12 Degrees Gemini.
Moon is in 08 Degrees Scorpio.
Mercury is in 22 Degrees Taurus.
Venus is in 19 Degrees Taurus.
Mars is in 00 Degrees Virgo.
Jupiter is in 13 Degrees Aries.
Saturn is in 23 Degrees Aquarius.
Uranus is in 01 Degrees Virgo.
Pluto is in 09 Degrees Virgo.
N. Node is in 21 Degrees Cancer.
LOTS OF TAURUS AND VIRGO IN ME....HUMMMMM...
Me:
Rising Sign is in 07 Degrees Pisces
Sun is in 12 Degrees Gemini.
Moon is in 08 Degrees Scorpio.
Mercury is in 22 Degrees Taurus.
Venus is in 19 Degrees Taurus.
Mars is in 00 Degrees Virgo.
Jupiter is in 13 Degrees Aries.
Saturn is in 23 Degrees Aquarius.
Uranus is in 01 Degrees Virgo.
Pluto is in 09 Degrees Virgo.
N. Node is in 21 Degrees Cancer.
LOTS OF TAURUS AND VIRGO IN ME....HUMMMMM...
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by CoCoa
I know myself very well.....the last face to face encounter with this man made me feel as though I was a stranger or alien from another country, he was cold and very distant. Told me that he was OKAY BY HIMSELF RIGHT NOW...and that he is TOO OLD TO BE LIVING IN THE FAST LANE. I asked to take him out and be with him on his birthday...he said I don't know what I am doing, I may spend it with my brothers(his close friends) or his father. I asked him to let me know and he never called me and when I did reach out to wish him a happy birthday he said thanks. When someone gives you your belongings back and says they want to be all new....why chase them? I reached out a few times via text and all I get is very dry responses...I say I am praying for you and I get back thanks...VIRGOS ARE A WALKING, TALKING CONTRADICTION....I CAN'T READ MINDS and since we were fairly new to each other I was at a loss for what his true character/behavior actually is...I felt I would be subjected to more rejection and coldness if I kept pursuing him as I did before...I WAS OPEN and he KNEW IT! He sees a picture of me and a celebrity friend of mine on Facebook and then post this....he throw me back in the water, I have not heard from him in a month other than a dry AZZ text. Come on this has got to be some game......REALLY!!!!
hahhahahahhahahahhahahah this is CLASSIC VIRGO, welcome to the dark side, i'm just flabbergasted it's a 50 year old doing this...damn so they never grow the fuk up.
SMH. I feel for you. What a pitiful man. So weak and he thinks he's strong and analytic, well let his analytics keep his cold heart warm at night.
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Hey CC.....he is such a contradiction, telling me to let my swag show and then getting pissed by a picture he saw....just because I looked happy without me...so sad. I want a consistent, stable and loving man in my life....the is BS in his 59's.
Posted by VirgoFlirtPosted by CoCoa
My Virguy texted this to me after pushing me away when his mom died...HELP! It has been a month now and I miss him like crazy.
"You are my deep down inside... You are a beautiful woman with a lot of class... I'm hurting inside and need some time stay strong and brilliant you are it.....Let your swag show!!!"
Not one person has yet addressed your problem....How amazing is that?
If the dude did not want you around him when his mom died, he wants nothing to do with you at all.
If he had of wanted you around, then you would not be asking wtf happened.
It still does not matter about the texts from the after effects of it. If he would of cared .001 % you would have been there with him.
It is not that you are confused, it is the case of him playing you with the little pretty fake message and your falling for it...which is so sad.click to expand
Virgoflirt ....you my want to read my entire first post....I was there when his mother died, the viewing, funeral and repass....he flacked a month later after giving mr gifts of appreciation and wining and dining me....if I was played....he sure spent a lot of money to do so....LOTS!
CC,
I am trying to figure our this chart thing, can you tell me what some of it men by what I posted?
I am trying to figure our this chart thing, can you tell me what some of it men by what I posted?
Posted by VirgoFlirt
"Virgoflirt ....you my want to read my entire first post....I was there when his mother died, the viewing, funeral and repass....he flacked a month later after giving mr gifts of appreciation and wining and dining me....if I was played....he sure spent a lot of money to do so....LOTS!"
I read it, the whole thing 3 times.....then just again.
The keywords here are ''''Pushed YOU Away.'''' My answer still stands the same. Money has not one thing to do with it at all. I could spend several thousand on a person and dump her in an hours time and not bat one eye about or shed a tear. The money means nothing here. Read my reply to CC.
Okay I saw it...so I got played, I SEE!
CC....I met his father, he looks just like the man but said they were never close.
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by CoCoa
CC....I met his father, he looks just like the man but said they were never close.
the guys who don't have a good relationship with their father or whose father is mia always seem to be a little messed up from what' i've witnessed. Both Virgos that were interested in me:
one had a father who was abusive and i think died of Aids
the most recent one his father died in combat when he was very young.click to expand
I can see that be a problem, especially with my guy who is the only male child of seven.
Posted by CoCoa
I sent him a very nice text today and got a response. It seems he is in good spirits and that makes me happy. I know he is grieving deeply and that me or thoughts of a relationship are the furthest things from his mind. I honestly just want him to be okay and I know he has been spending much of his time alone other than throwing himself into work. I hope to see him again one day soon.
Patience will pay off. If you don't want to be patient, can refrain from placing demands, and keeping it light, you need to move on. You should be keeping yourself busy, because that will kill the obsession you have for the desire of him jumping right back in on your watch. Chill.
If you feel like he's playing you, do not waste any more energy on him. If the real issue is he's not doing what you want when you want, trust me, he won't in fact will distance even more.
If you want a direct answer to your concerns ask him directly. If he still says he needs space, give it to him and move on.
If you want a direct answer to your concerns ask him directly. If he still says he needs space, give it to him and move on.
*in fact HE WILL distance even more
Thanks LetltB....I keep things real light and don't ask for anything. I check on him out of pure concern, we had so very deep talks be fore his mom died and I knew he would take it very hard. His text response was very pleasant. I am just glad he is okay.
Posted by VirgoFlirt
.... they are included in my life from day one. There is no putting you off.
Indeed. A Virgo is a steady, reliable man in a relationship that he wants to be in.
Posted by VirgoFlirt
The keywords here are ''''Pushed YOU Away.''''
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This Gemini in here is unable to put two and two together. Everytime a reality is pointed out, such as, "Pushed YOU Away", she comes back with excuses and reasons why this Virgo really was into her ... but, then she is unable to realize the actuality of he dipped.
There's no connection in her brain.
A Virgo is a steadfast partner who doesn't go missing ... but, that is ONLY if he wants you as his partner.
IN this case, she did something to him to make him back off .... but, she refuses to accept it because she is one of those deluded Princesses.
Posted by P-AngelPosted by VirgoFlirt
.... they are included in my life from day one. There is no putting you off.
Indeed. A Virgo is a steady, reliable man in a relationship that he wants to be in.
Posted by VirgoFlirt
The keywords here are ''''Pushed YOU Away.''''
This Gemini in here is unable to put two and two together. Everytime a reality is pointed out, such as, "Pushed YOU Away", she comes back with excuses and reasons why this Virgo really was into her ... but, then she is unable to realize the actuality of he dipped.
There's no connection in her brain.
A Virgo is a steadfast partner who doesn't go missing ... but, that is ONLY if he wants you as his partner.
IN this case, she did something to him to make him back off .... but, she refuses to accept it because she is one of those deluded Princesses.click to expand
P-ANGEL...ONCE AGAIN!!!!TOU GOT ME, YOU KNOW IT ALL...EVIL TREETRUNK!
I think he is saying that he needs some space. Still very much interested and since I am a Virgo if I wanted the space I would still like to know I am thought of. I think a "good morning " text or a bible verse (if he is religious) to lift his spirit.
No one can imagine that thought but one thing I know is that Virgo's like to know when they have crossed your mind. Not too much!
No one can imagine that thought but one thing I know is that Virgo's like to know when they have crossed your mind. Not too much!
i agree with Clueless!!!
Posted by VirgoCupcake
I think he is saying that he needs some space. Still very much interested and since I am a Virgo if I wanted the space I would still like to know I am thought of. I think a "good morning " text or a bible verse (if he is religious) to lift his spirit.
No one can imagine that thought but one thing I know is that Virgo's like to know when they have crossed your mind. Not too much!
Thanks VirgoCupcake...I appreciate the suggestions :-)
Posted by CluelessCancer
P ANgel seriously, if a man doesn't have the balls to tell a woman when she's done something wrong, and communicate to her, than he's not worth anything, nothing but the bottom of her shoes.
seriously can all the MEN please stand up...
BRAVO!!!!!
Posted by CluelessCancer
P ANgel seriously, if a man doesn't have the balls to tell a woman when she's done something wrong, and communicate to her, than he's not worth anything, nothing but the bottom of her shoes.
Posted by CoCoa
.... I felt a bit disrespected so I said something to him about it being very rude and he got a little nasty and said something about me being
Posted by CoCoa
insecure...this conversation was not nice and we both became silent ....
After that he would not take my calls and became very distant.
I did finally see him last week .... he looked and acted like a person I had never seen before, I could see the hurt and pain in his face and he was extremely irritated about everything.
We said something about always being friends ... I told him "I missed the high I used to get when he would light up when he saw me". he gave me a very weak smile.
During that conversation he also said he was too old to be living his life in the fast lane....that he was good being by himself right now.
We walked to our cars he gave me my belongings back and hugged me and kissed me several times on my cheek .....
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He did communicate to her that it was finished, and even gave her stuff back to her.
the fact that SHE can't handle it ... isn't his problem like she is attempting to make it sound. Even you comment about how he isn't communicating with her, and the fact is, he did.
So, that would make you deluded, just like her, and all the rest of the morons in here who can't read.
Posted by P-AngelPosted by CluelessCancer
P ANgel seriously, if a man doesn't have the balls to tell a woman when she's done something wrong, and communicate to her, than he's not worth anything, nothing but the bottom of her shoes.
Posted by CoCoa
.... I felt a bit disrespected so I said something to him about it being very rude and he got a little nasty and said something about me being
Posted by CoCoa
insecure...this conversation was not nice and we both became silent ....
After that he would not take my calls and became very distant.
I did finally see him last week .... he looked and acted like a person I had never seen before, I could see the hurt and pain in his face and he was extremely irritated about everything.
We said something about always being friends ... I told him "I missed the high I used to get when he would light up when he saw me". he gave me a very weak smile.
During that conversation he also said he was too old to be living his life in the fast lane....that he was good being by himself right now.
We walked to our cars he gave me my belongings back and hugged me and kissed me several times on my cheek .....
He did communicate to her that it was finished, and even gave her stuff back to her.
the fact that SHE can't handle it ... isn't his problem like she is attempting to make it sound. Even you comment about how he isn't communicating with her, and the fact is, he did.
So, that would make you deluded, just like her, and all the rest of the morons in here who can't read.click to expand
#nuggetsogold
Posted by VirgoFlirtPosted by CluelessCancer
VirgoFlirt you always come in and make these comments,so how do you know a VIRGO actually does want you, can you say without a doubt, that sometimes maybe a Virgo wants his space, but still wants you around...why is it all or nothing for you? curious...
If I want anything to do with any female, they are included in my life from day one. There is no putting you off. They may not be around me physically at all hours of the day but somewhere / sometime they will get included, even if it's a single text, email or phone call. Another thing, you want ever meet any family members or friends if your not designated to 'be'. You want go any where with him important and I for sure, will not share anything of importance with you.
If you are liked / wanted there really is not that thing people refer to as 'space'. What that is, is a mutual thing in a relationship that is healty. Like a guys or girls night out. You see there is a huge thing, that some can not just understand.
This should really clear the mess up now, right? I used to be that wild virgo you see, so I should know a lil wee bit.click to expand
This not only applies to Virgo men, but men in general. I am always amazed when I hear a woman questioning her man when he shows her he is committed. Then there's the flip side when a man starts to distance himself from a woman and for whatever reason that woman refuses to believe that it is over.
Another sweet, thought provoking thread with thick frosting and sprinkled with jimmies.
Posted by CoCoa
I know myself very well.....the last face to face encounter with this man made me feel as though I was a stranger or alien from another country, he was cold and very distant. Told me that he was OKAY BY HIMSELF RIGHT NOW...and that he is TOO OLD TO BE LIVING IN THE FAST LANE. I asked to take him out and be with him on his birthday...he said I don't know what I am doing, I may spend it with my brothers(his close friends) or his father. I asked him to let me know and he never called me and when I did reach out to wish him a happy birthday he said thanks. When someone gives you your belongings back and says they want to be all new....why chase them? I reached out a few times via text and all I get is very dry responses...I say I am praying for you and I get back thanks...VIRGOS ARE A WALKING, TALKING CONTRADICTION....I CAN'T READ MINDS and since we were fairly new to each other I was at a loss for what his true character/behavior actually is...I felt I would be subjected to more rejection and coldness if I kept pursuing him as I did before...I WAS OPEN and he KNEW IT! He sees a picture of me and a celebrity friend of mine on Facebook and then post this....he throw me back in the water, I have not heard from him in a month other than a dry AZZ text. Come on this has got to be some game......REALLY!!!!
You sound really fucking dense, for reals.
In the above, it's perfectly clear that he broke up with you, but, you kept chasing him with him not giving even giving you any bones ... but, you kept up, even praying for him, which we all know the only reason you told him that was for purposes of trying to get him to respond back to you in a manner which pleases you.
Everything you've said here sounds like a game on your part ... trying to maneuver him to benefit you, eventhough he broke up with you.
And then you have the audacity to say that he's must be playing a game with you ... when in reality, he dumped you, then ignored you, while YOU were the one who was saying things to him trying to get him to move along your game board.
I take that back, you're not dense ... just a cunt.
Once again I appreciate all the Constructive feedback...but may I ask a question? I have read on this site as well as many others that when a Virgo is done with you they stop complete communication with you and you never see or hear from them again. The guy I speak about here has still contacted me via text, as a matter of fact he did so just this week. Why reach out if as many have stated he is done with me?
Posted by LoveorlustPosted by P-Angel
Here's the truth, if you think you can handle ... which I doubt, considering all of your babble past this point seemed to be oblivious ..... which means, you can't get past your own ego in having to be right .....
Posted by CoCoa
.... he has a very high profile position in law enforcement, for a few days he was calling me and kept saying let me call you back, this went on for three days and I felt a bit disrespected so I said something to him about it being very rude .....
You showed zero understanding of his position and his hardships on the job .. and couldn't seem to handle your emotions ... so you decided to throw your insecurities in his face.
Once an insecure female shows her true emotional colors to a Virgo guy .... you're done.
+1000
You fucked up right here.
This is it right here, the beginning of the needy you showing... Virgo ain't got time for that shit!click to expand
Yes...I know.
Posted by Loveorlust
Listen you can still win him back but if this is your true nature being needy and I'm not being a bitch here, then it probably isn't going to work anyway... Burgos and their work and family is #1 priorities ALWAYS! ALWAYS! I know trust me on that!
Okay...I am open to listen, honestly no one has ever deemed me needy or insecure. I was completely stressed the day I treetrunked up..I really want to know Loveorlust, how can I turn this around?
CoCoa: I really want to know Loveorlust, how can I turn this around?
You can't; and, if he's like me, he won't.
I love my Gemini Baby Sister, but no way in hell would I ever let a GemGal have my heart. It's not your insecurity, it's his avoidance of all the Air Sign DRAMA and Topsy-turfy crap. We like to be Grounded, which is the exact opposite of your true nature.
(Not being a cyber-bully, just stating a Virgo Opinion on the Virgo Forum.)
So... go hook up with some Fire Sign Dude. I've seen some happy Gem + Saggy couples.
As for Virgos being Loners: We're self-sufficient & autonomous, and that apparently drives lots of y'all ape-shit. Too bad. OTH: Of the dozen or so Virgos I know in RL, only 2 are presently single.
Posted by ShakenNotStirred
CoCoa: I really want to know Loveorlust, how can I turn this around?
You can't; and, if he's like me, he won't.
I love my Gemini Baby Sister, but no way in hell would I ever let a GemGal have my heart. It's not your insecurity, it's his avoidance of all the Air Sign DRAMA and Topsy-turfy crap. We like to be Grounded, which is the exact opposite of your true nature.
(Not being a cyber-bully, just stating a Virgo Opinion on the Virgo Forum.)
So... go hook up with some Fire Sign Dude. I've seen some happy Gem + Saggy couples.
As for Virgos being Loners: We're self-sufficient & autonomous, and that apparently drives lots of y'all ape-shit. Too bad. OTH: Of the dozen or so Virgos I know in RL, only 2 are presently single.
I don't like Saggy's, thanks but no thanks....I have dated a few in the past, YUCK! ARIES, LEOS AND LIBRAS .....LOVE THEM :-)!
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